#you are NOT intruding anything. quite the opposite. you'd spread positivity and love. you're so so welcome to be part of the enjoyment

[kimtaegis]

i completely understand where youre coming from when you posted abt the fandom being selective and disengaged armys have been over the years here on tumblr. however, i would just like to give a perspective as an outsider with no mutuals here whatsoever—i guess some of us just feel like we’re not supposed to comment/engage when the content is tagged (some may construe it as dedicated) to your mutual/s. like it may seem to us that it’s you guys’ thing so we don’t wanna rain on your parade or smth like that. and there isn’t really anything wrong with that bc like you said, it’s a sign of appreciation. but yeah at least personally, i don’t feel comfy reblogging it bc i don’t wanna intrude or make it seem like i’m imposing myself on you guys’ friendship. although i also understand the other pov that it may come off as an exclusive thing.

ah man it upsets me so much that you feel that way about it, honestly, like I wish it wouldn’t make you feel as an “outsider” who’s not allowed to enjoy these posts. that’s absolutely not what anyone wants here. if it was only meant for one person or group to enjoy, I wouldn’t post it on my blog but send it to them privately you know? for me, it’s more like… this person who is being tagged inspired me to do something specific, and/ or they motivated me to make something about that content at all bc otherwise I wouldn’t take the time to sit down and create in the first place anymore, because again, no one reblogs much anymore. I can’t believe this source of motivation to put something out there has turned out to drive active followers even further away from reblogging that bit of content that’s still being made. it’s just. such a pity, I don’t know