#when it comes to sex they're more a giver than a receiver for sure tho they'll try anything at least once if Harding wants to give it a go

[undead-potatoes]

Looking at the two of them you might assume Ronnie is the more experienced in their relationship with Harding, especially since Ronnie is a shameless flirt with very confident energy, while Harding has the vibes of a flustered school girl in love.

But Ronnie has never actually been in a relationship before. They've had some flings, trying to figure their shit out, but it never really went anywhere. Sex doesn't do much for them either, at least not in the most casual sense, so they've gone most of their life without. There's definitively some kind of aroace stuff going on with them, falling into the realm of sex-neutral demi-something, though they don't really have the words to describe it.

They've had their fair share of frustrations surrounding the whole thing, wondering what's "wrong" with them, if they're this way because their parents didn't love them enough, that whole song and dance. By the time of Veilguard they've mostly come to terms with their feelings, but there is a sense of relief when they start to feel a pull towards Harding in a way they've never felt with anyone else before.

And then there's Harding over here, doing god knows what in Ferelden barns. I have no idea how much experience she has in either field, but it's sure to be more than Ronnie for the most part.