#when the reason he's sooo helpfullll is because he likes making things about him | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

runawaymarbles · 2 years ago

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the eternal struggle between “don’t say something about someone’s family member that might come back to bite you if they reconcile or might make your friend look bad in divorce court” and “agreeing with a teenage friend that she’s 100% right, her father is an emotionally immature piece of shit who makes me want to commit violence, and is in fact the only person I’ve ever met who I feel genuine hatred for and i hope she spits in his drink while she has covid”

#i want to set him on fire #also still kind of annoyed at my mom for telling some mutual friends #that she was surprised at how helpful he was being so maybe he wasn't all bad #or as bad as i made him out to be #thus making it seem like even thought i was exaggerating #when the reason he's sooo helpfullll is because he likes making things about him #and so if it's not an inconvenience he loves to step forward and be The Guy #and get the thanks and praise and accolades and reputation points and win people over #he is bar none the most self-absorbed person i have ever met #she now realizes he's like that but i don't know if she realizes how much she undercut me in that conversation #if you spend a full year feuding with someone it's hard enough to get mutual friends to believe you about anything #one of those mutual friends his ex wife and i were talking a couple weeks ago #and his ex wife said something and the mutual friend was like It Never Occurred To Me That He Might Think/Do That #and i'm just like #where have you been WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN #I'm not actually crazy and neither is his wife and neither are his kids #laskdflaksjdf;laksjfaliewfj;lajsldkjda;lfskdja;lkjds;lkj #op #to be deleted probably

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