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lunarflare64 · 2 years ago

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We just came out as plural to our mum. It went well, despite a lot of us being terrified that this would be the one time it wouldn't go well with her. She probably has a lot of thoughts about it, but she's always been supportive as hell, we might have been her first disabled child but we're not her only disabled child, and this isn't the first time she's had to figure out how to be properly supportive of a unique situation with us specifically. Honestly we're starting to consider her the expert at taking these things in stride

#vent post #we guess? its kinda venty (gets worse in the tags tho so beware)#we'll have to have a similar conversation with our stepdad but it wont be nearly as stressful for us #our dad on the other hand...........yeah thats never fucking happening #and thats something ALL of us can agree on #even mum fully got why telling dad isnt a thing that will happen ever - she didnt even ask it was just a given #king of taking things badly #and speaking in the WORST way possible #we swear hes got god awful autism thats buried under 6 layers of internalised ableism and it clashes so badly with our own autism #we dont know why none of his therapists have told him about the autism it seems impossible to miss

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