#yes i agree there are some biasi

[zorara89]

growing up

i have always seesn and heard dad seprarting peole to valuable, unvaluable, worthy of invitation, traitors or with high morals.

i have always felt less or doubted my confidence due to his way to be littling me. do i agree on his way no. do i imitate him by belittling people and looking down and them and separtating my self from them yes some times, does he fell pain from people yes, he maked sure to put them down and in return people stopped viisiting him and he doesnt care and in return speaks badly about them.

he uses this way of addressing the negative in people and like criticize them and scorn and despise them, forgetting the negative and dark side of himself. o should be clever and open enough to differniate between who is good for me, who serves my way of living and how i like to come across and who doesnt,

i look down and despise her and scorn her for being cheap and not giving and and stingy maybe i despise this because it is how i see myself with my parents, and how i dont give back despite the generousity of them, and how i can be much more giving in return, but looking back i didnt do her justice, because she always brought the best gifts and still does, i shouldnt apply my judgments and biasis to me and i should remind myself to blend with others do because i am part of them, i posses that dark side too and i am aware and do everyday so i should fill my soul with humility and acceptance of what comes out of others, not to despise them but at the same time surround myself with people who are self aware and reflecting enough to recognize their mistakes and virtues and show their virtues with me,