#usually i publicly air even more shit in the tags just to offload but i'm so tired today idek what to add

[immortalsins]

my dad sent my mum a message demanding that she return a whole list of stupid petty items (whilst he's withholding some photos she took, some of her grandmother, because he's paranoid she'll refuse) and asked that she give one item to me. it's a necklace with his name on it that he found outside before they got married, and gave to my mum. it's got the scandinavian spelling of my dad's name despite being found in the uk - it's silly and monetarily worthless but had a fun story attached. i cannot stress just how little i want to see this thing, let alone own it. beyond the obvious weirdness of having a piece of jewellery with my dad's name on it (my DAD) it's now a tainted and depressing symbol of a horrifically failed marriage that should be ritualistically burnt but i'm going to have to accept this like it's normal lest he scream at me for not considering his mental issues if i tell him how i really feel