#u can't actually just extrapolate someone's tastes/opinions/beliefs wrt a thing they've discussed onto another thing they haven't discussed
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someone tell me when the dash is no longer "jokingly" speculating abt real life people's real life sexual proclivities with their real life partners...it's one thing in a gc where everyone understands everyone's just joking around but as soon as it gets onto the dash/timeline on any kind of larger scale it immediately becomes so uncomfortable and reveals so many biases abt how people view other people based on their like. physical traits and hobbies. is it crazy to find that deeply distasteful lol.
#it's also just not how human beings work i hope y'all know that......#u can't actually just extrapolate someone's tastes/opinions/beliefs wrt a thing they've discussed onto another thing they haven't discussed#this is just getting into my personal insecurities now but don't assume you know things about people!! you are literally ALWAYS projecting!!#this is a fact of life and if unacknowledged it can be the root of so many interpersonal issues....#i know im taking this way too seriously lol but this kind of thing is a sore point for me
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