#to 'they argue about a ninjas vs mushrooms show' but that's just my brand I guess

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Tired of KakaIru being gender roles 2.0 everyone always acting like Iruka is the mother hen and Kakashi can't take care of himself or whatever like the novels confirm Iruka can cook and keep a house clean, yes, and sure he scolds people and treats them to takeout but you're all clearly forgetting that we've seen Kakashi's place too and guess what? It is also clean and he has many shelves filled with books. It isn't a plain apartment that doesn't look cared for he very clearly looks after his space and keeps the gifts people get him if Mr Ukki is any indication

He buys Naruto groceries, is concerned that he only has out of date milk in the fridge, in a bonus house tour chapter/databook entry [you can't expect me to remember which one it's been years] he spends the whole time talking about how Naruto needs to eat more veggies and "don't forget to clean your bathtub!" etc

They're both caretakers in different ways! They both know how to cook! They would split the house chores evenly! Do things for the other without being asked! If Iruka is working long shifts Kakashi would bring him lunch and do the shopping for him. If Kakashi is tired from a mission Iruka would run him a bath and cook dinner for him. And then they would bicker over a shitty tv show because Iruka's mad about the historical innacuracy and Kakashi's like "why are you so hung up about it this show is about ninjas fighting humanoid mushrooms" "THOSE OUTFITS AREN'T EVEN FROM THIS ERA"