#these things that we r calling transandrophobia

[fertilefemme]

if you support israel, do not touch this blog ❤︎

formerly @airheadfemme, but tumblr hates me and terminated my account, so here we go again!

my wonderful friend and mutual @gothcoffins and i have a very lovely discord server if anyone would like to join (must be a 20+ year old femme4butch lesbian)!

about me:

~ 23 years old

~ white and transmisogyny exempt

~ ofos nonbinary high femme lesbian

~ very happily taken by @breederbutch ❤︎

~ submissive to a fault, but experimenting more with my dominant side

~ fat, disabled, chronically ill, and neurodivergent (adhd, autistic, bipolar)

~ i use they/them pronouns with everyone except my butch, who i prefer to refer to me using she/her pronouns

~ i love getting asks, and i will do my best to answer all of them in a timely manner, but i sometimes struggle with severe brain fog and it can make typing well written responses very hard. if you see me active on here, but i haven't answered your ask yet, that's probably why!

~ due to the aforementioned brain fog, i often make a lot of original posts on days when i'm feeling well, and they end up either queued or in my drafts until i decide to post them.

dni, tags, kinks, limits, and more under the cut

do not interact if you are:

~ a minor

~ a man (cis or trans)

~ a cis woman

~ an ed or feeder blog

~ a defender of "bisexual lesbians" or anything similar

~ someone who believes that nonlesbians can use the terms dyke, butch, or femme (unless in the context of ball culture for the latter two)

~ someone who believes that nonblack nonlesbians can use the terms stud, fish, and stem(me)

~ a defender of harmful "kinks" such as ag*play/ddlg, r*pe (anything beyond dubious consent), inc*st, "orientation play"/corrective r*pe, r*ce play, etc

~ a racist, zionist (two staters included), transmisogynist (this includes terfs, ppl who believe in "transandrophobia", ppl who think trans men can be lesbians, etc), fatphobic person, or any other sort of bigot that i may have forgotten to put

my tags:

#the airhead speaks - my original posts

#my good butch ❤︎ - posts (including rbs) about domming

#taking notes - posts i want to look at again later

#🛡️- posts that remind me of my butch or that were rb'd from my butch will be tagged (bc they're my knight and i'm their princess ❤︎)

#beloved femmes ❤︎ - typically just pictures of femmes that i think are gorgeous (all compliments are platonic)

#my pics - idk p self explanatory but the few times i post pictures they'll be here haha

#ask me things! - ask games and prompts

#answered things - all of my answered asks

kinks:

~ praise

~ bondage

~ choking

~ breeding

~ blasphemy

~ corruption

~ possession

~ degradation

~ hair pulling

~ play fighting

~ objectification

~ overstimulation

~ regency/royalty

~ dubious consent

~ butch patriarchy

~ light impact play

~ exhibitionism (in theory)

~ dumbification/bimboification

~ intox (i rarely post ab it though)

~ free use (in an explicitly consensual way)

~ calling my butch daddy (as a title, mostly in the context of breeding)

~ roleplay (usually experienced dyke + innocent church girl, cocky tutor + airhead tutee, "bad boy"/loner butch + cheerleader, boss + maid, and other/potentially more embarrassing stuff)

limits:

~ anal

~ scat, blood, piss, etc

~ the harmful "kinks" referenced in my dni

if you add anything to my post that makes me uncomfortable (including mentioning one of my limits* in the tags), i will instantly block you.

*this excludes an*l as i'm aware that many people can only experience penetration anally, but please use as vague of phrasing as possible (ex: using the term "hole" rather than anything more descriptive)

[artificial-ascension]

Intro post tehe

!My blog used to be Megaumbreonda3- It is no longer that!

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Sideblogs:

@haxx-r-us (Pokemon irl roleplay blog)

@fairweather-fangs (edgy wammys kid roleplay blog)

@making-a-killing (other edgy wammys kid roleplay blog)

I have an nsfw blog but I don't want that connected to me.

Not a side blog but! My Animal Jam is also ArtificialAscension! Come look at my den, I take great pride in them. Also shop my shop, I need to get rid of my garbage, I mean, wonderful Forgotten Desert items.

Mutuals may ask for my discord if they like. I'm never on but. Well it's not like we talk on Tumblr either.

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List of names includes Michael, Ryan, Gabimaru

He/They

20 years old

Bi Gay

Nonbinary transman

I'm a dragon (otherkin/therian, I guess) in human form (it's like a cross-dimensional reincarnation thing)

Yes, transandrophobia is real. No, transfeminine people are not the root cause of oppression towards transmasculine people. Please stop being an ass to random trans people.

American, unfortunately. English is my first (and only) language but I suck at it so sorry.

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Kin list:

Azula (Avatar: The Last Air Bender)

Mello (Death Note)

A (Death Note)

Kurapika Kurta (HunterxHunter)

Gabimaru The Hallow (Hell's Paradise)

Starscream (Transformers Armada (very spificifically Armada and only Armada))

Tuffnut (How To Train Your Dragon)

Tim Wright/Masky (Marble Hornets)

Eyeless Jack (Creepypasta)

Homicidal Liu/Liu Woods (Creepypasta)

Lighting (Wolf So-[gets killed immediately]

If I knew what Kinning was when I was 8 I would have kinned Rainbow Dash unironically.

Uhhh I guess I'm dragonkin? I don't know man. I'm not kin with a specific type of dragon, and I'm more kin with anything big and reptilian, such as dragons but also crocodilians, big lizards (komodos, mosasaurs, megalania, ect), azhdarchids and nonavian dinosaurs. I weirdly am not kin with snakes.

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This is my personal blog so it's mostly thimgs I like or feel like sharing. I reach my daily post limit ALOT and reblog on a whim so watch out. Aside from normal person things my hyper obsessions include:

Death Note

And the media I am normal about is:

Pokemon

Fullmetal Alchemist

HunterxHunter

Black Butler

Devilman

Transformers

Creepypasta

Several others but those are the big ones

There's also my OCs and my original stories. Expect to hear about those on a rare occasion. Expect to hear about my OC Ryan on a daily basis because I love him.

Blog icon is from whatever my current big hyper-obsession is. Currently, it's Gabimaru from Hell's Paradise.

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My tolerance for bullshit is minimal, so obvious DNIs apply. Don't try and get at me with any weird fandom or sexuality discourse because I don't care. Terfs I am calling you out specifically. I'm a gay man, I don't want to hear any of your man hating bullshit. Kill yourselves and fuck off.

NSFW blogs run by people exclusively attracted to women you have no place here. I'm a man, despite my feminine charms. Feel free to interact using non horny blogs however.

Also DNI if you're 15 or under. I come here to escape freshman.

If you don't reblog/post anything and your blog is untitled I don't trust you. I will block you. I will also block if I just don't like you.

Also if I say stupid shit it's because I am stupid. I don't know how to phrase things alot of the time. And sometimes I say weird shit because I just don't know better, correct me if I do please, I'm trying to be normal.

I will probably alterate between loving the world so very very much and wishing death upon everything like every hour depending on how I'm feeling. Cause I'm build different.

Ok enjoy :)

[8-evil-annoying-catboys]

recently heard that the person who coined the term transandrophobia believes corrective r/pe against lesbians is okay and is generally lesbophobic, and if im totally honest the term already didn’t sit well with me because androphobia is a medical condition (the irrational fear of men, irrational used here not to mean “unjustified” but because it’s the word used to describe phobias, and to mean “getting in the way of the sufferer’s life” instead) that most commonly is suffered by sexual assault or sexual abuse survivors whose assailant or abuser was a man, so like… with this info i am going to discontinue using that term. i’m going back to the term “transmisandry” since our language doesn’t have to have the same etymology as transmisogyny (as in, the intersection of transphobia and misogyny, transmisandry not being able to be described as the intersection of transphobia and misandry because institutional misandry doesn’t actually exist no matter what you believe about misandry on an individual scale—my personal beliefs being that what people call “misandry” is literally just reactionary sexism, just usually from a radfem perspective, because plain no extra additives type sexists generally also basically see women as inherently virtuous and pure and men as inherently more violent and sexual than women), but transmasculine people and specifically trans men still need a word to describe the specific type of transphobia we face that other trans people do not regardless of the etymology. i suggest, if you also decide to change your language this way, if anyone brings up the “misandry doesn’t exist” point, just state that transmasculine people just need language specific to our issues just like every other oppressed group. within the trans community, trans women and transfeminine people have the term transmisogyny to use, and genderqueer/nonbinary people have exorsexism. therefore, from a transmasculine perspective, having to go through multiple terms because the rest of the community has a problem with every term we come up with feels less like righteous and justified corrections and more like being silenced—something we are all too used to as it is one of the core forms of transmisandry. therefore, this language debate is lateral aggression, intentional or not.

speaking of the etymology thing, the new info about the term transandrophobia makes total sense when you think of it as a replacement for transmisandry directly related to the etymology debate—if it’s true that the person who coined the term is a corrective r/pe apologist, then OF COURSE he would think replacing “misandry” with “androphobia” to describe transmisandry instead as the intersection of transphobia and androphobia makes sense and is appropriate. that thought sends a chill down my spine tbh. that being said, even if that’s false, i’d rather say transmisandry because of the previously stated reason why “transandrophobia” doesn’t sit well with me. at least misandry by itself isn’t a real thing, much less a psychiatric condition usually suffered by women who are survivors of sexual assault. eesh.

[fertilefemme]

if you support israel, do not touch this blog ❤︎

formerly @airheadfemme, but tumblr hates me and terminated my account, so here we go again!

my wonderful friend and mutual @gothcoffins and i have a very lovely discord server if anyone would like to join (must be a 20+ year old femme4butch lesbian)!

about me:

~ 23 years old

~ white and transmisogyny exempt

~ ofos nonbinary high femme lesbian

~ very happily taken by @mistlestonebutch ❤︎

~ submissive to a fault, but experimenting more with my dominant side

~ fat, disabled, chronically ill, and neurodivergent (adhd, autistic, bipolar)

~ i use they/them pronouns with everyone except my butch, who i prefer to refer to me using she/her pronouns

~ i love getting asks, and i will do my best to answer all of them in a timely manner, but i sometimes struggle with severe brain fog and it can make typing well written responses very hard. if you see me active on here, but i haven't answered your ask yet, that's probably why!

~ due to the aforementioned brain fog, i often make a lot of original posts on days when i'm feeling well, and they end up either queued or in my drafts until i decide to post them.

dni, tags, kinks, limits, and more under the cut

do not interact if you are:

~ a minor

~ a man (cis or trans)

~ an ed or feeder blog

~ a defender of "bisexual lesbians" or anything similar

~ someone who believes that nonlesbians can use the terms dyke, butch, or femme

~ someone who believes that nonblack nonlesbians can use the terms stud, fish, and stem(me)

~ a defender of harmful "kinks" such as ag*play/ddlg, r*pe (anything beyond dubious consent), inc*st, "orientation play"/corrective r*pe, r*ce play, etc

~ a racist, zionist (two staters included), transmisogynist (this includes terfs, ppl who believe in "transandrophobia", ppl who think trans men can be lesbians, etc), fatphobic person, or any other sort of bigot that i may have forgotten to put

my tags:

#the airhead speaks - my original posts

#my good butch ❤︎ - posts (including rbs) about domming

#taking notes - posts i want to look at again later

#🛡️- posts that remind me of my butch (bc they're my knight and i'm their princess ❤︎)

#beloved femmes ❤︎ - typically just pictures of femmes that i think are gorgeous (all compliments are platonic)

#my pics - idk p self explanatory but the few times i post pictures they'll be here

#ask me things! - ask games and prompts

#answered things - all of my answered asks

kinks:

~ praise

~ bondage

~ choking

~ breeding

~ blasphemy

~ corruption

~ possession

~ degradation

~ hair pulling

~ play fighting

~ objectification

~ overstimulation

~ regency/royalty

~ dubious consent

~ butch patriarchy

~ light impact play

~ exhibitionism (in theory)

~ dumbification/bimboification

~ intox (i rarely post ab it though)

~ free use (in an explicitly consensual way)

~ calling my butch daddy (as a title, mostly in the context of breeding)

~ roleplay (usually experienced dyke + innocent church girl, cocky tutor + airhead tutee, "bad boy"/loner butch + cheerleader, boss + maid, and other/potentially more embarrassing stuff)

limits:

~ anal

~ scat, blood, piss, etc

~ the harmful "kinks" referenced in my dni

if you add anything to my post that makes me uncomfortable (including mentioning one of my limits* in the tags), i will instantly block you.

*this excludes an*l as i'm aware that many people can only experience penetration anally, but please use as vague of phrasing as possible (ex: using the term "hole" rather than anything more descriptive)

[fertilefemme]

if you support israel, do not touch this blog

formerly @airheadfemme, but tumblr hates me and terminated my account, so here we go again!

my wonderful friend and mutual @gothcoffins and i have a very lovely discord server if anyone would like to join (must be a 20+ year old femme4butch lesbian)!

about me:

~ 22 years old

~ white and transmisogyny exempt

~ ofos nonbinary high femme lesbian

~ very taken with @butcholantern ❤︎

~ submissive to a fault, but experimenting with my dominant side

~ fat, disabled, chronically ill, and neurodivergent (adhd, autism, bipolar)

~ i use they/them pronouns with everyone except my butch, who i prefer to refer to me using she/her pronouns

dni, tags, kinks, limits, and more under the cut

do not interact if you are:

~ a minor

~ a man (cis or trans)

~ an ed or feeder blog

~ a defender of "bisexual lesbians" or anything similar

~ someone who believes that nonlesbians can use the terms dyke, butch, or femme

~ someone who believes that nonblack nonlesbians can use the terms stud, fish, and stem(me)

~ a defender of harmful "kinks" such as ag*play/ddlg, r*pe (anything beyond dubious consent), inc*st, "orientation play"/corrective r*pe, r*ce play, etc

~ a racist, zionist (two staters included), transmisogynist (this includes terfs, ppl who believe in "transandrophobia", ppl who think trans men can be lesbians, etc), fatphobic person, or any other sort of bigot that i may have forgotten to put

my tags:

#the airhead speaks - my original posts

#my good butch ❤︎ - posts (including rbs) about domming

#taking notes - posts i want to look at again later

#🛡️- posts that remind me of my butch or that were rb'd from my butch will be tagged (bc they're my knight and i'm their princess ❤︎)

#beloved femmes ❤︎ - typically just pictures of femmes that i think are gorgeous (all compliments are platonic)

#my pics - idk p self explanatory but the few times i post pictures they'll be here haha

#ask me things! - ask games and prompts

#answered things - answered asks

kinks:

~ praise

~ bondage

~ choking

~ breeding

~ blasphemy

~ corruption

~ possession

~ degradation

~ hair pulling

~ play fighting

~ objectification

~ overstimulation

~ regency/royalty

~ dubious consent

~ butch patriarchy

~ light impact play

~ voyeurism (in theory)

~ dumbification/bimboification

~ free use (in an explicitly consensual way) ~ calling my butch daddy (as a title, mostly in the context of breeding) ~ roleplay (usually experienced dyke + innocent church girl, cocky tutor + airhead tutee, "bad boy"/loner butch + cheerleader, boss + maid, and other/potentially more embarrassing stuff"

limits:

~ anal

~ scat, blood, piss, etc

~ the harmful "kinks" referenced in my dni

if you add anything to my post that makes me uncomfortable (including mentioning one of my limits* in the tags), i will instantly block you ❤︎

*this excludes anal as i'm aware that many people can only experience penetration anally, but please use as vague of phrasing as possible (ex: using the term "hole" rather than anything more descriptive)

[fertilefemme]

if you support israel, do not touch this blog ❤︎

formerly @airheadfemme, but tumblr hates me and terminated my account, so here we go again!

my wonderful friend and mutual @gothcoffins and i have a very lovely discord server if anyone would like to join (must be a 20+ year old femme4butch lesbian)

about me:

~ 22 years old

~ white and transmisogyny exempt

~ ofos nonbinary high femme lesbian

~ very happily taken by @poembutch ❤︎

~ submissive to a fault, but experimenting more with my dominant side

~ fat, disabled, chronically ill, and neurodivergent (adhd, autistic, bipolar)

~ i use they/them pronouns with everyone except my butch, who i prefer to refer to me using she/her pronouns

do not interact if you are:

~ a minor

~ a man (cis or trans)

~ an ed or feeder blog

~ a defender of "bisexual lesbians" or anything similar

~ someone who believes that nonlesbians can use the terms dyke, butch, or femme

~ someone who believes that nonblack nonlesbians can use the terms stud and stem(me)

~ a defender of harmful "kinks" such as ag*play/ddlg, r*pe (anything beyond dubious consent), inc*st, "orientation play"/corrective r*pe, r*ce play, etc

~ a racist, zionist (two staters included), transmisogynist (this includes terfs, ppl who believe in "transandrophobia", ppl who think trans men can be lesbians, etc), fatphobic person, or any other sort of bigot that i may have forgotten to put

tags:

#the airhead speaks - my original posts

#my good butch ❤︎ - posts (including rbs) about domming

#taking notes - posts i want to look at again later

#🛡️- posts that remind me of my butch or that were rb'd from my butch will be tagged (bc they're my knight and i'm their princess hehe ❤︎)

#beloved femmes ❤︎ - typically just selfies of femmes that i think are gorgeous (all compliments are platonic)

#my pics - idk p self explanatory but the few times i post pictures they'll be here haha

#ask me things! - ask games and prompts

#answered things - all of my answered asks

kinks:

~ praise

~ choking

~ breeding

~ bondage

~ corruption

~ blasphemy

~ hair pulling

~ possession

~ degradation

~ play fighting

~ objectification

~ overstimulation

~ regency/royalty

~ dubious consent

~ butch patriarchy

~ light impact play

~ exhibitionism (in theory)

~ dumbification/bimboification

~ intox (i rarely post ab it though)

~ free use (in an explicitly consensual way)

~ calling my butch daddy (as a title, mostly in the context of breeding)

~ roleplay (usually experienced dyke + innocent church girl, cocky tutor + airhead tutee, "bad boy"/loner butch + cheerleader, boss + maid, and other/potentially more embarrassing stuff)

limits:

~ anal

~ scat, blood, piss, etc

~ the harmful "kinks" referenced in my dni

if you add anything to my post that makes me uncomfortable (including mentioning one of my limits* in the tags), i will instantly block you.

*this excludes anal as i'm aware that many people can only experience penetration anally, but please use as vague of phrasing as possible (ex: using the term "hole" rather than anything more descriptive)