#unfortunately deleting the post won't make it all go away so. yeah i'm just tired of everything
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idk maybe it was foolishly optimistic of me to believe that if i pulled myself together and spent hours updating that post with new links and resources and answering all those asks about it and changing my ask box title i wouldn't have to hear any more about those broken links i can't do shit about. but yeah that was stupid ig
#this may just be because i'm cranky and tired so i'll probably delete later#but some days i kinda wish i never made that post#*gritting my teeth* it's great people like them it's fantastic that it helps spread a little extra love on fics#and makes commenting a little easier for people who find it hard#it is. it is#believe me no one is more frustrated than me that the old image links broke#i already feel so fucking inadequate and useless every day i can't do anything right i can't fucking fix this#i've done what i can#unfortunately deleting the post won't make it all go away so. yeah i'm just tired of everything#delete later
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I really hope Pedro wins at least one between Emmy or Golden Globe but I’m so scared of this hating he’s receiving lately cause every one is accusing him of being a zionist😭.
I’m afraid they won’t let him win for this, cause it might not be a good thing making a zionist win an award (even though he is not since he’s always been pro Palestine but people don’t understand that he’s not a “free man” anymore and he has to listen to what his team says even about a post on instagram)
Honestly anon, I'm so sick and tired of this bullshit, if you knew how many asks calling him a "zionist" and a "pig" I had to delete...
I genuinely thought that what happened to that actress from the Scream franchise was the perfect example to why Pedro hasn't said anything about it and he probably won't, but I don't know if people just play stupid or if they are actually that stupid to think he's gonna risk the career he worked hard his whole life for that. First of all, we don't know what kind of activism he does away from the spotlight, maybe he's doing a lot anonymously, we won't know, and even if he isn't doing anything at all, Pedro is human, and just as every human being, it's okay if he is selfish to be an activist for the causes that only affect him directly, after all, we can't embrace the whole world, we can't fight for every single right or cause, and he is not a politician, he doesn't have power to cease fire or take any decisions. Nobody likes to witness a war going on, but unfortunately most of us can't do anything about it.
And then people go like "oooooohhhhhh but Sarah...."
yeah, they've known each other for 30 years, maybe he got disappointed in her, maybe not, we also won't know that, but I think it's pretty obvious you don't stop loving a person just because of her political, social etc views, no matter how shitty they are!
Overall, people need to calm the f down, I saw some fans calling him "a coward" and shit like that, his last ig post had the comments turned off, and not only that, people are spamming the comments he leaves on his friends'/relatives' social media, don't people realize how sick that is?
He doesn't have the obligation to post about any kind of shit, he doesn't owe any of us a """"position""" on stuff, as far as I've seen, his fandom is composed by functional adults, we can tell what's right or wrong, we don't need Pedro Pascal making an instagram post to tell us what we are supposed to do, support or say, you see what I mean?
And I'm sure he's gonna get that Emmy and that Golden Globe, he's the best and his acting deserves it 💘
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Dear Charlie,
Today is June 14, 2022.
I wish I was writing under better circumstances. I wish I had only positive news. But for all the good happening to me right now, there's something bad that I need to get off my chest.
When I was in high school, I had a relatively small group of close friends. I am still friends with some of them, others have gone away over the years. One disappeared and came back. For anonymity's sake, let's call her "Jen". Jen moved away after high school and lived in the western part of the US for a few years, but within the same time frame that I moved to the small town that I did, she happened to also move to this town. I moved here due to rising housing costs in my mom's area and because I actually have some family out here.
Jen got engaged at some point, I don't remember when, I just remember seeing the post on Facebook. It's been a couple years now, and this is probably partly due to Covid. Anyway, one of my step-brothers is their roommate (he used to live with my brother). Last week, he sent me a text asking if I wanted to go shopping with him. I said "sure, but I need to be home around 6ish to start making dinner"- this was at 4p.
Come to find out, Jen is getting married on Thursday. I figured he was invited because they all lived together and it might be awkward if he wasn't invited. I went with him to pick out shirts to wear to the wedding. I had no issue going with him, but I was more than a little surprised to find out from him that she's getting married so soon. He sounded like he had just found out, but I don't think he had.
Unfortunately I spent the whole trip listening to their wedding playlist, which was....not very good. I had to hear all about the wedding and the plans with that. I've been feeling rather insecure listening to others talk about marriage for months, that's why I've been off of Facebook. I know it probably makes me a shitty person and a shittier friend, but I really am just tired of hearing about it and then wondering "When will it be my turn?"
After that excursion, we had to go to my stepmom's house. We were talking about stuff and she asked me how it was going out with my step-brother, because she knows he wears me out mentally. I was telling her about everything happening, and how I was surprised to find out that Jen was getting married, and her response was "Oh yeah I forget you two know each other!" She started telling me about the wedding and how they've got it set up. My family was invited, and they've known about this wedding for weeks or possibly even months. My family, who have known Jen maybe a year now, got invited to her wedding. And I've known her more than a decade and didn't get invited.
Needless to say, I am shocked. I'm confused. I'm hurt. Most of all, I feel so betrayed. How long has this been set in motion? Why didn't my family say something? I just don't know anymore. I guess I need better friends. Even though I've been off of Facebook, I'm debating deleting Jen and blocking her. My boyfriend absolutely agrees with me that it isn't right and it doesn't make sense. He told me "That's fine, we won't invite them to ours either." I know it's petty, but it was like a punch to the gut to find that out and to watch my family act like it's not somehow super fucked up that this is happening. I've been very short-tempered with everyone lately and this whole stupid, confusing situation is why.
I am still trying to figure out how to navigate this situation. I don't feel like I can trust the people I used to be able to. I don't know what to say or how to feel. I don't even know if I'm being rational. I feel like an asshole for being this upset. But I still just can't help but feel hurt. I just don't know anymore, Charlie.
Your friend, with love, as always, Ann
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