#we're surprised kim k is insecure? do u know the society we live in?

[ileftherbackhome]

so my friend and I were having a discussion because he was like confused at how a man like pete davidson has the roster he has and i was explaining to him that if you actually look at the types of beautiful women pete dates you can see the glaring similarity they all have in common is their deep seated insecurity and self doubt in their own worth as a woman and a human being in general

i dont say this to be judgemental of these women because believe me I've been there myself but like are we really surprised an average ass man is able to court and keep a conventionally attractive woman? it strikes me in these moments why republicans' entire platform is conspiracy theories, lies, and propaganda because idk having a basic, well-funded education above like 12th grade will really help you understand that "average man marries supermodel" is like literally the entire "great lie" of white patriarchy my guy.

it also strikes me as odd that mras and incels spend so much of their time trying to convince ugly ass dudes that there is no way in hell "this society" will ever "allow" them to marry "above their weight" so to speak because like my guy, please in what reality are you living in? the entire purpose and creation of white marriage was to give average men or ugly men or "loser" men their chance at marrying above their weight. like this is literally the system my guy.

what they're really complaining about, imo, is women educating themselves on how society makes them feel like even when you look like (insert pete davidson ex here) you are a worthless human being. i see it all the time on tiktok comments or insta comments of men like ganging up on young women or teenage girls because they dare to post a video of them being self-absorbed for 15 seconds of their day. they gain sick pleasure out of tearing down any woman for existing as if they're "exposing" "delusions" of the "female sex" or whatever when all they're doing is providing evidence to these young women of the truth of gender theory in general.

like, all feminists and women's rights activists have tried to do is educate women (usually white ones tbh) on why the things society is telling them is harmful, abusive, and detrimental to their mental health. all we do is treat women like human beings who are intelligent enough to see the systematic forces at play for every "superficially bigoted" comment you engage in and mras/incels hate it because they know they're losing the ability to brainwash young girls into needing male validation the more women speak out about the truths of gendered interaction in this society.

a woman finding herself attractive is seen as a threat to these men for no other reason than it makes it harder for them to control a woman who gains validation in only herself. men on the internet will swear up and down that ugly men never marry beautiful women when the reality and evidence points to ugly men winning beautiful women all the time. they will speak over beautiful women when they tell their truth and claim they know the real reasons she is with this or that man is "his money" as if she aint shitting diamonds herself in her sleep lmao

the reality is that women, everywhere, across all social classes are universally pressured into settling for the "nice" "family man" in america, like you literally have hundreds of influencers and thousands of wanna-bes pushing this idea that women are "too" entitled these days, that they aren't "grateful" enough to the contributions of men in their lives and they literally speak candidly about having no sexual desire to their future spouse but getting married anyways

like the fictional universe incels wanna live doesn't exist because all an ugly man has to do to date above his league is literally treat a woman like a human being because women are literally trained to shut up and marry him anyways if he's "nice enough" and you don't have a reason to break it off with him other than you're not attracted to him. incels are just unwillingly to admit that the reason they can't get ass in a society literally built in their favor is because they're unwilling to do the literal bare minimum and treat women like human beings.