#this year's Ted Lasso Christmas Special is looking good!

[hubba1892]

[saywhatjessie]

I signed my letter that I sealed with a kiss

Advent Calendar Day 17! (prompts by @raven-cincaide-words) Today’s prompts: Ice cream in Winter | Pen Pals | Love Letters Fandom: Ted Lasso - Pairing: Tred 1.1k[Ao3]

Hey, Trent!

Happy Holidays! Henry asked if we could pick up our old tradition of sending out Christmas cards and who was I to say no? Luckily, he thought it was fine if I sent all the Richmond cards in one go to Nelson Road and trust Higgins to hand them out to the right people, so if you’re getting this than he did it! Knew he could – our Higgybottom is one smooth operator. Henry did the art for the front of the card! He’s getting really into drawing lately. He needed something stationary to do when he broke his ankle a couple months ago. No football! The horror! But he’s become really taken with colored pencil drawings and I think I look pretty good, right? He really get the depth and texture of my mustache. He insisted we also include a photo of the two of us so people can see how good his drawing is and I told him people would remember what we looked like but he insisted! So now, I’m afraid, you absolutely have to hang these on your fridge. In Kansas I may be, but this way I am also with you in your kitchen, judging you for getting takeout for the fifth time this week. Hope you’re having a nice one! Text me a picture of this card on your fridge so I know you did it. If you don’t text me the same day Beard does, I’ll send him after you and he’ll show up at your house. Sorry not sorry!

Love, Ted & Henry Lasso

🌻✈️💌☕

Dear, Ted and Henry,

Happy holidays to you as well! Clara was absolutely smitten with the idea of drawing a Christmas card and so now I’ve been made to send one back. Well, it was my pleasure. Look at the craftsmanship! The glitter was my idea. You’re welcome. Clara would like to know what Henry is asking Santa for and if Mr. Ted could send her more biscuits for Christmas. I told her it was unlikely as sending baked goods through customs was a dubious endeavor but she insisted I ask. So I’m asking. And, between you and me, if you’re doing it for my daughter anyway, I would like to request mine with that cinnamon sugar topping you Americans like. Please and thank you. I’ve held up my end, as you know from our lengthy phone call after I texted you the picture of my fridge, so now I simply must insist you return the favor. I’ve also included a photo of Clara and myself – I’m not sure she and Henry have ever met. It might be nice for him to put a face to a name as I know it’s been good for Clara. Missing you, Ted Lasso, and wishing the best for Henry in this new artistic pursuit.

Merry Christmas, Trent and Clara Crimm

☕✈️💌🌻

Trent,

Cookies are en route! I expect this letter to get to you before the cookies do – gosh darn customs – but some very helpful people on Reddit gave me some tips to make sure everything’s kosher. If you don’t get them, I’ll assume the hardworking people at the postal service did, and we can’t really blame them, can we? I had to make a double batch so Henry could get some but he’s more of a chocolate chip guy so wasn’t really sure what to make of the thing you weird Brits call biscuits. I ended up sharing them with some of my new neighbors and taking Henry out for ice cream instead. Yes, ice cream in winter. We’re lucky we’ve got so many dairy farms nearby that there are creameries open this time of year! I suppose I could have just gotten pints of good old Ben & Jerry’s from the Dillon’s but, well, the act of Getting Ice Cream with my kid is just something really special. It’s more the act than the thing itself, like going to the movies or reading in the park. Sure, you can do that stuff at home, but it’s just that little bit sweeter to experience it with the world. Henry’s going through that cotton candy ice cream phase which is utterly repulsive but I guess he’s feeling like he has to prove something. I got the cookie trifecta of cookie dough, cookies and cream, and the special peanut butter cookie ice cream from the creamery. It was perfect and I make the best choices. You’ll have to visit Kansas some time so you can try it - not sure shipping you ice cream will work out like the cookies did. Tell Clara that Henry asked Santa for a new bike. Don’t tell Henry, but Santa is already keeping it hidden in the neighbor’s garage. Let me know how it all shakes out! And get yourself something nice besides the cookies. For me.

Love, Ted.

🌻✈️💌☕

Ted,

It is now past Christmas as the postal system has a vendetta against me, specifically (in actuality I know they’ve been very busy with packaged and whatnot but I’m bitter) but the biscuits were perfect and my little one is now in a bit of a sugar coma. Sha says thank you so much and she hopes Henry liked his bike. I’m taken the unexpected moment of peace to do something nice for myself, as you asked. My mother is staying with me so she’s happy to watch Clara as I make my way to get gelato. Which is like your American ice cream but a million times better. There’s more fat, if you can believe it. And it’s perfect. I’m sitting there now, at a little cafe table in the shop. Everyone is looking at me like I’m insane - it’s an Italian shop so people usually come in here for cappuccinos or Italian pastries this time of year but her I’m sat with a tower of hazelnut ferrer in a waffle cone while it’s 2°. And I do not regret it. This gelato is delicious and you were right about the action of it, too. Everyone here thinks I’m crazy, but by coming out and getting a frozen treat, I feel like I’m doing it with you. Only Ted Lasso would do something so charming and ill-advised. It’s like you’re still here. I would love to see Kansas. Just tell me when to book my flight.

Love, Trent.

☕✈️💌🌻

Hey, sweetheart.

You left your sweater. It’s in the box. I almost kept it to cuddle with, I miss you so much already. I’m still working on Michelle but I think I can convince her to move us to London by next season.

Wait for me.

Love, Ted.

🌻✈️💌☕

[sweatersinthesummer]

20 questions

Thanks for tagging me, @doggernaut! This is fun.

How many works do you have on AO3?

70

2. What's your total AO3 words count?

118,972

3. What fandoms do you write for?

The last thing I wrote was a Drarry fic, but that was a Schitt's Creek AU, and before that, I wrote for Check Please, Ted Lasso, and Schitt's Creek. I hesitate to say I currently write for anything, though I'd love to write something again one day, if the muse strikes.

4. What are your top 5 fics by kudos?

I'm going to count podfics here, but I'm not going to count multivoice ones.

1. [Podfic] Cassiopeia Lily Malfoy by GallaPlacidia (Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling) 2. [Podfic] Ship of Theseus by GallaPlacidia (Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling) 3. [Podfic] GOODNIGHT FROM YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND by GallaPlacidia (Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling) 4. [Podfic] The Full Monty (Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling) 5. All your compliments and your cutting remarks are captured here in my quotation marks (Schitt's Creek)

so only one of my top five is a fic, the others are Drarry pods. (It's a very active fandom, so that makes sense.)

5. Do you respond to comments? Why or why not?

Always. Sometimes it takes a little bit, but I respond to every single one. I am so appreciative of them.

6. What's the fic you wrote with the angstiest ending?

I mean, none of them have an angsty ending, and even though I adore reading angst, I am not very adept at writing it. I have exactly two fics (not pods) tagged with angst. Maybe As long as you love me so has the most angst? The other one is my Bridget Jones Diary AU, so any angst is really thanks to Helen Fielding, not me.

7. What's the fic you wrote with the happiest ending?

I have no idea! My fics tend to have kind of fuzzy "and they lived happily ever after" endings but probably the most specifically happy ones are Do I have to spell it out for you? and As long as you love me so.

8. Do you get hate on fics?

No, thank goodness. I have a very thin skin.

9. Do you write smut. If so what kind?

I do not.

10. Do you write crossovers? What's the craziest one you've written?

I've done a lot of AUs of other things (like Drarry/Schitt's Creek, Schitt's Creek/Bridget Jones' Diary, Schitt's Creek/Never Been Kissed) but I guess the only true crossovers are my Schitt's Creek/Ted Lasso fics.

11. Have you ever had a fic stolen?

No.

12. Have you ever had a fic translated?

No.

13. Have you ever cowritten a fic before?

It's not officially cowritten, but The Haus Official Ship Names was definitely a collaborative effort.

14. What's your all-time favourite ship?

I mean. David and Patrick got me into fandom. But Jack and Bitty stole me away from them, and there was the Ted/Trent pairing, and now Drarry has most of my attention. YOU CAN'T MAKE ME PICK.

15. What's a WIP you want to finish, but doubt you ever will?

Hmmm. I don't have a lot of WIPs, but the one I've written the most for is a Christmas shop one for Schitt's Creek. Maybe I'll finish it finally for Frozen Over this year!

16. What are your writing strengths?

Uhhhhh, I don't know. Dialogue?

17. What are your writing weaknesses?

I'm not great at world building. I always feel like I skim over that too much, and if I added more, maybe my stories would be richer.

18. Thoughts on writing dialogue in another language for a fic?

If I were to, I'd definitely ask for help.

19. First fandom you wrote for?

Well, in middle school, a friend and I wrote some kind of RPF involving INXS (my first obsession). I think we also wrote some Twin Peaks stuff, but I can't find evidence of it. But officially, Schitt's Creek.

20. Favourite fic you've ever written?

Oooh. That's hard. I think And sew it begins... is my most favorite. But I also have a special fondness for A little bit of a misunderstanding and Welcome to Schittsmeade (that one makes me laugh.)

That was fun! Please do this is it looks fun to you! I love reading these!

[thesestoriesarewrittenonmyheart]

I'm going to preface with this has spoilers for the Ted Lasso Christmas ep so as to not make anyone upset...and bear with me it's a bit long.🎄

I have a lot of feelings and I'm not sure they'll be coherent but here we go...(It's also 2:30am here in NY...)

1. The Secret Santa: loved it and thought it was such a Ted thing to do. Also, is that not common outside of the US?

2. Rebecca being the only one in the office to pick up on Ted’s sadness when talking about Henry...understanding that his cheeriness was a cover (because how often during her marriage had she done the same thing?)! I felt like in that moment, she KNEW what she had to do. I also loved this softer side of her and the time she spent with Ted. So, so much.

3. Love Sexy Chrismas, but love little Roy/Pheobe/Keeley family time, more! Also LOVED the Love Actually moment. Fucking Bernard.

4. Rebecca delivering presents to children on Christmas day!!!!!!!! It's canon in my mind she did this because Rupert was a POS and didn't want children. Ugh. My heart.

5. The Higgins family...thinking Sam would be the only one to show and then being okay if it was just Dani, Richard, and Zoreaux....but then the rest of them show!! I think its not just a testament to what Ted's done with the team but also how the rest of them (see: Higgins, and Rebecca, and Keeley) have come to create this found family. I know Higgins says they've done it every year, but they've only gotten 2 at most. Here, there was 8+! That's something special. And loved that they shared their family traditions and invited the team to bring some of their own.

6. "You look perfect." I died. (Side note: Rebecca in jeans is a mood and I am not okay).

7. The teasing: "...drinking and plotting horrible things." "Oh, yea? Like what?" ::turns to Ted, soft smile:: "...I wanted to make sure you're okay." "Yea, well I am now." NOW.

8. The It's a Wonderful Life scene. This. Jason talks about "angel moments" (I'm sure someone can find it...) he mentioned it in regards to the rickshaw at the gala when Ted and Rebecca are outside...these moments where angels find us, especially when we need them most. Ted, after face timing with Henry, and experiencing what is likely the first Christnas without his son, is watching It's a Wonderful Life. The scene we see is George Bailey at the bridge, getting ready to jump. The unhappiness, self doubt, loneliness, uncertainty is at its peak...and then Clarence, an actual angel appears. It's this MOMENT that REBECCA throws the rocks at his window (adorable and every 80s/90s rom com came to mind). She is his Clarence. THIS is an angel moment. Most people think Clarence shows George how good his life is, but what the angel really does is show the impact George had on the small town of Bedford Falls. We've already seen bits of Ted questioning himself and what he's done at Richmond through the introduction of Doc-tor Sharon. Here, in THIS MOMENT, Rebecca reminds Ted he's not alone, she shows him the differences he's made in Richmond, in her and in the end, the LAST thing they do is go to where the rest of their family is...all together, at the Higgins home. It's that end scene of It's a Wonderful Life...all of Bedford Falls in George's home. Returning the love and kindness he's given to them. It's here we see the work Ted's done, and the work every single one of those characters has done, too. God. I loved this episode.

9. The SINGING!! I need Hannah to drop a Christmas album ASAP. Ma'am. PLEASE. Also adored how she held the mic and had Ted sing. The two idiots. (NOW KISS!)

Okay. To bed. (Also please add your thoughts!)

[sleepykittypaws]

Top 25 Holiday TV Episodes

With a few more stand-alone exceptions, I don’t usually list holiday-themed episodes of ongoing series, simply because there are too many each season to keep track of, but that doesn't mean we don't watch them, and have our favorites, which I’ve ranked below.

One note, I'm not considering stand-alone anthologies, like The Twilight Zone's “The Night of the Meek” (1960) or Black Mirror's "White Christmas," not because they're not good—”Night of the Meek” is among the best holiday viewing has to offer—but because they're really more specials, or short films, than episodes of ongoing series, and someday maybe I'll circle back and have a favorites list for that category, too. 😄

Updated: June 26, 2023

Gavin & Stacey Christmas Special, 2019 - Pure perfection, this caught up with the Welsh working class series nearly a decade after it last aired in seamless fashion, and became the most-watched UK show in a decade.

Ted Lasso, “Carol of the Bells,” 2021- The fact that this debuted when it was barely mid-August is honestly the only thing keeping me from moving this near-perfect holiday treat to the top of my list. Will have to watch it again by the light of a Christmas tree to be absolutely sure, but already know this will remain one of my all-time favorites. 

Schitt’s Creek, “Merry Christmas, Johnny Rose,” 2018 - A true one-off holiday special in the UK tradition, where the characters from the show are intact, but it almost seems to take place outside any of the ongoing timeline of the show’s running story, making it endlessly re-watchable, and seriously funny. Like almost everything about this series, it’s near-perfect.

Happy Endings, “Grinches Be Crazy,” 2011 - A great holiday episode of one of my favorite shows. Jane and Brad-centric Happy Endings episodes are the best, and their housekeeper hijinks here are hilarious.

Hart of Dixie, “Hairdos and Holidays,” 2011 - This first-season Christmas episode has the added benefit of being right about when the show started to gel into the lighthearted, quirky, often winking rom-com it became. Goofy Bluebell hijinks abound as Zoe and Lemon bicker over a town beauty contest they’ve entered Rose and Magnolia in, and George and Wade go on a Christmas tree-stealing misadventure. Absolutely one of my all-time favorite comfort watch shows, there are actually quite a few great Hart of Dixie holiday episodes, including season three′s Hanukkah-centered “Miracles.” Who says Christmas cheer doesn’t happen in the South? (cough, Hallmark, cough)

Gavin & Stacey Christmas Special, 2008-In the opposite of the latest Christmas installment, this time the Barry side of the clan heads to Billericay for a very memorable holiday.

Trophy Wife, “Twas the Night Before Christmas or Twas It?,” 2013 - This too short-lived series had a humdinger of a holiday episode, where the parents have to try and piece together what happened one accidentally out of control Christmas Eve

Motherland, “Last Christmas,” 2022 - The second holiday special from this very funny UK series co-created by Sharon Horgan came, in great British Christmas special tradition, two years after the series finale. The messy suburban mom-group returned in fine form for a quite funny and, in the end, extremely touching, Christmas Day celebration that was well worth the wait.

Outnumbered, “The Broken Santa,” 2011 - Wish I had room for all four of Outnumbered's excellent Christmas specials on the list, because they're all wonderful, but this look at Christmas plans gone very wrong is something any parent can relate to. Very difficult to chose between this one and 2009′s “The Robbers,” the series’ first Christmas special.

Great British Bake Off, New Year’s, 2020 - This crossover episode with the fantastic Derry Girls is, somewhat surprisingly, run just like a traditional Bake Off episode, but the wonderful Derry Girls cast, none of whom are expert bakers, make it extra delightful and wonderful. Just an ideal combination of two near-perfect series ably delivering holiday humor and tons of good cheer.

Seinfeld, “The Strike,” 1997 - Not all of Seinfeld has aged well, but the episode that gave us a Festivus for the rest of us remains a standout.

Roseanne, “White Trash Christmas,” 1993 - Real-life Roseanne is beyond problematic, but the original run of her eponymous series, remains a classic.

Happy Endings, “No-Ho-Ho,” 2012 - Jane hiding her holiday birthday, Max dealing with his eggnog addiction, and Alex trying to curb her present fixation are all classic Happy Endings bits.

Veronica Mars, “An Echolls family Christmas,” 2004 - Holiday episodes often step away from ongoing plots, but not Veronica Mars. The mystery of the week moves Veronica closer to Logan, and the season-long arc gets a big jump forward as well, along with plenty of festive flourishes.

Arrested Development, “Afternoon Delight,” 2004 - Like all early Arrested Development episodes this one is jam-packed with jokes and benefits from multiple viewings, from Gob's sticky child phobia, and Lindsay creepily looking for a date to the Christmas party, to Maeby and George-Michael’s hilarious duet. 

30 Rock, “Ludachristmas,” 2008 - Like Festivus, Ludachristmas became a running holiday joke in the series, and this is where it began. We also get to meet Andy Richter as Liz's brother Mitch.

The Simpsons, “Simpsons Roasting on an Open Fire,” 1989 - This pilot episode of The Simpsons actually originally aired on Fox as a stand alone, The Simpsons Christmas Special, before being spun into the longest-running show on television.

Fraiser, “A Miracle on 3rd or 4th Street,” 1993- Fraiser is one of those series I watched regularly for years, but never really considered a favorite, yet this episode stands out, managing to be both very funny, and hugely moving, saved from being maudlin by the series’ wit.

Bobs Burgers, “Christmas in the Car,” 2013 - Bob's Burgers isn't in our regular watching rotation, but their holiday episodes are classics, and this everything-goes-wrong-on-Christmas-Eve half hour is one of the best.

Downton Abbey, “Christmas at Downton Abbey,” 2012 - This journey back to Christmas 1919 kicked off a tradition of opulent and swoon-worthy Downton holiday specials, always with big twists and lavish holiday festivities that make them a delight to view over and over again.

Veep, “Camp David,” 2016 - Regifting leading to an international incident is exactly the sort of holiday episode only Veep could do, and even though real life has since challenged even some of the series’ wilder storylines, this show is always laugh-out-loud funny.

Malcom in the Middle, “Christmas,” 2001 - This kids vs parents battle in the holiday bribery behavior wars is kind of genius, and absolutely holds up.

Curb your Enthusiasm, “Mary, Joseph and Larry,” 2002 - Larry being a Christmas curmudgeon is a given, not least because he's Jewish, but his repeated interactions here with the live nativity players is among the series' best running gags.

Gilmore Girls, “The Bracebridge Dinner,” 2001 - One of many delightful Stars Hollow holidays, that really goes big on the Christmas touches, with an elaborate Christmas costume party and snow art contest, as well as the touching family dramedy Gilmore Girls is known for.

The Middle, “A Simple Christmas,” 2010 - This consistently undervalued family sitcom, was always good, but rarely great. This is just one of many very good holiday episodes, both features both festive fun and everyone in the series getting to be their best selves, plus guest stars Jerry Van Dyke and Martha Mason as Frankie’s parents, so it’s well worth a watch.

Honorable Mentions

Honestly, when I started to think about it, there are so many great holiday TV episodes this list could go on forever, and that's without even taking into consideration the many classic Thanksgiving or Halloween options out there (a theme to explore on another day, perhaps?), but here, in no particular order, are a few more worthy of note, all of which were in serious consideration for my Top 25…

Buffy the Vampire Slayer, “Amends,” 1998 - This early episode deep in the Buffy-Angel romance finds the vampire with a soul haunted by his past at the holidays.

Mad Men, "Christmas Waltz," 2012- The Don and Joan powwow we didn't even know we needed, but was then all we ever wanted to see again is the highlight of this excellent holiday-set episode, that just didn’t have quite enough Christmas to make the cut.

Friends, “The One With The Holiday Armadillo,” 2000 - I'm not a Friends super fan by any means, dipping in and out of the series throughout its run, but the gang did know how to do holidays, and this early season, costume conundrum farce, is Friends firing on all cylinders.

Picket Fences, “Cross Examination,” 1993 - This ultra-quirky series isn’t available anywhere to stream, which is shame, as I’d love to rewatch and see if it holds up to my memories. This Christmas-set episode focuses on the religious side of the season, something rarely explored by primetime TV, and has lingered in my memory since I first saw it. A real-life pregnant virgin turning up puts the town’s clergy in a quandary. 2022 UPDATE: Haven’t had a chance to rewatch this episode, but Picket Fences is now streaming on Hulu.

Glee, “A Very Glee Christmas,” 2010 - The storyline was, meh, whatever, but the music in Glee's first, and best, holiday episode has stood the test of time, and still populates my holiday playlist, long after I’ve forgotten most of the series itself.

The West Wing, “In Excelsis Deo,” 1999 - The West Wing can be preachy and pretentious, but it was also, at many times, awfully good, and while this episode that focuses on how there are no days off for world leaders is pure political fantasy porn, it’s one of those really good episodes. Yes, it’s holiday emotionally manipulative, but in all the right ways, and holds up to rewatches.

Modern Family, “The Last Christmas,” 2019 - Far past its peek, this final holiday episode of the series doesn't have as many laughs as something like 2009's “Undeck the Halls,” but it actually works as a series ending better than the actual finale several months later

The Wonder Years, “Christmas,” 1988 - It's no surprise this nostaligia-centered show is at its best around the holidays. This one was genuinely difficult to leave off the list.

The OC, “The Best Chrismukkah Ever,” 2003 - I will die on the hill that the OC would have been a better show if it centered solely on Seth and Summer. And it’s their cuteness here, plus the show's coining (or at least mainstreaming) the term “Chrismukkah” that almost earned it a place on this list.

Everybody Hates Chris, “Everybody Hates Christmas,” 2005 - Everything at Christmas doesn't always work out, and that's funny, too.

The Goldbergs, “A Christmas Story,” 2015 - So few shows deal not only with Hanukkah, but its celebration in concert with the ubiquity of Christmas, as both a religious and cultural touchstone.

ER, “Homeless for the Holidays,” 1996 - Honestly, few shows, particularly long-running dramas, did holiday episodes as well as ER, emotional, funny and heart-rending, Even in later seasons, the Christmas episodes were worth watching, and hold up well. Considered naming 2001′s “I’ll Be Home for Christmas,” which sent off series regular Eriq LaSalle for the last time, and there are a half dozen other worthwhile choices as well, but “Homeless for the Holidays” features the entire original ER cast and offers both humor and heart, in a decidedly festive package.

The Simpsons, “A Springfield Summer Christmas for Springfield,” 2020 - The Simpsons has been on, approximately, one million years, and actually started as a Christmas special (on my Top 25 list above), so there are no shortage of holiday episodes—another of my favorites is 2006′s “Kill Gil, Volumes I & II” which introduced the Grumple into Simpsons, and my own home’s, lore—but their latest deserves a shout out, since it’s a spot-on Hallmark, excuse me “Heartmark,” movie parody episode. Very funny, especially for made-for-TV Christmas movie fans.

AP Bio, “Katie Holmes Day,” 2020 - This not-a-Christmas-episode is none-the-less one of the best, “a very special celebration” TV episodes out there. Can be watched even if you’re unfamiliar with the series, and hits on all the holiday special episodes tropes, while also embracing them. Brilliant.

The Bear, “Fishes,” 2023 - This fraught family flashback episode of the Hulu series is anything but cozy and uplifting, but it’s also an extremely well done look at the seedier side of family holidays, featuring Oscar winner Jamie Lee Curtis as a frazzled, very f’ed up mother alternatively adoring and emotionally terrorizing her family on Christmas Eve.

Derry Girls, “The President,” 2019 - This moving second season finale of the Northern Irish show that’s one of my all-time favorites, would probably have made my top 25 if it had been more about the holiday instead of just set at it, with decor aplenty. Still, this classic episode centered around Bill Clinton’s real-life visit to Derry at the end of November 1995 is one of the series very best.

[ramseyesscom]

Issue Seventy-Five

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Where others watch It's a Wonderful Life or Miracle on 34th Street, the film A Christmas Story was and is the must-watch Christmas thing in our house. My dad absolutely loves that movie, and I still remember the moments that got the biggest laughs out of him the first time he showed it to me as a kid. (In order: 3. Santa boot, 2. Major Award, 1. "Oh, fudge!") So years later when I discovered that the film was based on an embellished memoir, and not only that, the narrator of the film was the guy who wrote it and not just another Daniel Stern wannabe, I dug in. In the 1950s and onward, Jean Shepherd was the coolest voice in radio. One part beatnik, one part storyteller at the bar, slowly but surely his time on the air become less and less about spinning records and more about hearing Shep gab. Soon he began to grow in stature from obscure overnight DJ to famed raconteur, penning story collections, getting stories printed in Playboy, and hosting various documentary specials for PBS. (This is a absurdly abridged version of his career. For a lot more, I'd recommend Excelsior, You Fathead! by Eugene B. Bergmann. Or, for just a little more, here's an article I wrote back in 2013.) But, to put it succinctly, Jean Shepherd spun a good yarn. Over the years, every Christmas Eve, it became a tradition for him to read a chapter from his book In God We Trust (All Others Pay Cash) entitled "Duel in the Snow, Or, Red Ryder Nails the Cleveland Street Kid." The recording linked below is from 1974 as he read the story live on WOR-AM. If you're already familiar with A Christmas Story, there's plenty in there that will sound familiar, but either way, there's nothing like hearing Shep weave a tale.

Look, I don't know why, but between Ted Lasso and other stuff, in 2020 Sincere Positive Things' soccer content has been up 1000%. Well, here's one more "football" thing to take us home: yesterday, The New York Times put out a piece about the community outreach work that Britain's soccer clubs are doing across the nation. Calling fans, giving seats to their older die-hards, sending out players to deliver meals: it's really heart-warming stuff. Is all this the kind of thing that should fall to a football club? No, not really. (It should probably be, y'know, the government's job.) But is it still a really nice thing that's happening in the world? Why, yes, it is.

[aion-rsa]

Ted Lasso and Other TV Bosses We’d Walk Over Hot Coals For

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In the heady moments of celebration after England’s victory over Denmark in this year’s Euros semi-final, the sight of team manager Gareth Southgate prompted ITV pundit Gary Neville to comment: “The standard of leaders in this country the past couple of years has been poor. Looking at that man, he’s everything a leader should be: respectful, humble, he tells the truth.” 

The former Man U right-back’s words, directed at the political rulers of a country riven by Brexit, tap into a modern craving for decency. Fed a diet of self-serving narcissism from our public figures, we hunger for more wholesome fare: moral character, humility, honesty, kindness. In the year of horrors that was 2020, that appetite was temporarily sated on TV by fictional football manager Ted Lasso. 

Played in the Apple TV series by Jason Sudeikis (who, in true Ted style, wore a shirt to the Ted Lasso season two launch in support of the three young Black England footballers who received racist abuse after their team’s eventual loss to Italy in the final), Ted’s thoroughgoing decency won everyone over to The Lasso Way. He’s the gold standard of TV bosses – selfless, caring, wise, inspirational, and patiently dedicated to bringing out the best in his players and the team as a whole. He may not always win on the pitch, but he always wins in our hearts. And if those words make you want to heave, then you, friend, may just need a little more Lasso in your life. #Believe.

To celebrate his return, we present Ted’s TV peers, the bosses for whom you’d go any number of extra miles.

Leslie Knope – Parks & Recreation

There is no finer example set in the TV workplace than Leslie Barbara Knope. The Pawnee public servant leads from the front, the sides and the back. She’s the waffle-powered sheepdog of City Hall, yapping co-workers and townsfolk into shape with her relentless work ethic and bottomless optimism. Leslie’s a boss who cares so much that she’s already bought your Christmas gift. And your birthday gift. And made you a special hand-crafted gift to mark the half-year anniversary of the day you first met. She sleeps three hours a night, runs entirely on sugar (or should that be salgar?), has a binder for every eventuality, and always, always has your back. Her rubber-soled energy is so infectious that over seven seasons she even manages to motivate the lazy (Tom), disaffected (April), dumb (Andy), aloof (Donna), hapless (Jerry) and the downright obstructive (Ron). For a gal named ‘nope’, she’s a whole lot of yes. LM

Bertram Cooper – Mad Men

Technically, advertising firm Sterling Cooper on Mad Men has two bosses – Roger Sterling and Bertram Cooper. Coop, however, is the let’s say…more experienced of the two and takes on the role of boss. And what a boss he is! The eccentric office sage played by Robert Morse takes a decidedly hands off approach to managing the workplace. Do whatever you want in this Madison Avenue ad agency, as long as you take your shoes off when you enter Bert’s office. And if you’re nice enough he might show you his collection of erotic octopus art. AB

Jacqueline Carlyle – The Bold Type

The Editor-In-Chief of Scarlet magazine, the women’s title at the heart of ridiculous millennial wish fulfillment vehicle The Bold Type is part mentor, part mother figure, part fairy godmother to the three young women at the centre of the show. Jane is an intern when she first meets Jacqueline, who greets her with “Are you a writer? You look like a writer.” Because, yep, it really is that easy to get a job at a top magazine. The Bold Type is nonsense but it’s very good hearted nonsense which tries in earnest to tackle big issues while maintaining a sunny outlook. Be yourself, be passionate, be bold, the show says, and the world is at your feet. Sent a couple of tweets? Congratulations, have a promotion! Threatened with a lawsuit because of something you wrote? No bother, have a promotion! Fraudulently passed yourself off as a stylist when you’re not, thereby ruining a key relationship? Meh. Promotion for you! Promotions all round! Jacqueline is glamorous and wise, endlessly patient with her proteges and seemingly in possession of a bottomless budget. We all wish we worked for Jacqueline and she’s a wonderful (imaginary) role model. We’re just slightly nervous for any young fans of the show who ever get to work for an actual, real life Editor-In-Chief… RF

Mr. Krabs – SpongeBob SquarePants

Mr. Krabs is a good boss because he’s refreshingly upfront about what matters to him. Simply put: the crab likes money. As long as you’re putting in the hours and keeping the profit margins fat, Mr. Krabs will be your best friend. Sure, he takes advantage of SpongeBob’s naivete from time to time. But deep down, you know the guy has a heart as big as his enormous whale daughter, Pearl. AB

Supt. Ted Hastings – Line of Duty

Think of Ted Hastings, head of Central Police’s Anti-Corruption Unit 12, as Ulysses – a man sailing on dangerous waters but so determined not to be seduced by the sirens’ song that he’s tied himself to the ship’s mast and stopped his ears with wax. Except replace ‘siren’s song’ with ‘bungs from criminal gangs’, and ‘ship’s mast’ and ‘wax’ with ‘sheer force of will, son’. Ted’s a colossus of integrity in a world of backhanders and turning-a-blind-eye. He does the right thing even when it’s the hard thing, and if you’re one of his officers, then you’re his for life. (Unless you’re a corrupt gangster plant, in which case, by Mary, Joseph and the wee donkey, he’ll never live down the shame.) Ted may have more decency in his side-parting than most officers have in their whole bodies, but he still has his flaws. The stock he puts in loyalty makes him inflexible, and his temper’s a thing to be seen, but the key thing about Ted as a leader is that when he makes a mistake, he owns up to it. We should all be so lucky to have a gaffer like him. LM

Ron Donald – Party Down

Starz’s brilliant comedy Party Down premiered around the same time as classic NBC sitcom Parks and Recreation. As such, Ken Marino’s perpetually stressed boss character Ron Donald didn’t get nearly as much attention as another boss named Ron: Ron Swanson. Let’s be clear, however, nobody would want Ron Swanson as a boss because that means you’d have to regularly interact with a libertarian. Instead, it’s far better to be in the good graces of Ron Donald. This Ron will support your dreams all the while telling you about his own to own a Souper Crackers franchise. AB

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Lynda Day – Press Gang

Bit of of a niche one – you probably have to be British and in your 40s to even know who this is – but Lynda Day, played by Julia Sawalha deserves a mention as the youngest boss on the list. Editor of the Junior Gazette, the after school newspaper run by pupils at the heart of Steven Moffat’s very first show she’s an erudite journalist, a ruthless news hound and a self possessed young woman who cares more about being right than about being liked. Lynda isn’t particularly soft or warm but she is a boss who would make you a better writer. You’d strive to please Lynda, want to live up to her incredibly high standards and know that the work you were doing on the paper could actually make a difference. Lynda is all about work ethic and integrity. Small of frame, sharp of tongue, you wouldn’t wanna mess with her, but you know she’ll get shit done. RF  

Captain Holt – Brooklyn 99

It says something about a boss when you wouldn’t just walk over hot coals for them, you would also do it for their pet dog. Cheddar the corgi is just one of many reasons to snap your sharpest salute to Captain Raymond “Do Not Call Me Ray Or Use Contractions In My Presence” Holt. Precinct captain of the 99, Holt is a walking yardstick of fine taste, good manners, linguistic clarity and grammatical coherence. Holt values simplicity and despises vulgarity. Do your job and do it right, and you will earn his hard-won respect, perhaps indicated by a very slight incline of the head if he is feeling frivolous. Holt has already earned your respect, for leading an exemplary career as an openly gay NYC cop since 1987, facing down racists, homophobes and the lowest of the low: people who use “What’s up?” as a greeting. Captain Holt’s impossibly high standards are a bar few reach, but to which we can all aspire. LM

Ian Grimm and Poppy Li – Mythic Quest

Mythic Quest creative directors Ian Grimm (Rob McElhenney) and Poppy Li (Charlotte Nicdao) are messes on their own. But when their personalities combine, they create one great boss unit who keeps things moving and keeps things lively. Granted, I wouldn’t want to work for Ian and Poppy as a programmer or dev on the Mythic Quest team because crunch is real (and I also have no such skills). They would make for a great boss team in just about any other industry though. AB

DCI Cassie Stuart – Unforgotten

Some bosses try to impress their status on employees by turning up the volume, but not DCI Cassie Stuart. Everything she does in ITV police drama Unforgotten, from case meetings to suspect interrogations, she does in the same controlled, low voice. It gives her words an intensity that shouting wouldn’t achieve and makes her cold-case murder team lean in to absorb the significance of what she’s saying. Usually, that’s on the theme of how they owe victims answers and are going to find them. Diligent and dedicated, she trusts her team, especially partner Sunny, and is the kind of boss whose praise really means something. A ‘good work’ from her and you’d be walking on air. LM

Conan O’Brien – Conan

This is technically violating the spirit of this thought exercise because Conan O’Brien is not fictional. What he is, however, is a boss…in both the metaphorical and literal sense of the word. No late night talk show host has ever reveled in being the boss of a staff as much as Conan O’Brien has on his shows like Late Night, The Tonight Show, and Conan. He views his role as boss as an opportunity to troll his employees like a corny father torturing his children with dad jokes. Many of Conan’s behind the scenes workers have become stars in their own right, like producer Jordan Schlansky or assistant Sona Movessian. And it’s all because Conan can’t help but want everyone to be involved and having a good time. Just like any great boss would want. AB

Captain Janeway – Star Trek Voyager

Anyone can be a good boss in a thriving workplace, but it takes a person of strong character to stay empathetic, decisive, and focused when everything goes to hell. In the very first episode of Star Trek: Voyager, Captain Janeway is stranded with her crew on the wrong side of the galaxy, 70,000 light years from home. She is tasked with getting not only her Starfleet crew home, but also the remaining members of the Maquis vessel Voyager was trying to capture when they were both pulled into the unexplored Delta quadrant. She does this all without the institutional support of the Federation, and without the certainty that they will ever make it back. It’s not always pretty, and Janeway makes some questionable decisions along the way, but it’s hard to imagine Voyager making it home without Janeway as their tough-as-nails boss. KB

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2020 Year In Review

What a supremely dull year. I cannot believe how little happened this year. I got into this whole mask-wearing craze that many people seem to have gotten into (except for those who are REALLY against it.) I'm so happy that all the schools decided that teaching in the building was pointless and could just as easily be done online. Things are so much easier now. The election went off without a hitch or any controversy whatsoever, and I am glad that the outgoing President was gracious and we got another peaceful transition of power. I saw so many movies this year. I stopped going to the theater, though. It was just too dark, the screen was too big and the seats too comfortable. I love being at home and being surrounded by all those distractions. I don't know how 2021 could top 2020.

Best of 2020.

In all seriousness, this year was the worst. Once the world shut down in March, I decided to make the most of it and started cataloging my media consumption (minus video games). It is something I am going to keep doing. I stopped collecting movie tickets a few years ago, and this seems like the next step. I have really enjoyed seeing all that I have consumed. The final tally is 308 movies, 58 television shows/specials, 29 audiobooks, and 43 books/graphic novels since March 18, 2020. As December went on, I had to make sure that I was finished with books, tv shows, and audiobooks before Jan. 1-you will see why when I share my spreadsheet for 2021. Here are the best that I read/watched/listened to this year with all that media. And not all of these things are new for 2020 (most are, though).

Best Movie: Host

A lot of the movies I watched this year were horror movies. You can say that I have been trying to make up for lost time. I subscribed to Shudder recently. It is a streaming service that specializes in horror and thriller movies. I subscribed to the service initially for "Host."

This movie was made during the pandemic, over a Zoom meeting. It is about five friends who do a seance and the spirit they contact. The fact that it is Zoom figures heavily into the movie; it is 57 minutes long, about the length of the free Zoom meeting.

This movie is terrific and damn scary. I have watched very few movies that have genuinely scared me. I have realized what it is that makes a good horror movie: tension. It is all over this movie. This movie uses the general concept of the Zoom meeting so well to build up tension. It doesn't have the benefit of a huge budget and the best cameras. The scenes take place on a computer screen in average rooms. That elevates sudden sounds, slight movements and makes use of darkness.

Honorable Mentions: "Soul," "Promising Young Women," "It Follows," "Hereditary," "Midsommor," "Never, Rarely, Sometimes, Always."

Best TV Show: Ted Lasso

Whenever I talk to other people about AppleTV+, I always mention two things. One is that at $5 a month, you don't even notice the cost. The other is that "Ted Lasso" is worth the price of a subscription.

As I have previously mentioned, the show is about an American football coach being hired to coach English football. This show is based on a one-joke series commercial for NBC Sports. Ted Lasso knows nothing about coaching football.

The commercials boil down to "look how this guy doesn't know anything about England." This should not work as a show. Years ago, ABC aired a TV show based on the Geico commercials' cavemen, and it was terrible. I should know; I watched the pilot and reviewed it for the Buffalo State Record.

"Ted Lasso" works because it is more than the commercials. Yes, they do have a lot of "fish out of water" humor, and you laugh at Ted as he navigates a new sport in a new country, but it is more than that. "Scrubs" creator Bill Lawernce is one of the people behind this show, and it shows. This show can be hilarious and then take a somber turn in no time. "Scrubs" is well known for that.

The other thing that "Ted Lasso" has going for it is boundless optimism. It is baked into the character of Ted Lasso. When the show starts, the fans hate him, the players hate him, and management tries to sabotage him at every turn. Yet, he remains committed to his job and making this team successful. He and his wife go through one of the most amicable divorces ever put on screen. It can be a little much at times, but then that divorce happens. We see Lasso, played amazingly by Jason Sudikus, lose that relentlessly positive exterior.

Those cracks show, and he becomes a much more fleshed out and complicated character. The show has been renewed for two more seasons already, and Lawernce recently said that the creative team had planned three seasons. I love this show, but I think that only three seasons will be a good thing. It means that we will get fully fleshed out arcs, and there is only a certain amount of story that the creators have to tell.

Honorable Mentions: "Fleabag Season 2," "The Clone Wars Season 7," "Harley Quinn Season 2," A Teacher," "Doom Patrol Season 2," "The Flight Attendant Season 1," "The Mandalorian Season 2."

Best Audiobook: Sapiens

This book, published in 2011, has been on my to-read list for a while. Years ago, a friend of mine told me I would like it. In its most basic synopsis, "Sapiens" is a look at how humans evolved. It looks at how we developed societies, religions, governments, and other things that made us the dominant species on the planet.

This book is fascinating. It looks at various social constructs that humanity developed and how that shapes who we have become. Most of the time, I can multitask while listening to audiobooks. I will do the dishes, replay video games, write, lesson plan, clean, or do laundry when an audiobook is playing. This is one I had to give my full attention. There were so many tidbits of information that are just riveting. I was always blown away by what I heard. Despite the topic's denseness (it is 15 hours and 17 minutes long), the audiobook was easy to listen to. It is one that I will be revisiting in the future.

Honorable Mentions: "Ahsoka," "The Graveyard Book," "Crazy is my Superpower."

Best Book: Harleen

I have been a fan of "Batman The Animated Series" forever. One of the most famous things to come out of the series that debuted in 1992 was Harley Quinn character. She started as a sidekick of The Joker. Fans loved her so much that she was given a more prominent role and one of the best backstories of anyone in Batman's rogue's gallery.

Last year DC, under their Black Label brand, released "Harleen," which presented how she went from Dr. Harleen Quinzell, the brilliant psychologist, to Harley Quinn, psychotic on-again/off-again paramour of The Joker. DC Black Label is used for a more mature mini-series, and this is a story that benefits from the freedom allowed. 

The basic plot is that Dr. Quinzell gets a job at Arkham Asylum to study the criminals there for her research into their minds and develop a possible cure. Through her interviews with The Joker, she starts to develop feelings for him. The telling focuses on her background and ends with her fully committing to Joker and a life of crime.

The art by Stjepan Sejic (who also wrote it) is gorgeous. On my second read-through, I took more time to appreciate the art. I bought the issues as they came out on Comixology and read them on my iPad and loved the story and how Sejic chose to tell it. I read them on the way to and from work. With only about 10 minutes on the train, the story was my focus. When I bought the hardcover collected edition, I took my time. It is a beautiful book, and I am glad to have it in my collection.

Honorable Mentions: "One Day," "The Amber Spyglass," "High Hopes," "The Deepest Well," I Wish My Teacher Knew," "Horrorstor."

**Authors Note: I wrote most of the above before I watched "Soul" on Christmas. I have a lot to say about it, and it might have taken the top spot from "Host" (I don't think I could have picked two more different movies to take that top spot). I will have a full review out after at least one more viewing.**

These are the links for my 202 Watch List and my 2021 Spreadsheet.

Media Consumed 2020

Media Consumed 2021

If you have been following my ramblings for the last few years, you know that I don't make New Year's resolutions. I heard the idea of picking a word and working toward that word all year.

This year that word is positivity.

It is really easy to dwell on negative thoughts. In the society we live in now, there is an emphasis put on negativity. It is everywhere, and I hate it. Stop reading right now and think about the best and worst thing that has happened to you. If you are like me, the worst thing comes to mind first. Even though my job is the best thing to happen to me, and it happened in the last two years, my firing from the JCC in September of 2015 hits harder and comes faster. It took me years to get over that and years more to let go of the anger I felt.

There are many reasons why negative thoughts come easier, and I have linked to a few articles I like on the topic below. This year particularly, I have been more prone to rumination on past pain and failures. 2021 is the year I actively try to change that. When I feel a negative thought coming on, I will stop and change my line of thinking.

One concrete example I can give involves my former place of employment. I live very close to the JCC. I walk by it all the time, and I can effortlessly start down the negativity rabbit hole. I am not doing that anymore. I will redirect to the good things that happened there. I am doing that with other places I have negative associations with as well. I want to focus on the positive, think positive thoughts, take positive actions, do things for myself and others that help perpetuate the positive.

I want to weed out negativity in my life whenever I can. Even something as simple as doing the dishes every night before bed (which I started six months ago) is a step in the positive direction. I know this is going to be tough. I despise teaching virtually, and it is what I will be doing for the rest of this school year. But, as much as I hate it, I need to focus on the good moments and less on the bad ones. I will have to stop calling everyone I see outside without a mask a "maskhole" in my head and assuming they are a right-wing MAGA hat-wearing idiot (as I said, it's going to be hard). There is too much negativity in the world right now, and I don't want to contribute to that.

Why Do Negative Thoughts Come to Mind

Is Dwelling on Negative Thoughts Hurting You?

Why Do We Dwell on The Past?

Why Do We Keep Dwelling on Our Mistakes?

The past few years, I have tried to have my word of the year relate to my writing. This year it was a little harder. It was not as straight forward as it has in the past. The choice of positivity was made because there have been so many awful things happening this year that I felt I needed to change my mindset. In regards to my writing, I am keeping it simple: Write something every single day. This heart doc I know motivated me to make this a goal.

I want to write more and find out where "Escape" will end up. I have an idea notebook I will bring with me to jot down inspiration whenever it hits. I am blocking out time every day to write, either something I will post here or just something for me.

Thanks for sticking with me 2,000 words. I hope you all had a great holiday season, and I wish you well in 2021.