#the post I'm referring to is not deep enough to make me post this 🫡 i just hate my friend's bf actually
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kuromi-hoemie · 4 months ago
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that one post about how the failure mode of being clever is being an asshole is so funny to me.
like, sometimes people act like they're entitled to a long nuanced clever response from you they can just demand again and again, and you have to be an asshole to shut them up and make them leave you alone instead because they don't listen to you when you're being nice about it.
sometimes being an asshole is the point when dealing with people who are persistent, people are not entitled to clever and sometimes people aren't trying to be clever at all. sometimes people just want you to leave them alone bc they got enough shit going on and don't need to be the person responsible for filing in the gaps for you just bc you weren't paying attention.
nb4: this is not a hypothetical situation or universal truth, this is me being annoyed at a guy i had to deal with who thinks i need to calmly educate him when highkey he's so stupid and uninformed i have zero desire to explain anything at all to him.
think I'm an asshole then just shut up oh my god!! that is a Herculean task and i don't need to be the one to do it for you, look for people who put themselves out there like that instead of demanding anything that exists outside of your narrow worldview defend itself from as much scrutiny and questioning as you feel like throwing at it.
conversations go both ways and if you can't listen to someone telling you to drop it and keep walking right past their boundaries, you can't really cry about someone being an asshole when they finally snap on you. pushing someone until they snap because you think you're entitled to having certain conversations is asshole behavior. this is about politics.
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ashxketchum · 8 months ago
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They uploaded the video where Agumon, Gabumon, Veemon and Wormon will call out names of fans and look! We get a glimpse at Taichi, Yamato, Daisuke and Ken's rooms!
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You know what this means? It's time for a certified Ayushi breakdown 🫡
There is so much blue in Taichi's room hahaha (taiyama win!), the soccer magazines + jump manga reference is so on point. And he has so many bags! Taichi why do you need so many backpacks, one for every outfit? 😆 THE DUMBBELLS THO my boy is working out to maintain that body we got a glimpse of in Tri 😌 The whistle hanging on the wall is also a nice touch, is it Hikari's whistle from when they were kids? 🥹 Or even if it's not, I'd like to imagine a scenario where Taichi helps Hikari with her kindergarten schoolwork occasionally by coaching football to the little kids in his free time! Can you imagine him running around with little kids who are about as tall as the football itself 🤣 I tried to zoom in to figure out what the magazine on his desk is for, and I could make out the word Nakano, so maybe it's just something he picked up on his way home (maybe he lives around Nakano?) since it looks slightly crumpled too, like it was shoved in his bag in a rush. His phone (and is that a wallet?) feel pretty standard. He is the only one who doesn't have a lamp on his desk + has some kind of reminder post-its stuck to his desktop, maybe he's not so good with passwords? Koushiro probably always lectures him about this every time he visits.
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Now let's talk about Yamato, FIRST OF ALL I WILL SCREAM ABOUT THE KOD TSHIRT! HE STILL WEARS IT! I'M CRYING RIGHT NOW!!! And then his guitars because I swear I did a one hour deep dive trying to figure out the brand and model and I think they're both Fender (an expensive brand I would say) which once again makes me wonder how much money does the TakaIshi family has for their sons to have expensive, bikes, cars and guitars. TO TOP IT OFF Yamato is definitely an Apple bitch too like look at that monitor and keyboard, that's Mac and his phone is very clearly Iphone. Now his room follows a very warm, muted tones of black and brown. We can spot some music related magazines on his shelf and a big, plain tote bag on the ground (see Taichi one big bag should be enough 🤣) which looks like something he uses for grocery shopping. Yamato is the only one who doesn't have a wheelie computer chair, but rather a wooden one. Now whether he did this to follow the aesthetic of the room (highly likely) or because he doesn't actually spend a lot of time in this space is something we can all think about. He has a framed portrait or photo(?) up on the wall and I did consider him more of a framed art guy over a poster guy always so this is good to see too. Also nice to note that on his desk, he has THE HARMONICA ���� And the same Jump issue that Taichi has on his shelf! His room is honestly a lot like how I imagined it to be in terms of the furniture and colours so I'm very happy with this sneak peek!
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I am not qualified to comment on Daisuke and Ken's rooms, so will leave that to 02 fans!
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