#when you make a decision on 1/6 with a deadline of 2/15 and you're stressing yourself out

[akumanoken]

Someone please tell my hyperanxious ass to calm the fuck down...

[itsprincesslilythingy]

Happy 2022. or should happy is mentioned cause am I actually happy? Idk

New reminder for myself:

1. Dont be hasty to make a decision by getting involved in everything. It’s okay if you let it go even that’s a huge opportunity because remember, if it isn’t promising, it’s nothing. Have trust in Allah.

2. In between YES & NO, if your answer is ‘I dont know’ it means NO. But if the reason you said it because you have no knowledge about it, the answer is, look it up, then decide YES or NO.

3. The bloodline is going to end with me.

4. One day or day one, you decide.

5. Optimize for true love, not marriage, not deadlines.

6. If you keep resenting things, feelings, or people, they won’t do any justice for you by leaving you in peace. They’ll keep haunting you until you face and acknowledge them. I must confront my feeling and stop doubting it. Just because the road didn’t lead the way how I wanted, I can’t brush it off and resenting it. It just wanted to be listened to and I’ll continue admitting it until it goes away eventually.

7. do not blame yourself for how your mother made you feel, i promise you, your feelings are valid and your struggles should be acknowledged.

8. 3 years, 2025 you’ll be on your own. Create your own foundation strong.

9. Kesha once said, “But I just can’t date a dude with a vag.”

10. If you ever break my heart, even once, I’ll leave and you will never find me again. Ever.

11. Find love that it’s worth fear of losing them.

12. You are 10, dont stress over 2.

13. Berambos. Yes that’s it.

14. Princess treatment only.

15. She can’t cook but she can start an argument from scratch.

16. all children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children.

17. I LOVE kids, but I was never a woman who NEEDED to have kids.

18. single, hoeless, & picky asf

19. “Trust me” and never actually trust them when they said that.

20. you're way better off single with high standards than accepting the bare minimum from a man who doesn't know what he wants.

21. “Promise me not to hide yourself when you’re in pain, it’s unfair that we laughed together but you cried alone.”

22. Be better. No kids. You dont want to be like your mom.

23. “I’d much rather regret not having kids then having them and regretting them”

24. You don’t need him, he needs you.

25. gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss

26. and I still have so much love to give.