#w prejudice do you realize how just objectively inaccurate that is? please quit trying to hurt other people already dealing with prejudice | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

ziracona · 4 years ago

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Goddamn wild to me that when I was a kid, I watched the LGBTQA community on here be constantly at war with itself and into fighting as much as possible, especially minimum qualification for meeting X identity discourse, Biphobia, and Ace/Aro exclusionists, and it’s was constantly so tiring, and then kind of amazingly it died out & people were like “Actually we should quit fighting over saddest sexual minority status and being an ass to each other & treating life experience like a vip club” and there was a flood of just like, more open spaces, and comic rep for all kinds of stuff, and people just being nice and genuine and open, and it was great, and then like suddenly last fucking year I start seeing all this asexual and aromantic exclusionist shit again & a resurgence of biphobia like is this 2012 again I really thought you shitheads were over this??? Human nature is apprently that some people just won’t be happy unless they’re spending their free time giving other minorities grief on a consistent basis to feel more special like life experience is a zero sum game I guess. Like for the love of god, please stop.

#full offense but god people who create and run discourse blogs???? what is weong with you. you really want so badly to try to make people #with different life experience get invalidated so bad youre devoting huge amounts of your life to it?? so. what? so you can feel morespecial #by having a monopoly on minority sexuality hate?? well congrats you sure have it just youre the agressor >.>#i see Bi Ace & Aro people get shit for being able to pass—as if this invalidates belonging in lgbt spaces or being deserving of voices & rep #pain is also not a zero sum game. its relative. and you dont have to meet a minimum threshold some internet rando holds up to be a valid #part of the community or to have suffered bc if your identify. its fucking ridiculous. for the love of god.#Bi people regularly get treated like theyre less trustworthy than most orientations just bc they like multiple options—as if that makes them #more likely to cheat??? and constantly get treated like if they settle w someone the opposite gender theyre no longer lgbtqa & that aint tru #its true that trans and homosexual people face more violence. and thats fucked up. but it doesnt invalidate the struggles other orientations #have. why are you people so dead set on trying to argue that if your life isnt at stake in X country bc of your sexuality you must not deal #w prejudice do you realize how just objectively inaccurate that is? please quit trying to hurt other people already dealing with prejudice #becuse you want to feel more special over your pain. its not a god damn competition. everybody deserves validation #ace and aro people have almost 0 content in media that is canonically or even /implied/ ace or aro. and far less that lets them exist w/o #their story revolving around settling with someone for validation regardless. genuinely gay/lesbian people have astronomically more rep &#THEY still aint getting near enough. yet often when i se ace or aro ppl mention their own lack of rep exclusionists come out of th woodwork #to he like ‘NO. gay ppl deserve it more!’ ??? its not mutally exclusive fuck off! gay ppl ABSOLUTELY deserve more rep & more variance & more #explicitly gay rep!! its truly upsetting how little there is!! but that doesnt mean you have to take it away from ace or aro people? or Bi #or even Bi people who end up w opposite gender folks like GOD knows they deserve more rep bc they get treated like they aint a minotity exp #constantly. its not 20fucking12 anymore exclusionsosts go to hell challenge. its so fun they will call ppl ‘exclusionist exclusionst’ if #theu dont agree w being an ass like u dumb shits exl-excl is just inclusivity u just dont want to bltantly sound like the badguy #im so sick of seeing posts from these shits go around & seeing exclusionist discourse back on my dash. unfreindly reminder if youre anti Ace #Aro Pan of Bi gtfo and unfollow me! if youre just curious or confused none of this anger is directed @ you btw. i am mad at ppl who enjoy #making their life goal picking on other minorities to feel special. everyone in life starts out w a lack of info @ some subjects & thatsfine #your life doesnt have to constantly be at stake to be a minority. you just have to deal with shit. OH and you know what? Ace Bi Aro & Panppl #all DO deal with shit & have gotten killed for it! which aint a requirement people gotta meet but yall pretend it aint happened!!! fuck al u #asexuality #aromantic #bisexuality #personal #rant

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