#this is exactly why i stopped id'ing as aro even though it fit me at the time

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just saw a post from an asexual (in the tags) saying that they arent sex positive theyre "sex neutral" because why should they be positive about what other people do when theyre actively repulsed by it and i just. aside from all of the obvious problems with that statement, im really just reminded that kinky & sex-preferable aces and romance-favorable aros & aros in relationships truly are the black sheep of their own fucking communities. we cant just exist anywhere because yall gotta be fucking weird about it. whenever we remind people that we exist theres always the voice chiming in "but dont forget that not all aro/ace people are like that!! 😊😊 most of us are sex/romo repulsed!!!" yes thank you. i feel very included in my community