#they can scratch themselces or pull the earring out and also its jsut an irritation? alot of ADULTS cant sleep with earrings in and yall fo
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YOU KNOW WHATS AMAZING is that that parents against under-18 trans surgery are like 'it irrevocably changes their bodies forever' as if they dont pierce their baby girls ears which leaves a hole forever! and causes unnecessary severe pain (which can last and continue because babies can pull on their ears or it gets caught in clothing while being changed or /bathed/picked up etc) and its all for what now........
gender presentation
like the ONLY reason they do that is to overtly display and force people to recognize that this infant is a GIRL INFANT and ppl just Absolutely Have To Know That Because It Matters Just So Fucking Much that theyre willing to cause physical pain to an INFANT just to add an unnecessary accesory to make a fucking damn b a b y look cute
like why cant u just stick a fuckin bow on it ohmygod like why do u have to pierce a BABYS skin so that ur superficial ass can let everyone know this baby has a VAGINA
because random ppl just neeeeed to know that right??????
why cant u just stick a bow on their 1cm hair or put a pink onesie on them instead of a blue onesie like.....
why did u consciously choose to cause an actual literal infant pain and suffering and continued irritation all because you wanted to permantly alter their body to acessorize them based on gender presentation........
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i did not, in fact, co-sign or give consent to them piercing my ears as a dang baby like i know pierced ears is such a miniscule thing to get worked up over BUT lmao its still just like why do these people care so much about Properly Displaying Their Childs Gender when it comes at the expense.....of the child.....like its not like a 7 year old asking because she WANTS pierced ears its like....they didnt even ask me lmao....if they had i wouldve been like uhh,,,,googoogaga?!
like i was Not Consulted on that so its wild to me how they dont care about some permanent alterations on a childs body as long as its what theyyy want......like u did not ask ur daughter if u could do that u did not ask ur son if u could circumcise him......that is our body.....not urs.......not the parents body.....not the Family Bodyโข๏ธ......that is MY body..................................................
but then lo and behold later on when some kid actualy WANTS to do something to their OWN body for their OWN gender presentation wishes.........
then suddenly its all 'ohhhh you cant do all thaaaaaaaat thaaats permanentttttt ahhhhh'
like so the fuck is what u did to me WITHOUT MY CONSENT
and now i actually want to do something with my OWN DANG BODY and its all Nope U Cannot
what the fuck is wrong with these people
#like why are u caring about what a damn BABY looks like ohmygod that is so weird#why does everyone need to know if that infant has a penis or vagina like it does not matter to that baby....yall they dont care#akdjsjjdjdjdjd#they can scratch themselces or pull the earring out and also its jsut an irritation? alot of ADULTS cant sleep with earrings in and yall fo#forced a damn BABY to deal with all that like ew#and then ofcourse if they turn 2 or 3 or watever and ASK for earrings then!!!!!! THEN!!!!!! its ok!!!!!!#the point is CONSENT!#the point is they ASKED!#the point is they wanted to do that!!!!!!!#i dont think a 4 year old is too young to know they want pierced ears lmfao#but a fuckin baby does not want pierced ears they dont!!!!! they dont want to feel pain! they dont want that thing in their ear!#and they dont even have words to express that it hurts#like ew#why are ppl so weird about an 8 year old wanting piercings when theyre gonna do that to a baby?#and the answer comes down to consent and autonomy they want to be able to make the choice FOR YOU#they do not want their children making choices FOR THEMSELVES#because that autonomy takes away from their authority#to make choices for their children#and control their lives
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