#you probably don't think thats a fair comparison. yea its not exactly the same but point is yea its not exactly something you should be

[cugzarui]

you know something odd? the pharmacists giving plan B in my country said you can only take it once every few months but now i cant find a source for it? and im pretty sure the government doesn't cover plan B where im from (its a little pricey here) so i guess you win some you lose some

but seriously is it like a common thing in the world for doctors to make inappropriate comments about a patient's sex life? sounds horrendous

I hope to never be in the position where I have to consider getting an abortion due to rape or incest. This post is not about that.

But, I need to say this about all of the pro-abortion people I’ve encountered in my life so far. Including every female doctor, and especially every OB/GYN I’ve ever seen.

When I’ve brought up, or even hinted, that I’m saving myself for marriage to these people—again, even my own doctors—they’ve acted like I’m insane. As if, because I’ve decided that the responsibility and risk that comes with possibly getting pregnant and having a kid doesn’t outweigh the proposed benefits of casual sex, I’m utterly ridiculous. I’ve been laughed at. I’ve been told « we need to change that as soon as possible. »

By people who claim they’re fighting for me to have control over my own body.

So, if it’s truly my body, my choice, why do you mock those of us who say, « not until I’m ready and I’ve found the right one. » « Not until I can handle it and what might come after the fact. »

Sex is a choice, too. Sometimes, agency and owning your body is also saying no, rather than sleeping around. I would take pro-choice people more seriously if they weren’t so condescending when you say you’ve turned people down because you don’t want to have sex with whoever is available.