#this goes for trans and queer stuff too so often 🥲 | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

viktortittiforov · 1 year ago

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my god why do so many tumblr posts have to be worded so fucking self-righteously like bro i agree with you but i'm not going to interact w your post bcs honestly you sound like a condescending douchebag

#i understand a lot of ppl are angry but like idk sit on it maybe if you want your post to have any effect beyond just venting your emotions #like i once started making a very angry post about (usually) usamericans being unabashedly ignorant abt my country #which is something that makes me v angry bcs the dismissive us centric colonial attitude is so fucking apparent in that #but i left it unfinished and put it in my drafts and i am hoping to reword it someday so it's less pissy and then post it #bcs lbr yeah posting an angry rant will make me feel better sure #but is it going to achieve anything? no #this is like legit proven. people do not respond well when they are corrected with an antagonistic attitude #they won't want to agree with you even if they actually do think you have a point bcs it makes them defensive. that's just #a fact lmfao #so if i'm hoping for people to consider my point and take it on board i do have to like. be civil abt it. and not passive aggressive #yeah it sucks sometimes bc i want to be angry and let people know i'm angry! but it also doesn't work that way it really doesn't #this goes for trans and queer stuff too so often 🥲#neptalks

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