#transmisogyny ratio reader

[walks-the-ages]

it is genuinely fucking hilarious how "transmisogyny-ratio-reader" is a geninely good source of inclusive blogs to follow because all she does is comment her hypocritical "gotchas" about "trans unity: failed" on posts where people, including fellow trans women, are talking about how trans men, nonbinary folk, and intersex folk are not some mythical Evil Enemy.

Like, legitimately, I scroll through that blog and there's so many people I've already been following getting what this person views as "dunked on", where she insults people, misgenders people she doesn't like or know the pronouns of via "theyfab" per her tags on my post about

"they really are afraid of the tfem boogeyman I mean they"

which is hilarious because 1) my pronouns are indeed they/them but they're not listed on my bio so she assumed this

and 2) do you think she also puts this tag on any one who's profile doesn't include pronouns including the multiple trans women she's targeting and literally just goes around misgendering people as an insult and somehow thinks this is gonna get people to think she's anything except a random radical feminist?

It really is amusing to see a blog like this that claims to be about fighting transmisogyny and half the time she seems to be attacking other trans women for what she thinks is the crime of caring about other people.

[rjalker]

oooh look the radfem is block evading! Everyone can now report both blogs for violating TOS!

I know it shouldn't get to me but that transmisogyny ratio reader blog has really ticked me off. They literally admitted that they spend a couple of minutes making quick judgements on people's ability to talk about transmisogyny 'correctly'.

'Correctly' being if you're not 'TMA' then you shouldn't talk about it at all, and your entire blog should only contain reblogs from 'TMA' people.

This includes drawing on knowledge you have of transmisogyny and posting about it without specifically calling it transmisogyny (what) and mentioning an example of transmisogyny alongside similar acts of transphobia towards other kinds of trans people.

I hate this idea that talking about transmisogyny is a closed off thing that only those affected can do, but at the same time you're a piece of shit if you talk about your own experiences and not transmisogyny and also you're a piece of shit if you don't centre it in a post made for all kinds of trans people.

Tell me wtf was wrong exactly with me pointing out the duality in the bigotry aimed at trans women and trans men and trans neutral people all in one post?

Trans unity is not 'only centre one kind of trans person' it's 'everyone work together to combat shared issues as well as listening to how others have it including in ways completely unique to your own'. What exactly is this persons problem.

'There's a pattern' yeah, the pattern is trans people talking about their experiences and those they've noticed in others and you disliking it because the spotlight isn't on what you think it should be.

Literally people like this are what's driving us as a community apart. You know what's transmisogynistic? Acting like nobody but other trans women could EVER relate to, understand, or have similar experiences to you and if they try to state as such they're clearly out to get you. I bet that's not isolating at all. I bet that's not terrifying or othering at all. -eye roll-

[walks-the-ages]

Pretty-kitten-paw is the main blog of Transmisogyny -ratio-reader2, and is one of the *literal* trans radfems in question who spends her time going through the Transandrophobia tag harassing people about "trans unity: failed" and calling everyone transmisogynists for anything resembling inclusivity to the entire trans community.

You won't get anything approaching a debate or good faith discussion with her unfortunately

Yall do understand that coming into the transandrophobia tags to talk about how transmisogynists some people who talk about transandrophobia (while generalizing all of us) are is the exact same as me going into the transmisogyny tags and calling everyone who talks about it trans radfems and how they are dividing us simply because they hate that men exist, that’s super fucked up so why the fuck are you doing that to us

[ventbloglite]

Hey guys! Might want to block @transmisogyny-ratio-reader

This seems to be a relatively new blog. This person is purposefully going through the transmisogny tags (as well as transandrophobia and anti-transmasculinity) to reblog and ratio (i.e. shame) anyone who talks about transmisogny in a way they view as 'incorrect'. Judging by what they've chosen to reblog and rate low, including my own post, they clearly have an issue with trans unity where 'trans unity' doesn't mean 'everyone else shut up and just talk about transmisogyny but also don't if you're not transfemme'. Anyway trans people have shared experiences and you should talk about them, as well as acknowledging specifics and any overlap. Don't let idiots like this shut you down. Might be worth blocking from your posts. Yeah. Blogs like this are toxic af.

[ventbloglite]

I know it shouldn't get to me but that transmisogyny ratio reader blog has really ticked me off. They literally admitted that they spend a couple of minutes making quick judgements on people's ability to talk about transmisogyny 'correctly'.

'Correctly' being if you're not 'TMA' then you shouldn't talk about it at all, and your entire blog should only contain reblogs from 'TMA' people.

This includes drawing on knowledge you have of transmisogyny and posting about it without specifically calling it transmisogyny (what) and mentioning an example of transmisogyny alongside similar acts of transphobia towards other kinds of trans people.

I hate this idea that talking about transmisogyny is a closed off thing that only those affected can do, but at the same time you're a piece of shit if you talk about your own experiences and not transmisogyny and also you're a piece of shit if you don't centre it in a post made for all kinds of trans people.

Tell me wtf was wrong exactly with me pointing out the duality in the bigotry aimed at trans women and trans men and trans neutral people all in one post?

Trans unity is not 'only centre one kind of trans person' it's 'everyone work together to combat shared issues as well as listening to how others have it including in ways completely unique to your own'. What exactly is this persons problem.

'There's a pattern' yeah, the pattern is trans people talking about their experiences and those they've noticed in others and you disliking it because the spotlight isn't on what you think it should be.

Literally people like this are what's driving us as a community apart. You know what's transmisogynistic? Acting like nobody but other trans women could EVER relate to, understand, or have similar experiences to you and if they try to state as such they're clearly out to get you. I bet that's not isolating at all. I bet that's not terrifying or othering at all. -eye roll-

[rjalker]

the blog has been remade as transmisogyny-ratio-reader2 to block and ban evade, so make sure you block and report the new one, and be aware there will probably be at least a few more iterations before this radfem gives up.

Unless someone feels like sniping the other URLs, lol, which would be really funny.

I don't know who needs to hear this, but regurgitating Radical Feminism talking point of

"Men are all Inherently Evil, Physically Superior, and Predatory to Women"

does not, in fact, do anything for Actual Feminism where the main talking point is

"We are all Human Beings and we're not Intrinsically Different based on the gender some random doctors decided on at birth"

and you're not doing anything for Queer Solidarity either when you go around proclaiming that all men, including trans men, are these evil oppressive monsters who have advantages in life based purely on their gender (even if they are trans men who are not out of the closet yet, apparently) , and I'm not sure why on earth the new crop of Trans-Inclusive Rad Fems think that being 'proud misandrists' is going to save them from being targeted by cis transphobes??? You can't win protection from transphobes by throwing your fellow trans community under the bus, and when you go around saying that all men are disgusting oppressive predators who have never done anything for the queer community ever and have never experienced any true oppression ever its like. ....

.... what the fuck is wrong with you?

Did you forget the AIDs crisis exists?

Did you forget the gay and bi men exist?

Did you forget that Black men exist??

The world's oppression does not begin and end with trans women, and if you're happy to throw the rest of the trans community under the bus so you can feel superior, I don't know who the heck you expect to have your back when you need help, because everyone else has already been run the fuck over, because you fucking threw them in the road because you somehow still think Respectability Politics is gonna save you instead of leaving your Exclusionist Bubble the community that ends up alone and isolated.

Trust me. Life is a lot more bearable and hopeful when you don't go around insisting an entire 50% of humanity is evil based on their gender. Try talking to your fellow trans men, trans mascs, nonbinary people and intersex people before you make another post about how """theyfabs have it so easy and trans men are inherently privalaged and evil because they're men and they shouldn't talk about reproductive health or the need for safe abortions because that's just speaking over women""" 🤦🤦🤦

[rjalker]

Other urls run by the same person:

pretty-kitten-paw

transmisogyny-ratio-reader

transmisogyny-ratio-reader2

make sure you block 2pretty-2butch. a trans radfem. spouting all the regular radfem bullshit. including blatant misogyny.