#weight talk -

[th1nblogs]

things to do instead of eating 🌞~

work on your appearance (shave, wash your face, etc)

stare at your body in a mirror 😬

do something creative

go for a walk

play with/train/groom your pet

redecorate your living space

internet deep dive

sleep :3

read a book

write down all of the reasons you want to ⭐️ve

stretch / yoga

play a game

online shop for skeeny clothes

download random apps

research the benefits of fast1ng

collect low c4l recipes

go get a piercing or tattoo

deep clean something you don’t clean often (fridge air filters and dryer lint vents are a good place to start and you can save on your electric bill!)

clean out your car

hang out with friends

study/do home work (if you’re in school ofc)

bake / cook for someone else

watch a movie

research future hair/nail/eyelash (etc) ideas to get as a WL reward

try a new hair style

daydream 🤤

do your makeup or nails

remember why you’re doing this!!🩷

[gin-juice-tonic]

something else I really like about She Loves to Cook and She Loves to Eat is its display of gaining weight as a part of healing.

I mentioned in that other post that one of the main characters, Kasuga, was seriously discouraged from eating by her family growing up. We're shown images from her childhood as well as an image from when she finally was able to move out

Her unhappy and unaccepted childhood self is then contrasted with her modern day self in a small side by side as she talks about how much better her life is now.

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(And just adding more pictures of present day Kasuga for everyone unfamiliar with the manga)

The topic of weight itself is never brought up specifically, but the look into her appearance of her past vs now alongside the assurance that she is both happier and living better in general these days gets the message across anyway

[genderqueerdykes]

hii this might not be the usual asks you get, and if you're uncomfortable w it then feel free to ignore but !! I was wondering if you had tips for gaining weight ?? there isn't many resources out there and, you seem like a really cool person and an okay place to safely ask. I'm really bodily skinny, like really, and I never seem to gain much weight. I might not eat the most frequently, but they're always large and filling meals but the most I ever get is a slightly fuller stomach that goes away after a bit. but I eat till I'm no longer hungry yk, I don't want to force myself to eat more. and although I have " tummy fat " like around uterus area I've come to realize that's like, just the way my body is shaped and it's not anything I can lose through workouts and shit. whereas the rest of me is thin and lanky. And I'm not necessarily wanting to change my weight exclusively for looks, though I do think it'd bring me more confidence, it's also for my health.

I know gaining weight isn't inherently unhealthy, and in my case it's going to help in more ways than one, but I also don't want to go about this wrong I suppose ?? I also have possible PoTs, and I don't know if weight gain would have any negative side effects ?? I'd like to also mention ( mentioning a lot lmao ) that both my mother and father are fat, and though my dad doesn't really care he's never lost weight, and my mum who does care ( she does all sorts. fasting, workouts, diets, etc .. ) also has a very hard time losing weight. whereas I have a hard time gaining it, so that's. yeah. :']

weight related numbers, saying js for anyone uncomfortable ↓↓ ( these are all guesstimates, my memory doesn't do well on number related things qwq )

I'm around 5'9 / 5'10 and I've been about 45kg to maybe 50 at most for years now, my mother is around 90 - 100kg+ and my dad is around the same if not a little less. I'm taller than both of them yet half their weight or less, ( my brother who is around 6'0 is also really skinny like me, but he's made up for that in muscle and eats fine he js naturally looks skinnier and isn't unhealthy for his whatever ratio, in the sense it doesn't bother him or his health !! yeah !! I don't have any better words lol. ) js mentioning this because I know family and genetics can like, change weights and how they work person to person and all .. !?

Anyways this has turned out way long but !! yeah, any advice at all would be great .. thanks in advance :D /nf

this is not something i have a lot of personal advice on BUT i would be happy to open this up to other people to try to get you more information!

i am always fully in support of people having autonomy over their weight and if someone wants to gain weight, then that's their right. doesn't matter what reason they're doing it for, not my business. if someone wants to be bigger, good, they're allowed to be. part of fat liberation is accepting and encouraging people who want to gain weight regardless of reason. i've always been fat so i have zero tips on gaining as i'm just always around 320 lbs, but folks who have experience with this please feel free to lend a hand!

[vaspider]

I'm on a new diabetes med which my doctor said "oh yeah, and weight loss is a side effect," before I reminded him that I've got disordered eating from prior medical abuse and I've made good progress on it, so let's not undo that...

... but then I couldn't figure out why I had constant headaches until my wife pointed out I was barely eating and kept sugar crashing, too. Apparently the reason that people lose weight on this is because it turns off your hunger signals! So I wasn't ever feeling hungry and my food intake had dropped ridiculously.

I dunno, man, that seems like something you should have mentioned, dude, since it's a known thing about this class of drugs.

Anyway, uh, yeah, make sure you ask about known issues with hunger signals or loss of appetite with some of these new diabetes drugs. You don't want to end up accidentally starving yourself.

(I'm fine; we've added some precautions and new routines.)

[ms-demeanor]

Re the "ask a bodybuilder" thing: I have some friends who lowkey lift, and one of them described a "macro-friendly" dessert recipe they'd seen (with a tone of mockery). My immediate thought was "eating disorder For Him", to which both friends agreed that "yeah, no, ask any professional bodybuilder how they get in shape for shows and they know it's dysfunctional"

Yeah, the behavior that bodybuilders use when on a cut (losing weight and getting lean for a show/season) is absolutely not a healthy or sustainable approach to food; generally they know this and they are aware that there are some times of year when they're going to be functionally starving themselves (and dehydrating themselves - they will absolutely skip water in the days before a show so they have more visible veins and muscle striations) but actually what I was talking about there went in the other direction (bulking rather than cutting). It's really really really really hard to put on weight if your body doesn't want to put on weight. It's really hard to keep that weight on. It's hard to gain muscle and it's easy to lose it. And I know plenty of people who are naturally very thin who have struggled to put on weight.

But we only really present one side of this equation and I think it's worthwhile to talk about both. Not in an "oh skinny people are oppressed too" way, but in an "look actually changing your body composition requires a level of effort that is bugfuck insane to ask of people and if you wouldn't ask a thin person to put on ten pounds of muscle because of the effort that would require, why are you comfortable telling a fat person to lose fifty pounds in spite of the effort that requires?" way.

[entity56]

if youre fat and wanna lose weight/gain muscle i love you. if you're fat and happy as you are i love you. if you're skinny and wanna gain weight/muscle i love you. if youre skinny and happy as you are i love you.

[symeona]

Could just be my feed that's shit, but lately there's so much discussion about weight loss it pissed me all the way off. I work out as a hobby and I can really tell the discussion has shifted over the last year

Like how do ppl whose unwashed ass burns nosehairs across a 25 mile radius have opinions about other ppl's bodies like that. Not to be mean or anything.

Puss(gender neutral) tastes the fucking same no matter how big or small the person. Quit lying bro. Why do you need a whole ace person to tell you that. Pls go get bitches and try again. Not to be MEAN or anything............

[aurorawritestoescape]

JACKET

No outbreak Joel Miller x f!reader

Drabble: Joel’s jacket got too small for him.

Tw: 18+ mdni, allusions to smut, fluff, weight talk, Joel gained weight and we love it, swearing, pet names ‘daddy’, ‘baby’, leather kink? idk

A/n: sometimes I see a picture and can’t rest until I write something based on it😅 thank you @iamasaddie for the pic and the inspiration😘 Big ‘Heyyy!’ to the Queen of Chubby!P-Boys @beefrobeefcal 🙌

Word count: 560

“Oh, fuck!”

“What is it?” you ask with worry in your voice walking into the room. You find Joel standing in front of the mirror moving his arms back and forth. He’s wearing his brown leather jacket, unzipped over his grey t-shirt.

“Look, my jacket doesn’t fit me anymore. I got too big!” he complains not tearing his eyes away from his reflection. His brows are furrowed and he looks genuinely upset. He drops his arms in frustration and you rush to comfort him with a deep sigh.

You stand behind him and put your arms on his biceps covered by the soft material of the jacket. Your palms glide up and down his arms in a calming gesture. It’s a really nice jacket. You always loved how he looked wearing it. Completely hidden from the mirror by Joel’s huge frame you peek from behind his shoulder, searching his eyes in the mirror.

“It’s ok, Joel, we’ll get you a new one.”

“Yeah, but… I liked this one. I should go on a diet,” he sighs, crossing his arms on his chest and you notice the fabric on his back stretch dangerously close to ripping.

“That blue shirt you like is also too tight by the way," he complains to your reflection, “This jacket was always so comfortable and now if I zip it up, look..” he turns to you, closing the jacket as it stretches around his stomach. He’s pointing at his middle with wide eyes and of course you feel sorry for him but the sight of his body in tight leather does something unexpected to you. Your heartbeat increases and you feel tingling between your thighs.

You put your hands on his soft leather-clad stomach and glide them up to his broad chest.

“You look good,” you whisper, staring at his frame so broad under your palms.

Joel notices the change in your behavior and smirks, shaking his head at you, “Oh, baby…”

“I’m sorry that you’re upset but…I love that you got a little bigger, daddy.”

He hears the pet name and his pupils blow out as his hands find your waist. He moves closer, pressing his body against yours and wrapping his arms around you. The mixture of leather and Joel hits your nostrils and you lean into him enjoying this smell as your hands snake around his middle and clasp behind his back. You tilt your head up and find him looking down at you, his gaze dark and hungry.

“You want daddy to get soft and squishy, huh?” he asks with a smile as his gaze slides down to your parted lips. You practically purr as a response and he leans down to kiss you. You melt into his embrace as your lips slowly caress each other. Joel groans into your mouth and pushes his hips into yours pressing his hardness against your belly.

“Let’s get you to bed, baby,” he mumbles and bends down to take you into his arms. As soon as he lifts you, one arm under your knees and the other supporting you behind your back, you hear a loud ripping sound. You both freeze gaping at each other before bursting into laughter.

“Now you definitely need a new jacket,” you giggle, as he heads upstairs carrying you to the bedroom in his big strong arms.

Thank you for reading!💖

Tag list: @milla-frenchy @bbyanarchist @harriedandharassed @missannwinchester @nervousmumbling

[dustsculptures]

when i was like 13 my dad told someone else i’d be pretty if i lost weight and i overheard and it was the first time i’d heard him say i was pretty so it filled me with pride and confidence in my looks

fucked up and incorrect!

[rosefinnigen]

Weight gain that sneaks up on ya 😵‍💫

like. I’ve been not exactly worried, but expecting a drop in my weight because I’ve been working a lot these last few weeks and not had time to really eat the way I’d like to (I unfortunately often skip breakfast on work days and subsist on one or two snacks and a fuck ton of soda through my shift) but like. Nope she is slowly but surely climbing all the same!!

[th1nblogs]

reasons to ⭐️ve

self control

smaller boobs

thigh gap

compliments

cute outfits

to feel proud of myself

to be dainty

easy to pick up and carry

make my boyfriend feel proud to be with me

make others jealous

to feel cool and fragile instead of fat and sweaty

to get revenge

to be beautiful.

[netscapenavigator-official]

I saw someone describe Nikocado Avocado's weight loss as a "Twink Rebirth," and I don't think I'm ever gonna be the same, again.

[naomiknight-17]

Ok so Chilchuck is a little tall for a Half-foot so he has to watch his weight carefully, yeah?

Has no-one told this man that alcohol is fuckin' BURSTING with calories?? And the man drinks like a fish

You're not allowed to blame Senshi's excellent cooking for your weight gain, Chilchuck

[genderqueerdykes]

I don’t know if this is appropriate for your ask box but id just like to acknowledge that as a trans person who would be significantly happier if I where about 100 pounds heavier. I’m excited for the day I feel like I’m injecting my t into fat and not down to my bone

hey that's okay, weight can be a huge milestone for a lot of people in transition and expressing themselves. having more fat tissue can make the medicine affect the body better for many people, for some they metabolize it best that way. as someone who has been fat my whole life and has not had any damage to my health from it. i appreciate when i see people look forward to gaining weight, because i think so many of us forget that some people need to put on weight, and encouraging and celebrating that is huge.

gaining weight is not evil. my best friend has crohns disease and losing weight for them is terrifying. i hope you are able to reach a weight that is more comfortable for you, and for taking your hormones as well. you can always look into topical gels if it is too uncomfortable, or you may be able to switch needles or formulations, but either way, i wish you good luck in your journey, and i hope everything goes well with your transition!

[metanarrates]

having appetite issues is so evil bc my ideal transition goal is to become whatever the lesbian equivalent of a bear is but every time i experience one (1) stressful event my body is like oopsie! it seems you've gained five pounds over the last few months while you were doing well! what if we just... shut down the part of your brain that makes you hungry and makes food appetizing :)))) you don't need that :))))))

[gynandromorph]

People will be like "of course I don't believe in exorcisms, studies show almost all of the people who claim to benefit end up relapsing in a few months and sometimes they're even worse" but then they'll say "why wouldn't I believe dieting works, who cares if studies show 99% of the people who try dieting get worse health outcomes than people who don't bother, clearly losing weight is a healthy treatment for chronic health problems so dieting is good"