#yiiiiikes this got sad

[henrik-von-schneeplestein]

sorry we keep coming to bother you with stuff like this, but did you happen to see the nasty 'creepy comment' about ego shipping huffle-dork made before retagging it? that horrid septic-dr-schneep came in with their own stupid post. are shippers in the wrong for being upset? should there be an anti ego shipping tag for those that don't like it you think? (sorry if including their names doesn't sit well with you) ~🥀

Yiiiiikes omg I was at work and didn’t see at all but I did some ~research~ and jesus fucking christ lol

Shippers are definitely allowed to be upset at being called creepy (can’t believe that needs saying but this is the JSE fandom so) but honestly this is one of those things that I don’t even have the capacity to be angry about anymore. Anyone who ships the egos has heard this, and we’ve heard it eight million times. We know exactly what these people say about us, and we also know that no one else in the community cares. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it every day if I have to: the reason things like this are so asinine and hurtful are because ego shippers are without contest the nicest part of this fandom (they’re also the most talented, which is I think a bigger part of the issue than people realize lol - for some of those people, it truly is jealousy). I don’t give a single fuck if people in this fandom like me; it’s when I see people, especially LGBTQ+ people, talk about how ashamed they feel of shipping and making secret blogs to avoid backlash for it, that I get angry. Because to see the kindest, most welcoming people in the fandom feeling like they don’t belong - being told that they don’t belong - is heartbreaking.

I didn’t see the ‘should people who hate ego ships have their own tag’ part of the discourse, but all I can say is that if the concept of gay people writing stories that represent their own identities makes you so angry that you feel the need to comment on it in literally any way that isn’t ‘hey I personally don’t like ego shipping so don’t tag me in it or send it to me,’ I don’t think what you need is a tag, I think what you need is probably therapy. 

Unless what you meant is should there be a specific tag they can block, in which case the answer is absolutely: the name of whatever ship they’re uncomfortable with. It’s absolutely valid to be uncomfortable with/hate a certain ship - I’m sure plenty of shippers have a few - and if there’s more than one, you can easily block more than one ship name. If you hate the concept of any of these male characters being shipped together, it’s your responsibility to block all those tags. Some people may tag ‘ego shipping’ on fanworks they post (sometimes it’s nice to do - I track ‘ego shipping!’ Get that exposure, y’all!) but that’s in no way required. It’s not something that necessitates warning, like violence or sexual content; there’s nothing inherently objectionable or controversial about ego shipping (or any other queer content) so it doesn’t need to be tagged and it most certainly doesn’t need to be warned for. 

By the wayside, using names is fine on my blog. I’m definitely a big believer in ‘if what you’re saying is justified, you sign your name to it and don’t subpost or be passive aggressive; own it entirely, otherwise it’s just gossip and shit talk.’ I’ll always risk ‘drama’ to make my stance clear.  Every time I see a blog that has one of those weird insult things isa-ghost gives out in their description - idk if it’s an AU or like a joke but they’re like “’ugly carrot’ according to isa-ghost” or “’unwanted suitcase’ according to isa-ghost” - I desperately want to add “’petty shipper’ according to isa-ghost” to my description but I mean I think that might validate the ‘petty’ part a little too much jghjfgh. ‘Horrid’ is maybe a stronger word than I would use for s-d-s but I mean if they’ve made you feel uncomfortable you have a right to say so. I’ve never had an issue with people just saying on their own blog that they personally don’t like shipping which to the best of my knowledge is what that person mainly sticks to, even if I agree it’s pretty clear that her stance is the same as the people who are actively horrible to us, and I did take issue with something (unrelated to shipping) she said once so I don’t really interact with her. The blogs I’m always talking about that I really find disgusting are the ones that call us gross, the ones that claim we shouldn’t like it or should ‘trigger warn’ it, the ones who say we don’t belong in the community, the ones who say we should ‘have our lgbt cards taken away’ lol. That’s the thing - we literally are asking for the most basic of respect. The bar is literally underground, and these people just keep picking up shovels.

Honestly, my reaction to this happening is ‘well, what are we gonna do about it?’ Not in a defeatist way - I’m genuinely asking. What can we do to make sure all the wonderful, creative, talented, sweet ego shippers know that they’re valued members of this community, and deserve better than this kind of treatment? To anyone who may still be reading who isn’t actively a shipper but likes to consider themselves a kind & welcoming community, I’m sorry, but I need to ask you to do better. If you see someone saying something actively mean or disrespectful about ego shippers, at the very least, unfollow & stop interacting. I know that’s a big ask, even if it shouldn’t be, because these are big blogs and you want to feel included and have friends. But continuing to support them is by nature saying that it’s acceptable behavior, that it’s just a difference of opinion, and again, once it crosses that line, it’s not anymore. By all means, interact with people who don’t ship and don’t like shipping - interact with ONLY those people if you want. And of course I can’t tell you what to do when it comes to the downright mean people, I’m just asking you to consider what you’re saying when you tolerate people who insult and demean certain community members for no reason, and I’m also asking you not to further insult us by telling us you support us while making it very clear that you don’t care if we’re treated with basic respect or not.

And to the shippers, my ‘what can we do?’ is a genuine, open-ended question. If there’s anything that I personally can do to make you feel welcome in this community, please tell me what it is. I’m not a very popular blog at all, but you should always feel free to tag me in/send me any ego ship content and I’ll happily reblog it, and god knows I’m always around to talk about ships, AUs, headcanons, and that kind of thing! I’m also around to talk just in general - if you’re feeling ashamed, angry, or sad about your place in the fandom, I’ve always got open ears and heart emojis for you. I love you very much and I’m glad you’re here.

[nico-robin-official]

Straw Hat backstories ranked by tragedy:

Luffy (a): 3/10 - honestly, not THAT bad. Luffy is broadly shielded from direct consequences of his actions, and the loss of Shanks’ arm didn’t really seem to have much effect - he still became a goddamn Yonko a few years down the line.

Zoro: 4/10 - a bit better, actual character death, and directly motivating Zoro to this day, but it’s (imo) waylaid by the “she fell down some stairs” explanation for Kuina’s death, which instantly sends me into “wild conspiracy theorist” mode and distracts from the emotional impact

Usopp: 4/10 - undoubtedly tragic, but in a very mundane and almost frustrating way. Like, seriously, NOBODY took this kid in after his mother died? No one acknowledged the blatantly obvious coping mechanism? Not a soul?

Sanji (a): 8/10 - JESUS CHRIST. The gradual loss of hope, the absolute lack of restraint in portraying how bad Sanji would look after starving for that long, ZEFF’S LEG..... what the actual fuck Oda, forreal.

Nami: 7/10 - point down from Sanji’s due to being less horrifically visceral, but still, YIKES. Not only in what happens during the backstory, but the fact that the “tragic backstory” essentially just KEEPS GOING until the current events, that Nami is STILL dealing with That up to present day... Man, fuck Arlong.

Chopper: 6/10 - the fact that his life was rough from the start adds points, but once he found Hililuk.... Hiriluk? Hiriruk? Hiliruk? Crazy Doctor Dude, things kinda settle. While Chopper was TECHNICALLY responsible for CDD’s death, it didn’t make too big a difference overall, and he found safe haven with Kureha not long after, so that’s nice. He obviously still had hang-ups by the time the Straw Hats got there, it wasn’t really an ongoing situation.

Franky: 6/10 - starts rough, directly and significantly responsible for shit going bad later on, but did later move on to his own business, what with the Franky Family and all. Also, undermined by the inherent hilarity and wtf-factor of Franky’s existence

Robin: 9/10 - NOW I MIGHT BE BIASED, BUT CONSIDER: Horrible from the start, bullied by kids and worked like a slave by her family, finally starts making some friends and then loses everything, and perhaps worst of all, is forced into continuously horrible situations for the next TWENTY YEARS. Robin’s Tragic Backstory lasted for MOST OF MY OWN LIFETIME. That is dark.

Brook: 8/10 - LOST his found family, AND trapped on a boat with their corpses for the better part of 50 years. Yiiiiikes. Bonus points for Binks’ Sake of sadness.

Luffy (b): 4/10 - a bit rougher, since it includes actual character death... from Luffy’s perspective, at the time at least. Honestly, it’s more Sabo’s tragic backstory, but unless he wants to join the Straw Hats, that’s none of this post’s business 

Jimbei.... Jinbei? Jimmbles. : 2/10 - his early life isn’t THAT bad, and it loses points bc it’s not really fixated on HIM. Jimbo’s tragic backstory is also Fisher Tiger’s tragic backstory, and Arlong’s tragic backstory, and Koala’s tragic backstory, and Kizaru’s... okay, there’s nothing tragic about Kizaru’s role, but he is THERE for some reason. This is why you aren’t allowed to stick with the crew Jim Bean, you just haven’t suffered enough.

Sanji (b): 6/10 - as if this kid hadn’t been through enough..... criminy, bad dad, dying/dead mom, bullying older brothers, Man in the Iron Mask’d at a young age... only saving graces are that he was still being fed decently while Mask’d, and that his dad was willing to just. let him leave. So, the Not As Big A Jerk As You Could’ve Been medal goes to Judge Vinsmoke, I guess.

...bettin on a Zoro (b) sometime, but maybe not.

[teavibes]

You're only 24 and you got knocked up? Yiiiiikes. Good luck. Hope you enjoyed your freedom while you had it.

Lol yikes sorry you have such a sad life that thinking having a family is so horrible and lacks freedom. You got a warped veiw for surrrreee. I dont revolve my life around poor decision making and partying and actually have space for love and things I enjoy 🤷🏻‍♀️ good luck with that bitter attitude boo

[mittensmorgul]

1/2 I'm re-watching a lot of season 13 in preparation for s14, and I think what i love the most about the first 6 or 7 eps of the season was the way they portrayed grief. Sam was heartbroken but dealt with it by pushing forward and focusing on Mary (in his mind the only hope spot). The "we lost our friend and i'm extremely sad but we have a mission to complete." His heartfelt goodbye at the pyre was supposed to be just that. Same as they've done for several others. But you move on.

2/2 Except Dean can't and it causes confusion in Sam. He even says "Yeah, what about Cas?" And that's when I realized Sam doesn't get it like I thought he did. Why can't Dean move on? Why can't they just pick up and go like they have been? Death sucks but they've been through it. Dean should be able to soldier through it but he just can't. And Sam is only just beginning to understand.

Hi hi! And oooh, good plan! I just got the shipping notification for the s13 blu ray, and I cannot WAIT to see the gag reel... but yeah, I really need to rewatch it again. I haven’t seen it in like... 4 whole weeks now >.>

BUT YES.

There’s long been a healthy, thriving debate between the “Sam Obviously Knows” and the “Sam Is Totally Clueless” camps. I myself have vacillated between the two for years, and I enjoy fic written from both perspectives. But s13 really put a lot of points on the board for the Clueless Camp.

Or at the very least, the “doesn’t get the whole picture” camp.

To the point where his cluelessness became a plot point on which the entire season was built. I mean, that was the divergence point between Sam and Dean’s emotional arcs for the entire season. Sam was Most Concerned about finding a way to rescue Mary, but he’d accepted Cas’s death. Dean was DESTROYED by Cas’s death, and it left him relatively hopeless about pretty much everything else, up to and including his own life.

So yeah... Sam might get that Dean and Cas have a special bond that goes beyond what he himself feels for Cas, but yiiiiikes he doesn’t (or at least didn’t, and likely still hasn’t had a chance to fully evaluate why) see the whole picture.

I mean, poor Sam, but also, this is something I hope they build on in s14, wrapping in Cas’s perspective here too, now that he and Sam will hopefully have some more quality time together with Dean in trouble again. It’ll be interesting to see how each of them show similarly different reactions, and maybe help Sam put more of those puzzle pieces together. :D

[ishqbaaaaz]

Ishqbaaaz - Sept 22/17 - Episode 374

Gauri and Annika are trying to figure out what to do and theyve decided theyre gonna help Suman run away

Gauri is getting up to leave

AND NOW SHES RUNNING

AND THERES ANNIKA AFTER HER

The aunties stopped Gauri

shes like i gotta pee

they gonna go with her what kind of invasion on privacy

Aw shit Annika got booked

RUN BABY RUN

she finds a room but its locked

HA I KNEW THERE WAS GONNA BE SOMETHING IN  THE TRAVEL BAG

Shivaay put a switch blade ohmygod 

I hope theres pepper spray too

SHE SAID THANK YOU SHIVAAY

AND HE FELT IT

THE AWARENESSSSS

Hes still looking at rings

homeboy left his phonnne are you really SSO

Oh Suman’s in the room

Annika tries to call Shivaay and obvi he aint answering

Suman’s lost hope

Annika tells her that theyre gonna help her run away

Gauri is in a fix

homegirl is gonna climb out the window

Lmao Rudra feels relief after peeing 

Bhavya feels like someone is following her

The gaonwale break the door

The dupatta on the girl’s head

that aint Suman i can feel it 

Annika does this all the damn TIME

For Tia....for Priyanka...

This aunty giving Rudra gyaan about shaadi and age

LOL IMAGINING WHAT ITLL BE LIKE MARRIED TO BHAVYA AND EXPECTING A BABY

Homie needs to grow up

LOL THIS KID CALLED HIM UNCLE BYE

Gauri is calling Om and this trash probs wont answer

HE DIDNT OMKARA WHAT TH FUCK

Theyve arrived at he mandap

and Annika gives the ishara that its her

These gaonwale are gonna kill them man

GAURI IS GONNA DRIVE THE MOTORCYCLE

ITS LIKE CHAMPA BUT ELEVATED

Champa 2.0

shes gonna use Internet Chachi ahaha

Annika is still calling Shivaay

Ruvya and all the peeps playing antakshari

He says he’ll learn old songs because she thinks theyre cute

that shit is cute

his letter is M 

Rudra is trying to think of an old song because she’ll like it

BHAVYA BUSTS OUT MY NAME IS SHEILA

hes SHOOKED

now theyre all dancing this is so cute

Someone is watching them

Annika is panicking

these guys are gross

PULL A ZOYA FAROOQUI AND RUN AWAY ANNIKA

The dude noticed her shoes

oh no who knew Chandni would betray her like this

Pehl gaya raita!

Aaaand off goes the ghugnghat - props spelled that wronggg

Shivaay finally notices the missed calls oh my god

Om got calls too

Shivaay is like what the fuck why wouldnt you answer

ANNIKA ANSWERED THANK GOD

THEY TOOK AND PHONE AND POINTED A GUN AT HER

SHIVAAY GET TO THE GAON LIKE ASAP ROCKY

Theyre like we gonna fuck you up

shes like bitch wait until my husband gets here

GAURI

BHOJAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAI

SHES HERE ON CHAMPA 2.0

FUCK THEM UP GAURI YAS

THEYRE LEAVING 

IM DYING THIS IS GREAT

SUMAN DIDNT LEAVE???

OH SHE GOT IN TOO

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS

LOOK AT THEM GO YAS

This is incredible

this kid wants to play luddo and asks Bhavya

Rudra is like let her rest

LOL Bhavya is like im only 4 yrs older not 40

ok honestly this is a bit boring

Swety omg boring forwarddddd

nvm Jhanvi looks like shes gonna beat her with a stick

she needs keys to open a painting? what?

they got the video back

LOL SWETY THREW A PLANT AT TEJ AND RAN AMAZING

Bhavya feels like someone is following her

Who the fuck is this

Akhram?

man they even used the same name from QH

Oh Bhavya knows him

Rudra is confused af

Aw she called him just a friend and he got sad

He invites him to a guesthouse party

Bhavya doesnt wanna go

Rudra says lets go

shes like bitch i said no

but she changed her mind

AKHRAM IS GONNA BE NASTY I CAN FEEL IT

Khanna

A PERSON JUST WALKED INTO THE HOUSE IN A WHITE SHEET

KHANNA JI YOU NEED TO BE FIRED HONESTLY

Why is Pinky picking out jewelry for Shivaay’s shaadi???

LIKE???? YOU’RE NOT HAPPY??

YOU HATE ANNIKA????

YOU RUINED YOUR SON’S LIFE???

I DONT UNDERSTAND

Its Swety and shes asking Pinky for help

Dadi in to see Pinky because she suspects

Pinky is hiding Swety

ugh honestly Pinky you are trash and will forever be trash

SHE GAVE SWETY MONEY???

WHAT

Ruvya and co at the guesthouse

These nasty boys want badla because Bavya slapped him back in the day for being nasty

Tej is  back to normal

hes asking for forgiveness from Shakti

YOU SHOULD BE ASKING FORGIVENESS FROM JHANVI AND OM

I still dont know how to feel about Tej

The function

LOL JHANVI WHAT 

“iss baar hum functions dhoom dhaam se karenge” SO ALL THAT HAPPENED WASNT DHOOM DHAAM?

Pinky is staring all jealous like

Theyre calling the kiddos to find out whee they are

This guy just locked Rudra into the room

Bhavya is washing her face

why are you washing it like that bby

Akhram is all nasty

kick his ASS bby

2 MORE GUYS

SHE SLIPPED ONE OF THEM WITH SOAP AND IS CLEARING HER FACE NOW

they grabbing her 

all nasty

Rudra trying to get out

KICK THEIR ASSES BHAVYA COME ON

SHE STABBED HIM WITH SCISSORS

THIS NASTY GUY IS A COP AND IS BEING ALL NASTY

Rudra showed up 15 mins late with starbucks

shes like fuck it lets go

he called Rudy a baccha

FUCK HIM UP RUDY

YA’LL DONT KNOW HIS DOLEY SHOLEYYYY

AND OUT COMES HER GUN

where was this gun before

Bhavua is cheesed

Shes like you dont listen to me

shes mad at his immaturity yiiiiikes

Tej’s photo is broken and Jhanvi is worried

oh it was Swety lmao

THATS IT? 

Precap: Annika and co on the run and the gunday are after them

Shivaay and Om tryna call the girls

CHAMP 2.0 IS OUT OF GAS

Well this was a boring as fuck episode lmao. All filler. Oh well. See ya’ll next weeeeek

[3inghao]

ok hi this is crush anon and theres a lot i need to update you on ,, ok so. yesterday it was our friends birthday and they all went out for dinner minus me and one of our other suitemates, but after that they came back to the dorm with alcohol and they asked if i wanted to play beer pong with them and i was like HELL YEAH and it just so happened that as we started playing we naturally grouped up so that my crush (lets call him x) and i were the only ones left and so x says like (1/6)

‘hey you and i are a team’ and i was like ok cool (ahhh) and so like in the middle of the first round x gets a call and he takes it out of the room and he comes back and he says it was the frat that he rushed for and that they didnt accept him and he looked really sad and we all felt so bad for him but i think he was trying to cover it up. so x comes back over and i quietly ask him if hes ok, and hes like… 'should i get fucked up rn?’ and i say yeah i think its acceptable for (2/6)

tonight lets get fucked up so we kick the drinking up a notch (mostly x though) and continue our game and it turns out the two of us are really good at beer pong,,,, bc we like win the tournament and yeah LMAOO but as the night went on he got drunker and drunker and after id make a shot in beer pong or whatever wed celebrate and it started with like high fives and stuff but as the night went on we started hugging and (3/6)

the more he drank the touchier he got, like letting his hands linger around my waist and back and like ,,, see the thing is i knew he was drunk and i knew this wouldnt be happening if he hadnt just been rejected/if he was sober but at the same time i was drunk enough to ignore it ?? if that makes sense?? anyways so hes like hammered at this point and he leaves and goes to the other room for a while and when he comes back hes on the phone with this girl he knew (4/6)

from hs and he says hes trying to hook up with her rn and im like ofc he is,, but then one of our friends was like 'wait what he told me he was only into asian girls’ (which is also weird bc i dont think a single one of his exs have been asian although im not sure) AND THEN EVERYONE TURNS TO LOOK AT ME AND OHHHS even though one of our other suitemates is asian too??? and i was like wtf im so not here for this yellow fever… but anyways x gets rejected by the girl on (5/6)  

the phone or something and so he drinks a little more and then he starts throwing up and so he threw up for like 2 hours and we were basically rotating who was like with him and making sure he was ok and he ended up sleeping in our room bc he was so fucked up and like ahhh i realize that hes a grown ass man and should know how much alcohol he can handle but i still felt reeaaally bad about telling him it was ok to get fucked up ahhhh and im so confused about my feelings for him too (6/6)

THIS IS CRUSH ANON UPDATE: MY FRIENDS ARE HELPING HIM SWIPE ON TINDER RN ,,,,,, AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, theyre judging all the girls that come up yiiiiikes im dying im officially dead im a c t u a l l y d e c e a s e d

woowwwow bruh u wrote a five paragraph essay for me lol I’m sorry i couldn’t answer it sooner, i wanted to though. (i’ve been under a lot of stress lately). Anyways….wow umm….i don’t even know what to say to this and even tho u told him it was alright for him to get hammered, you guys still did the right thing by letting him crash in your room and also keeping an eye on him. and also it was really sweet of you to go up and ask if he was fine after gettin rejected..but also UMMM DOES HE LIKE YOU WHY DID EVERYONE TURN AN LOOK AT YOU THAT’S SO WILD IDK WHAT TO MAKE OF ANY OF THIS and the pingpong thing?!??!?!?!  but the tinder thing?! have u told one of your roommates that you like him yet bc they should be settin u up with him not setting him up with tinders people!! he gotta girl right here! how have things been between the two of you since the drunk night?