#while fps are usually people pwbpd are attached to emotionally. chps are just people the pwnpd like spending their time with/care about | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

collawashbear · 5 months ago

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hi can people who have a chosen person explain what that feels like? and how chosen person differs from favorite person? i am incredibly confused about what chp means and what attachment it's supposed to describe lol

#probably late to this but #basically its someone i just. really like talking to #i’m a very social person. i like talking to people cuz it’s human interaction. i like it bc makes me feel not like a loser loner #but with my CHPs its like. damn i need to talk to this person all of the time cuz they make me extremely happy #like i GENUINELY love interacting and talking to them #cuz they make me happy and every day i wake up and think abt the moment i’m going to talk to them #i chose them because yknow. they make me happy 😊#also i usually do care about them. most ppl i dont and cant care about. but when it comes to them i wonder if they are doing well #they’re worth my time #i don’t really know how my chps develop. its sort of random #but i know i have a chp when my relationship with them feels different #but i do know my chps are usually people who understand me. the way i am and stuff like that #i suppose the difference between fp and chp is the attachment #while fps are usually people pwbpd are attached to emotionally. chps are just people the pwnpd like spending their time with/care about #personally i dont rely on my chps for my ego and self-esteem. but their words usually mean more than others #in a nutshell: chosen person — person i have decided is worth my time and who i confide to have a close relationship with #damn this is long #ramble over #👑

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