#the worst is 'you've lost some weight' when i haven't or maybe a tiny bit but i haven't noticed it bc my jeans still fit the same | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

rogerdeakinsdp · 7 months ago

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lately i've been running into a lot of my mom's friends, i.e. mostly middle aged women who kinda know me so they're not shy to comment on my appearance and it's usually my hair - weight - eyebrows, in that order. and i hate it so much. even if it's complimentary, it reminds me that i'm always being perceived and judged, and i don't want that, i don't want to have a form at all. i feel so shitty after every interaction

#and they expect me to take their 'advice' and act on it #'pluck your eyebrows' 'no don't touch your eyebrows' 'your eyebrows are too dark' what do you want me to do?????#why should i do anything??? why does it matter???? why do you expect me to look like the image of me you have in your head???#the worst is 'you've lost some weight' when i haven't or maybe a tiny bit but i haven't noticed it bc my jeans still fit the same #which means other people monitor my weight more closely than i do???#HAAAAATE IT

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