#tinder conversations

[wintasian]

Tinder conversations

#TINDER CONVERSATIONS SERIES#

Well, first and foremost, NOTHING sexual. What did you say? It wasn’t so long ago and yet, your memory is hazy… There was a time, in the not so distant past, where you would talk to strangers and engage in conversations. What that girl wants is to feel special, as if she’s not just some random girl who you swiped right on (Even though that is exactly what happened).Ī text that reads “hey” is one that she’s most likely not going to respond to. Why? She’s going to read that and think you’ve sent the same three letters to 60 other girls. Keep it short, sweet, flirty is fine, just don’t say “hey”. S hould I just say “hey”? You begin to type…STOP!

#TINDER CONVERSATIONS SERIES#

You type out a series of responses, deleting each and trying again. Here you are, a complete stranger, staring at a picture of a beautiful girl and you’re thinking, what do I say? What is a good conversation starter ? How do I not mess this up? You begin swiping and swiping, then MATCH ! She’s hot and you match, which means she thinks you’re hot too. Online dating isn’t exactly a choice anymore it’s a necessity. Thank God for the Internet! Now more than ever, people need their smartphones to foster human connections. It’s the new normal, which includes lockdowns and social distancing, that has made it more difficult than ever to meet and date new people. Tinder! The app is back and hotter than ever. How else are you supposed to date these days? But now all us singles, who always swore we’d never attempt online dating, are somewhat out of luck.

[canonkiller]

something about finding someone like yourself

[sherlockruiningmylife]

It’s a long shot I know. Looking for someone from Germany (a city in the west, not too far from France where I am) whose name starts with V (I remember her name but I don’t want to expose it in case it’s not something shared here) who is in the Arcane fandom. I also remember they spoke English, German, and French.

Not certain that she is on Tumblr but it seemed like the best shot. I matched with you on Tinder not too long ago and we had a fun conversation going about fandoms and books that we enjoy but then for some reason my Tinder decided to just go kaput this last weekend. It signed me out and I did my best to sign back in but it said there was no account attached to my email. No idea why. So I lost my conversation with you. Last I remember we were talking about books that we were reading or want to read. And my final message was about reading the song of Achilles in French. But we also talked about lots of other books like good omens, house on the cerulean sea, cemetery boys, and wilder girls to name a few. We had also talked about our gateway fandoms, mine being doctor who, I think yours was harry potter (I’ve got an awful memory so I am not confident on that). 

I’d really like to find you again because I enjoyed our conversation. So if you are out there in the world of tumblr, send me a message :) I doubt that if I reset my Tinder that I’d be able to find you again unfortunately because I think we matched while I was either in Strasbourg or Mannheim which I don’t think I’ll be in either again soon. But I’ll be around to talk if you’d like. 

-M

[blueskittlesart]

in case any of you were wondering how my love life has been going as of late i redownloaded tinder last month only to immediately panic and delete it after swiping right on a girl without realizing she was in my character design class. i’ve somehow managed to avoid ending up in the same crit group as her until today, when i was forced to talk to her because NEITHER OF US COULD FIND THE NEW ROOM FOR OUR CLASS.

[officialtinder]

[kikmessenger]

What’s your phone wallpaper? 🤗

[trixibebe]

A dude started to text me on twitter since we're both yakuza fans and come from the same country and he asks me "Why Zhao? 😏"

How am I supposed to answer that normally? 😭

[waitineedaname]

head in my hands trying to figure out how to initiate conversations with the hot butches on tinder

[niallandtommo]

so uh i'm probably gonna meet tinder dude on sunday

[125storejuice]

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[samscompliment]

just matched with someone on tinder whose spotify anthem was by grant macdonald of jensen ackles cowboy butt fame. so this could easily go either way

[whiskeywithrayna]

Waiting for the True Detective gifs to DROP.

[butchazepam]

Maybe never having friends in all my childhood and teenage years permanently damaged my social skills. Even after getting over dysphoria and college i can't make friends or have relationships or sex ☹️

[oscarcito]

we're mutuals but the idea of talking to you lowkey scares me. like what wouod we discuss? what if you think i'm an annoying conversationally lacking loser :( i can never reveal who i am now because this has set a precedent for behavior. but besides that i think you're cool and i like what you do for the posting economy

anonie i’m being so for real that no matter how bad u think u are at conversation, i am the same 😭

ask game

[veronicathegoddess]

coming out of a longterm relationship and back into the dating world is realizing how much it's changed since you were last there and not of a single one of those changes were good. idc if i didn't notice it before or if my standards have just gotten higher but it is horrific and i'm just resigning myself to being single for the rest of my life

[northern-passage]

as a devoted fanfic writer and a fan of yours, im back to say the lea fic i wrote during the exam was worth it even tho i now know i failed since got my results today B) IDC NO REGRETS WOOOOO

anon....