#why don't you experience some human emotions for FIVE FUCKING SECONDS before turning to the slop dispenser

[tieronecrush]

I don’t think any of us were prepared for Dad!Javi. If we were, we certainly weren’t ready to find out he’s going to become a father again! If you’re willing, I’d love to hear about the pregnancy and/or the newborn phase for these 2nd time parents nearly 25 years after their first.

AGH finally getting around to this after the busy week! i live and die for dad!javi so i have of course imagined this in great detail lol so hears some headcanons below the cut:

you both decide to wait to find out the gender until they're born, but javi only knows what being a girl dad is like so he is hoping the whole time that it's another daughter

when it turns out to be another little girl he is over the moon and is so excited that his second girl has such an amazing big sister to look up to, even with the age difference "you, little one, have the coolest big sister. she's a lot older than you but she is so excited to have you as a sibling and i can't wait for you to grow up and be cooler and smarter and everything more than me, just like she is...and just like your mama is."

even though this is the second child and not y'all's first rodeo, javi is still an overprotective and doting bundle of energy. not nervous per say, but he wants everything to go perfect and for baby and mom to be healthy and it's twenty years later so he's had some lapse in memory about what all you have to do in preparation

which is why he comes home one day with a stack of five baby books, and some children's books for the baby. when you questioned him, all he said was that he "wants to be ready for anything". ever the strategist. also, he definitely baby proofs the house way too early and you get so annoyed with the finicky locks on everything that you make him de-baby proof and wait until your birth window

the man also cannot keep his hands off of you. this isn't new, but especially being away from you for so long and now he gets to see you carry his baby again? forget any personal space you had.

nothing gets him going more than seeing you with your bump growing and he marvels at the fact that you're growing a literal human inside of you. he's been witness to the miracle before, but now having the experience of watching a mix of the two of you grow and become a fully formed human that he loves and thinks is pretty damn cool, he cannot wait for another to be in the world. buuuuut also the fact that he can't keep his hands off of you also means that your sex life hasn't faltered at all. morning, noon, night, javi is willing to please if you're ever in the mood. not to say he has like a pregnancy kink but seeing you carrying his baby? feral man. would definitely be rasping out something along the lines of "wanna keep you full of me all the time, esposa. i'd give you as many babies as you want; think i'm pretty good at it, we weren't even trying both times and i nailed it." (he's smug about his "little swimmers" knocking you up on *happy* accident both times)

birth goes smoothly, he's right there with you the whole time (he got lightheaded first go round and had to sit down, but this time he knew at least a little more of what to expect)

it was bittersweet for you to have another birth that your family wasn't around for; they disapproved of you deciding to keep lili and be with javi all those years ago, following him to laredo when he got his sheriff job and not getting married when you got pregnant. since then, there has been little to no contact.

but when chucho walks in the room to see his new grandchild, both you lose it. seeing the man who has become like another father figure to you holding his granddaughter that he already loves so much and so unconditionally, you couldn't help but be emotional. javi sits at the edge of the bed with you, sharing a knowing smile and wiping your tears. "they don't know what they're missin', mi amor. you have made two beautiful girls and are having a happy life. they can go fuck themselves." "javi, you're going to make our second child also have a swear as their first word if you keep talking like that...but yeah, they can."

the newborn months are a little rough to start; adjusting to a new schedule, taking your maternity leave and being around the house all day.

you decided to hold off javi's paternity leave - he'd gotten a job consulting for the local police department - until your maternity leave was up, but once the two of you found a routine, it was smooth sailing. you managed days, and javi relieved some of the pressure when he arrived home from work, taking care of the feedings and changes and bedtime routine most nights. it's exhausting for both of you, but the little moments make it worth it. catching photos of javi asleep on the couch with baby asleep on his chest, hands locked into place to secure her safely. the giggles that fill the house and constantly pull smiles from her dad, one of the more stoic men you've known, but always a complete softie for his girls. dancing around the kitchen to the radio with the babe in one of those carriers strapped to his chest. just wholesome fam moments.

i will stop there cause i could go on and on but if anyone has any thoughts about dad javi pls share

also, read my dad!javi fic here if you haven't gotten a chance!

[niktizzy]

I miss Myspace, so here

1. First thing you wash in the shower?

My hair

2. Are you more of a coffee or alcohol drinker?

Oh, well I would have to say coffee but I do drink a lot of beer and tequila. Both?

3. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?

Nope

4. Do you plan outfits?

If I have to, if it's for a special occasion then yes. If it's for work or just around town, hard no. Whatever I pick up first

5. How are you feeling RIGHT now?

E X A U S T E D

6. Whats the closest thing to you thats red?

My blanket or my couch

7. What would you do if you opened your door and saw a dead body?

Look at it for a second, turn around and yell, "alright, which one of you didn't clean up your mess?" to my roommates

8. Tell me about the last dream you remember having?

I can't remember my dreams

9. Three of your current feelings?

Tired, depressed, excited

10. What are you craving right now?

For someone to tell me I'm doing great. That I'm on the right path and everything will work out. Honestly, that's all I want

11. Turn ons?

Physical: Fade, muscles, tattoos, & scruff

Sexual: lip biting, ass grabbing, biting, choked, slapped, teased & being rough.

12. Turn offs?

Bad smile, terrible sense of humor, garbage taste of music, fuck boy life style, awfull kisser

13. What comes to mind when I say cabbage?

Trash

14. When was the last time you cried? Why?

Well as of late, it was from me over thinking and going into a depressed state

15. If you could be a superhero, who would you want to be?

Honestly, a girl version of deadpool even though he's not a super hero. I know but I guess I would say I guess black widow or storm

16. Did the one person who hurt you most in your life apologize?

Lolzzz no mate

17. Do you bite into your ice cream or just lick it?

Lick it you fucking animal

18. Favorite movie ever?

Fight Club or SLC Punk

19. Do you like yourself?

Some days

20. Have you ever met a celebrity?

Yeah, I've met a few

21. Could you handle being in the military?

No

22. What are you listening to right now?

My spotify playlist that is mostly made of pop punk

23. How many countries have you visited?

Just the United States

24. Are your parents strict?

When I was younger, yes 100%. I use to get so frustrated too, but now, I understand. I love them and appreciate them

25. Would you go sky diving?

Why not?

26. Would you go out to eat with a stranger?

I have before so what's one more person

27. Whats on your mind right now?

A lot, but it's not worth bringing up

28. Is there anything you want to say to someone?

I hope you like watching me succeed and make you wish you never played with my emotions, shit head

29. Have you ever been in a castle?

White Castle

30. Do you rent movies often?

I use to, RIP Block Buster

31. Whats your zodiac sign?

Libra

32. When was the last time you had sex?

Last month

33. Name five facts about yourself.

I enjoy watching people getting tattos

I'm a ginger (I've always bleached my hair)

I use to train for MMA

I can't eat bread anymore without feeling like shit

Vodka makes me angry

34. Ever had a near death experience? If so, what happened?

I mean I work in a city so, I almost get killed every time I walk across the street

35. Do you believe in karma or predestiny?

Yeah, karma, she may not show herself right away but she'll catch up to you

36. Brown or white eggs?

Neither

37. Do you own something from Hot Topic?

Old band shirts

38. Ever been on a train?

Honestly no

39. Ever been in love?

Love is for posers

40. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you do it?

Hell yes

41. If you could trade places with any person living or dead, who would you trade places with?

I'm good lol

42. If you could shorten your life expectancy by 10 years to becopme more attractive, would you do it?

Nah I'm good with being a potato

43. Whom do you admire and why?

My parents, they have to deal with me

44. What was your favorite bedtime story as a child?

I do not remember

45. You’re walking down the street, you come across a burning building. A woman says her baby is trapped inside, what would you do?

Nothing heroic, I would call the fire department

46. If you could choose the future profession of your son or daughter, would you?

I can't choose that, they have to find their own path. I just hope they don't have to go through all the rough times like I did to get there

47. What was your best experience on drugs or alcohol?

Honestly, I use to love smoking but it just fucked with my training and fitness so I stopped. I just never found a reason to go back. I would be so relaxed, less stress, love the world a little more. I don't have a novel of my drug usage because I honestly don't, but if I had to choose without any consequences, it would be smoking

48. What was your worst experience on drugs or alcohol?

I love drinking, but every time, especially as I get older, it just sucks waking up. But when I drink vodka in particular, I can be very sweet and flirty and if I see something I don't like or someone is pissing me off, it's like a switch, a bad switch and I plot your murder lol

50. As your walking down the street you find a suitcase full of money sitting next to a parked car, would you take it?

No man, issa trap

51. If you found that a close friend has AIDS, would you still hang out with them?

Yeah, they would more than likely need me more than ever. Why leave them?

52. In front of you are 10 pistols, 5 of which are loaded.

If you survive you’d receive 100 million dollars. Would you be willing to place 1 to your head and pull the trigger?

Half of me says yes and the other half says, "bitch are you crazy" so I kind of have to go with her lol

53. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

17 I think

54. Do you believe in ghosts, werewolves or vampires?

I believe there are things that roam this earth that are not human

55. If you could live forever, would you want to?

I would want to travel, watch the sunset everyday on a beach somewhere, and be less stressed

56. Which fictional movie character most resembles who you are?

Fuckkk, I would have to say Stevo from SLC Punk

57. If you could go back in time, which time period would you visit?

Maybe the 70's but more than likely the future

58. If they were to televise a live execution, would you watch it?

I mean, they kind of show that on CNN and such already sooo

59. If you could be the president of the USA, would you be willing to do it?

Hell no

60. If you could choose the sex of your unborn child, would you want to?

I'm honestly terrified to have a kid but if I had to choose, a girl

61. Would you rather live longer or be wealthy?

It's a toss up mate, you either struggle and live forever or live about the amount of time you thought you would be alive and be wealthy.