#which is just... such a loser ass thing to do lmao. i promise whatever you've gone through doesnt justify inflicting it on others. | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

snekdood · 1 month ago

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ig my problem with the whole bullying thing is that so many of the leftists who do it self identify as communists of some type or really emphasizes community.... but clearly doesn't care about actually cultivating an environment where everyone in the community feels safe and welcome..........

#i kinda dont think you care about community at all and your only issue with america is that *you're* not in charge #i kind of think you're trying to heal your social trauma of being bullied yourself by wanting to gain control of everything and be #the queen bee clique leader this time instead. so YOU can be the one to socially shame and punish people finally #which is just... such a loser ass thing to do lmao. i promise whatever you've gone through doesnt justify inflicting it on others.#i get how you might think it will fix things- sometimes when im really angry and emotional i feel that way too- but be realistic here #you're literally doing nothing but continuing the cycle of abuse. dont you want to be the one who breaks it?#if you care about community so much why dont you know basic conflict resolution skills or how to communicate without making fun #of someone or try to be fair and unbiased or understand that punitive justice is bad or stop fucking bullying people like a fucking child #or how to be democratic or literally ANYTHING that ACTUALLY requires caring about the well being of people that would #also require you to retire being a bully and change for the better #on the note of communication- do you even *know* how to effectively communicate things? and are you sure you do?#bc i assumed i did until i went to therapy and was taught. you have to make the other person feel seen and heard #and i dont mean just *feel* it i mean you do have to actually see and hear them out if you want to come to a compromise or solution #i just really dont think a lot of yall care about community as much as you say and just want a social safety net #which is fine to want just dont then go and pretend you also care so so much about community when you're clearly fine with #dividing it all up

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