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I simply think this fandom doesn't give Wei Wuxian enough credit for the various ways in which he saved Lan Wangji
#mdzs#mo dao zu shi#wangxian#idk man- i just see a lot of āLan Wangji has always been protecting Wei Wuxianā posts and its like...#I mean... Lan Wangji has always certainly been trying to protect Wei Wuxian#it took him a long time to figure how to successfully do that though#rereading the books rn and noticing theres a lot of instances that could be read as lwj being frustrated over his inability to protect wwx#like he seemed ready to cry when wwx went missing for a while and then came back with the cursed leg#lwj has always been great at protecting wwx from physical threats (ex: waterborn abyss) but had no idea how to protect him from himself#meanwhile wwx has always been instictually good at saving lwj from both#like I'm 100% lwj would've become like Jiang Cheng if wwx hadn't snapped him out of the blindly following authority thing#and also like... 15 y/o lwj wasnt happy with his life. he was lonely and stressed and literally signing up to be flogged whenever he goofed#wwx is who allowed lwj to grow up by showing him what it was like to actually be a kid (shown in story whenever lwj gets drunk)#he led lwj to having a more flexible mindset. and it both let lwj relax and set lwj up to be a better parent#looking into lwj's dynamic with the juniors- he lets them break a fuck ton of the petty rules and encourages them to question authority#he also teaches them to not be married to any one meathod of problem solving#wwx is also able to save lwj from his own stubbornness#ex: carrying lwj when he broke his leg. getting lwj to cough up bad blood. getting lwj to keep the rabbits#wwx also tends to give lwj the words he has trouble saying himself. helps him communicate#wwx also protects lwj in fights a lot but thats narratively less important#except the various times wwx puts himself in danger to help lwj. those times are what made it so lwj could never move on from wwx#like with the cave incident#or when wwx helped surpress the arm instead of using the chaos to escape cloud recesses#tldr i guess: i think this fandom tends to treat lwj being the best like its natural to him when really wwx accidentaly rewired his brain#I'm looking directly at fanfic writers who act like the Lans would've treated wwx better than the Jiangs#lwj had to do so much work and self reflection post meeting wwx to be the way he is. he is not the sole product of the Lan teachings
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having read nearly all of the Jeeves short stories, itās so funny to me that Bertieās bisexuality manifests as casting a wide but shallow net at girls and a narrow but ridiculously deep net at men. He thinks girls are pretty on a reasonably frequent basis, and has tried to marry at least four women thus far (not counting the unwanted engagements), but when it doesnāt work out heās over it in 24 hours. Meanwhile he shows absolutely no interest in and never gives flattering depictions of 99% of the men in his life, but will praise Jeeves to anyone who will listen, wax poetic about his appearance (and get defensive on his behalf about it when a child insults it), and is absolutely inconsolable when they are separated.
(also Bertie is in no way allosexual. he is canonically terrified at the thought of reproducing. and due to the narrow but deep net on the other end I donāt imagine heās going around sleeping with loads of men, either. that manās either demi as hell or just entirely ace)
#red randomness#jeeves and wooster#bertie wooster#reginald jeeves#wooves#jooster#100 and up neat#finally determined my take on Bertie orientation and had to get the thoughts out#granted I have only read the first three short story collections + Extricating Young Gussie (re: none of the novels or last two stories)#so I canāt speak for the few stories following that or any of the novels#but this is my StanceTM#curious to see what that pastiche Jeeves and the Wedding Bells is like and whether or not it matches this#because if itās focused on a Bertie het romance then I have trouble seeing it#he truly doesnāt seem invested enough in women for it to carry a whole book???#theyāre more like crushes or cheery whims#while Jeeves is so close to his heart that he canāt bear to be without him. a source of comfort as a person beyond just what the man does#side note there are two pastiches Iāve heard about that put Bertie with Bobbie Wickham and that sounds untenable lmao#Bertie would be at his witās end#also I heard she gets a guy later anyway?? and at this point Bertieās already fallen out of love with her besides???#truly the greatest sin of those two pastiches is separating him from Jeeves though. good fucking luck#it also sounds like the show is kinda different?? but Iāve never seen it#anyway Iām rambling without all the information so maybe this is total nonsense but hey!
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I need a completely rewritten teen wolf series with Derek Hale as the main character. I think it would heal me.
#we follow Derek from New York. Laura left for beacon hills. itās been six years since he was back but he hasnāt heard from her#and hes going stir crazy waiting. he packs up and travels back. itās almost too much immediately. he still canāt get a hold of Laura#he canāt resist going home. itās like a natural pull that guides him back. all at once heās 16 again. staring at the wreckage of his life#deputy stilinski is sherrif now. itās reassuring in the slightest that the police force seems to have moved on from how corrupt it was#he catches her scent and itās putrid. bile catches in his throat. he seeks it out. still in denial to what he knows it means.#when he finds Laura itās like the world ends all over again. he canāt stand to see her like this. he gives her a proper burial.#the best he can do at least#he visits Peter. heās not the man Derek remembers- so full of fire and cunning. their relationship may have been strained at times.#often Derek felt more like Eve being swayed by the snake than a normal friendship#but this isnāt the sharp tongued uncle who guided him. this is a broken shell. all that remained of his family. he was so lost.#22 but he barely knew how to function without his family- his pack paving the way#Laura handled everything. she got the apartment. she made sure they had food. Derek looks back and feels so useless#he was so lost in his grief. Laura must of felt the same way but she never let them drown in it#she made sure he got his GED. even got him to enroll in community college classes.#he took them online. he never was able to warm up to people the same way. he used to be so full of life. now he just wanted to be left alone#he studied English. never finished his degree. doesnāt look like he ever will now. he canāt go back to Laura and his shared home.#canāt bare to see another shell of a home#he vents to the vacant audience of Peter and his cold fixed eyes#Derek leaves. he wants to promise heāll return soon#but promises feel costly these days#he decides to go back to the reserve. maybe he can find some clue as to what happened to Laura#someone lured her here. someone who knew them and their history here#his mind went to the worst. Kate. why would she go through the trouble six years later. why wait so long.#Derek couldnāt stomach the thought of facing her. he focused on the woods. the scents were all over the place.#clearly multiple people had been through here recently. two scents were much stronger. Derek follows them#but when he hears the crunch of leaves he realizes why the scents are so strong. theyāre still here#he ducks behind some trees. listening in on their conversation. but an echo of their scent catches his attention#he spots an inhaler on the ground. he puts two and two together and swipes it from the leaves.#he comes out once theyāre closer. tossing over the inhaler- he figures theyāll leave. dumb kids messing around in the woods#he reminds them this is private property. though that may not be true anymore. he recognizes the scent of a new beta. interesting.
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Your nerd!Chan story is awfully similar to @/p4ranormaluv story bed chem š¤Ø
gasp! no way!! the concept of nerds x cheerleader being done before? not just in popular media but also fanfiction?? how could it ever be!!!
#ā° sunny's askbox!#ā° sunny's anons!#dont even know if u deserve to be called my anon cus u just seem like ur tryna start a problem š#yes nerd x cheerleader is a common trope pack it up guys#also i checked the synopsis n chan's character isn't even the same as jake's?#ik i said i wouldn't entertain hate or asks stirring up trouble but i didn't wanna run from anything so i'll just address it this once#nerd!chan is based off of the previews n previews ALONE#u can req my twt n see me talk abt it too if u want#i follow op too n dont want any bad blood but i am Not copying anyone's ideas whatsoever esp if they r cliche tropes which r done by others#like be so fucking fr bruh
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hey y'all! this isn't really a formal ~announcement~ so much as it is something i just wanted to express so i would stop feeling like i was somehow keeping it a secret
i've been having trouble with motivation re: ttdl, and i have been for a while now. i don't know when that'll change. it's not a matter of not knowing what comes next - it's the process of actually putting it down on the page that's been difficult for me. so i'm not sure when i'll be able to update it again.
i don't intend to abandon it, but i also need to give myself the freedom to work on what comes to me in the moment, instead of turning ttdl-being-unfinished into a weapon that i use to beat myself up whenever i have another idea i want to write. that would be a surefire way to make me never want to work on it again
so, instead, i'm going to think of it as letting ttdl rest. it's been a long journey to get here, and it's time to pause and recuperate. thank you so much to everyone who's been a part of this process so far - i appreciate you more than i can say!
as always, thanks for reading!!
-love, birl<3
#dark lord wip#i've been weighing saying something for a while#i care a lot about this story#and expressing that i'm feeling this way seemed like it would make it Real#so i waited in the hopes that it would just pass and everything would be 'normal'#but!! i am neither a superhuman nor a robot#i've met a lot of cool people and had a lot of fun conversations because of ttdl#which is one of the reasons i didn't want to admit that i've been having trouble working on it#but i also don't want to be disingenuous#even though i feel like ttdl is what a lot of people know me for#and why a lot of people follow me etc#that's not a reason for me to like. make my life revolve around ttdl#anyway
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Okay but seriouslyā¦what is actually the best social media platform for artists?
#art#artists on tumblr#I have a decent following here#instagram doesnāt seem to get much engagement#and I have a lot of trouble gaining followers on Twitter#is this really the best the internet has to offer right now?
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the best girls (my opinion) (movies only)
#emilie de ravin#my things#not only mice but also gifs#reason: i've watched everything relatively short (as slowly as i couldš„²) (and wanted to play with fonts x))#(āair force one is downā is technically a miniseries but it's 2 parts under 3 hours so i consider it a movie because i do what i want)#(also the fact that ālove and other troublesā must exist somewhere in a decent quality and i can't find it annoys me very muchš„²)#i'll probably never fully rewatch most of these (for various reasons) except for āremember meā and maybe āsanta's slayā x))#i feel like i have to watch ālostā now but i don't want to be emotionally invested in anything Long#+i didn't avoid watching it when it aired only to start it 15 years laterš„²#why everyone back in the day seemed to latch on one particular movie character almost entirely ignoring the rest is still a mystery to meš#(though i still know nothing and the party is still over)#follow me for more mediocre gifs and salty opinions on things no one has been interested in for several years now lol#anyem#my anyem/anyelle things
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Man I wonder where the leader of the fear realm could've gone, it's alMOST LIKE NEVIN HAS AN
#had to re-edit the image real quick because the original edit was from a post I made about Drew years ago#and while the Drew thing is becoming less and less likely. Nevin havinv one has basically been canon since#someone mentioned Greg's (was it Britney's) aura being familiar in s2ch1. ive been putting together a list of every line#that points to Nevin's aura throughout the whole thing (most from s2ch1 but then s2ch10 came out and it was really canon at that point)#but clearly i'm running out of time to say ''i fucking called it'' before it's explicitly stated and i dont want to be in another situation#where somebody else will beat me to a theory and me posting anything about it will seem like copying them. sorry about that btw i had#thought i had already mentioned theorizing that nevin was possessed by a demon in that old theory i made but i had forgotten that one was#super old and was about sigma. so no copying there i just got extremely paranoid there was a mention of a cult and i was like ''nuh uh#that's way too specific and out there of a detail to end up in both our theories'' and i forgot the rest of my super old post was outdated#as hell. and echos had gone ''yeah they're so similar!'' and i took their word for it but now i'm realizing they were probably just trying#to be supportive. so yeah no copying there i was just beaten to the punch of saying something. but i will NOT back down from the aura shit#because i have been calling that shit FROM THE START or at least since i started reading ibvs back when ch20 came out.#also not backing down from saying chris was the worse friend because these past few chapters are the first time isaac has done anything tha#could knowingly upset chris meanwhile chris has. let edward drag isaac to the lair after isaac said edward would beat him up. chose not to#believe edward was holding the secrets over their heads because 'it was something isaac had said' and then immediately distrusted edward in#the next chapter because a random person he didn't know said to steal a book (might i mention how that entire scene proves chris' lack of#development and refusal to take responsibility because it perfectly alludes to when chris had brought those fireworks into his old school#and makes me wonder if charlie has actually gotten him in trouble with his past schools or if he's still just not taking responsibility#and if him following nevin to the woods to test out their powers is an extension of ''if something bad happens its not my fault''#like seriously this man would bring a mysterious suitcase onto a plane if he's told to). uh what was i talking about agai#anyway on a related note my mental state has only gotten worse since i left tumblr and the habit of thinking about chris instead of sleepin#or doing schoolwork has not stopped. so i was still failing for a while and might graduate now but am still staying away from tumblr.#so yeah this was a little update and im not going to linger this time im just going to leave tumblr again right after hitting post#addendum because i just can't let things go. and was thinking about chris again. i don't think his lack of development is because of bad#writing (anymore. i used to.). instead i'm certain his character arc is going to continue into him following someone (nevin probably) into#doing something really bad. and then he'll finally get actual consequences and go 'oh shit i fucked up real bad this time'#if you think that theory is reaching too far into the future you should hear mine about isaac dying at the end lmao
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Seriously, it's not so hard to find a Slavic person to consult when you're coming up with a Slavic character for any media. The number of inacuracies in that is astounding. As if we were an extinct nation and the only information about us was in inelligible scripture experts struggled to translate.
You don't have to pull stuff out of your ass. We are real people and we're not savages, either, we do have internet. Don't you wanna be the cool sort of Westerner, who knows how to present their Slavic character without making them wrong and cringe? Wouldn't it feel nice to know your audience appreciates your efforts instead of thinking you're an idiot?
Don't be an idiot.
#slavic#writing#characters#there are rules in naming many of our nations follow#not a bad idea to learn about them before you go picking out a ācoolā name#deities give me strength -_-#and for dummies:#yes Slavic people are mainly Russian people (by the sheer number of them)#but as you might be aware there are others#like Czech (hello)#but (especially) Americans don't seem to grasp the intricate differences of European nations#and English speaking nations (especially those who don't have a second official language) have real trouble understanding#how language changes the rules of naming#it's okay to make mistakes#but please learn from them whenever you realize that you've made them#don't make ācringe wrong Russiansā into a thing other people copy to not sound fake instead of actually portraying them authentically
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Sorry for being late today coming online, a lot has happened and I am trying to think about the best way to organize this blog going forward. For now though I will try to get the list updated quickly and read through my messages/@'s
#meg talks#mainly thinking about how best to spotlight people's fundraisers because so many are gaining and losing traction periodically#and some of my posts seem to get more reach than others#mostly what troubles me is i think that the more campaigns i boost the less effective it is for each campaign#i think that the small batches of donation matching campaigns that i organized with other people was the most effective thing so far#bc it guaranteed at least one donation to each campaign#i think i'm going to try to make other small batch posts too each day#like ''here are some campaigns that are close to their goal/low on funds/almost to the halfway mark or some other milestone/etc''#but idk. i just feel troubled and i think some people who have reached out to me think i have more reach than i actually do#i have less than 3k followers and a lot of them are inactive blogs from over the past ten years#ofc that still isn't nothing and im going to keep doing what im doing but im afraid people might be reaching out to me#thinking that i'll be able to give their campaigns more visibility than i actually can#im grateful that my master list has gotten some traction but the longer it gets the tougher it is to single ppl out#i don't know. if people have suggestions please let me know#for now i would really really appreciate volunteers to help w the donation matching campaigns#if i can have ppl committing to donating like 5 bucks to a handful of campaigns once or twice a month#then at least that's something that IS guaranteed u know... though i feel ashamed that i quit my job#and can't guarantee much myself until i find a new one#idk im just troubled and i'm not going to stop boosting campaigns but i hate the thought of getting ppl's hopes up and not delivering
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why is there an hourglass next to my likes, this is so ominous
#yes i follow a lot of blogs. i am honestly holding back from following more ppl in the eepy circle bc they seem lovely#might just do it anyways. i wanna get to know y'all's friends ;;#update: okay maybe they were just having trouble loading the number of posts i've liked (almost 18k) bc it's gone now#but okay shot of adrenaline there
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I apparently have a real soft spot for introverted smartasses who secretly care very deeply and earnestly about their loved ones
#this is about so many characters but first and foremost this goes out to my most precious and#wonderful partner. this post is about him first and foremost. love you pookie ā¤ļø#but I can also relate this sentiment to the following characters:#chilchuck. Saiki K. Davesprite. that one hunk with glasses from blue exorcist. Sebastian from stardew valley. idk I seem to have a type#what I need now is more girls who get to be introverted smartasses who secretly care very deeply and earnestly about their loved ones#Iām having trouble thinking of girls who are smartasses. more of those immediately#this is a personal post donāt read into it too hard
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Hello! Iām the anon that was curious about your p3d process from before š
First of all, tysm for such a quick reply and oml pluto soda mentioned!!Ā Their tutorial was one of the first few resources I came across when I was first starting out. Their models are absolutely adorable! The cottencandy robot is my fav (the one with a pink and blue color scheme) However, as much as I love their tutorial, I did find that due to the character they choose having a hood on (iām assuming) and the tutorial jumping forward sometimes, it makes it a little difficult to design the back of the model (the hair especially.)Ā The back of all my models looks like such a big mess cause of the hair haha. Thatās why I was wondering about your workflow and how you go about making your models! Your shading style is super cute and iād love to know more about how you pick your colours!
I really love this one model of yours in particular cause of the design of the face. (linked below, the one with purple hair) One thing I really like about your style is how you use shading to create depth and add more details to the design instead of adding a ton of different shapes (which given this is p3d we're talking about . . . oof the software would crash a dozen times)
-> For example: Tetoās hair + highlights in this model, and the design of her skirt is such a unique approach! 1) https://www.tumblr.com/meowonaise/757822097302110208/revenge-for-tomatolamp?source=share
2) https://www.tumblr.com/meowonaise/766338194550685696/paint3d-teto-for-teto-tuesday?source=share
If you feel comfy, pls do share your secrets! Or atleast a few hints as to how I should go about to achieve a similar result. Ty in advance
hi anon ^_^!! you mostly mentioned hair + faces so i mostly went with that!! hopefully thats what you meant!! also the most of it is under a read more because it got kind of long >_<
id say my process in making hair in paint 3d art is very similar to how i go about drawing 2d art if that makes sense. i block in my colors so after i draw the head ill start drawing the front bang, side hair pieces, and then back hair pieces. im not quite sure whats the best way to explain so heres tetos hair all broken up
it varies a lot from what character you want to draw but teto only has her front hair and pigtails so theres not too much going on with the back hair (i just colored in the back of her head, which is a sphere, with the marker tool)
for the maya fey plushie + a plushie of @/machamess's oc kapri sun the back hair is just one really big shape drawn out w the soft edge as well. which doesnt really look as detailed or have a lot of form to if you drew out and fiddled with a bunch of pieces, but it works perfectly for my purposes !!
^^ignore how crunchy these images are i moved computers and didnt transfer over my paint3d models so i had to screenshot gifs of them. but hopefully theyre clear enough!
and you can see there that on mayas hair the highlights are painted in!! which is also drawn in the same way that i add highlights to hair in 2d art. i think it makes up for the fact that their hair is completely flat and gives it a little depth!
but again it varies from the hair your trying to make!! like for example heres a model of mirabelle of in stars and time fame. unlike the other characters who all had straighter hair she has a kinkier hair texture, so her hair is comprised of spheres with her hairline being drawn in with a marker instead. it probably isnt very realistic but i think it works for a cartoony style with no textures ^_^
as for skirts i dont really have much advice unfortunately :( i made a teto model because i was thinking and i was like wait..... i could make tetos synthv skirt in paint 3d and then i did it. but its the semi circle shape with squares drawn with the soft edge! tetos design is a bit unique in that she only has 4 flaps in her skirt which could definitely apply to some characters but not all? but on the mira model her skirt is made up of long, almost triangle shaped slabs to get the pleated effect. theyre less squashed to get a more fluffy shape that i like to draw mira with ^_^
anyways i dont think theres a better way to go over this so:
the step by step tutorial part (for the face + hair)
heres the base for the headshot which is just a sphere for the face, semicircles for the body and ears and a capsule for the neck. theres not much to see for a full body model since its basically the same as plutosodas. were going to make this a gumi megpoid because i think her hair is fun to draw :) also i forgot to sketch it out first so i urge you to not be like me and sketch things out first.
front bang, done in light green for clarity
side bangs. here i start thinking abt the general shape, here i want gumi to have an exaggerated indent on her head so the side bangs are shaped as such. i also elongated her front bang to frame the face a little better.
side hair thingies! the closer ones around her ears are a bit sideways to wrap around her head a bit more. i also made her side bangs a bit bigger to frame the face better. theres a lot of shifting things around i realize!
back hair time! its just a really big soft edge shape. you maybe see the the hair clips into the back a little. well paint it over during the painting process! also i made her head smaller here.
extra stray bit of hair! ill move onto the painting now, but ill probably add and change more later.
ok so there is not really any logic i follow when picking colors. i just usually pick my favorite ones. for the dono model (purple haired character you linked) i color picked their colors from their reference (made by @/tomatolamp on here who also does really cool art!!!!! including 3d stuff!!!!!!) but ill try to explain my coloring style a bit ^^
as said before my painting process in paint 3d is nearly identical to my 2d art so heres a gumi really quickly done in clip studio. for blush, i always like to move the color wheel closer to the red/pink area, maybe make it darker for really pale skin, and use a darker/more saturated red to draw in the blush + imply a nose bridge. for highlights i always go for something that stands out against the hair color, which yellow is always a safe choice for but anything that contrasts nicely will work for me!
heres her skin tone all colored in. i also changed the lighting to the sand filter to be more pleasing and not so washed out and gray
blush + lines!
face!! i like to draw on the eyes and mouth with blue cuz i like to use blue lineart when i do it.
hair colors time!! i changed the hair to a more pleasing green and changed the inside hair to yellow and added highlights. i got the gradient effect by simply moving the color slider from yellow to pink with stopping in between to get the middle colors.
i decided to redo the back so that it doesnt have a top part so it goes into the head a bit nicer. i traced over the original back part to keep the same shape :)
clothes time ^_^ her goggles are 3 hard edge shapes (2 for the eye parts, one for the bridge) and 2 semi circles and her collars are soft edges. also i added sparkles in her eyes and redid for front bang bc it was spaced out in a way that bothered me (this could have been avoided if i did a sketch. dont be like me) (and also i realize now i forgot to re add the highlight. oops)
also added some more stray hairs to the back to add more texture!! here i also tried to make things a bit more symmetrical and make sure that nothing looks too off from the other angles. its mostly just shifting things around!
and there you have a full paint3d model!! shes still a bit messy on some parts so i would probably fiddle around a bit more if she was a full model but thats the gist of it. if i skipped over anything or you still got further questions dont be afraid to ask :)!! happy paint3ding!!
#ive never wrote up a tutorial before so hopefully this makes sense :') ?? im also not great with words so sorry if its hard to follow >_<#meowart#mailbox#paint 3d#<- maintagging bc this might be useful for others !!#also it seems like this post has trouble having images side by side? does that happen if you add a read more link? huh
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#we gotta work on pioneering targeted memory erasing technology i canāt keep living like this#9 times out of 10 i donāt regret people and experiences even if they ended badly or caused me pain#but this one is not worth it just get rid of it#what gets me is that it affects how i look at my current friendships too like ultimately it doesnāt matter what people say now#because my old friends said all those nice things about me too and they still had no trouble throwing me away so anyone could do it#silver lining is that this seems to be following my usual trajectory of#it happens and sucks -> get over it -> 1-2 years later it comes back worse -> i get over it for real#but currentlyā¦.. well i have a list of names for the day i get mind explosion powers#okay back to being cool and unbothered#bella talks
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there's a very good chance that chiyo will eventually make her way back here bc multimuses are my bread and butter, but for now, you can start following @quietlyblooms if you'd like to keep my silly gal on your dash!
#i'm currently tinkering with the blog and adding pages but i figured i'd go ahead and make this post#there seems to be trouble with tumblr shadowbanning new blogs?? and i don't wanna take chances atm#so i'm making an early start with revealing the blog uvu#i won't be following first for a few days for the same reason as a heads up!#get ready to ramble | ooc
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i think one of the girls in my graphics class may be trans NOT to assume anyones gender ever but like she is very clearly like obviously presenting as very feminine like almost anyone would assume she is a girl like i would say she "passes" or whatever as a girl yk? but my prof was talking to me and was pointing out stuff abt her work as an example and kept saying he and him and i didnt even realize until later what was going on like i thought maybe he was talking abt someone else or smth or that maybe I had assumed her pronouns wrong and he knew from canvas or smth bc i never had even considered that she was maybe trans and then later she talked in front of the class abt her project and it wasnt until i heard her voice that was a little lower i was like oh my god the professor was like. straight up purposefully misgendering her i think. like it could not have been an innocent mistake clearly she is presenting as a girl and looks like a girl. and he was misgendering her TO ME and i didnt even realize and just acted like it was normal and she was sitting nearby probably overhearing the whole thing....
#i feel so bad i thought that teacher was cool too.... i want to give him the benefit of the doubt bc hes older and didnt SEEM to mean#anything by it like he seems nice enough to her? besides just using clearly the wrong pronouns? but like it seems so obvious that she is#a girl like ik that sometimes older ppl will have trouble w correcting it in their head and its not second nature for them to use pronouns#that may not align w their first impression of a person but like. anyones first impression of her would be that she is a girl. i also#checked on canvas and she has her pronouns listed as she/her so like... confirmed she isn't going by he/him. anyway i just feel unsure like#idk what i would have even done in that situation if i had realized like idk if its my place to correct him and make a big deal out of it i#she would prefer it to not be and ik trans women are probably used to getting misgendered like all the time i just have never been in a#situation where someone is irl getting misgendered like. purposefully. possibly? idk#not to be like so sheltered ik all the trans ppl who follow me are like this is literally just a tuesday afternoon but there are not many#trans ppl (at least not out) where i live and so i don't see this kind of thing irl i guess im just a little shocked... and i mostly feel#bad especially that it was like. right in front of her
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