#the frantic 'i've been with the same person for xx years and it's perfectly normal to kiss people and be all over them!!!!!!'

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Hi! Please feel free to ignore this or answer in the tags — I’m definitely not a gold star Larrie and I agree (though I always feel very much unable to express that opinion) that they’ve definitely broken up, taken a break, had an open relationship or hooked up with other people at some/any point really. But what was it about the Brits that had you thinking that the gold star Larrie faction had come to some realizations? Do you think they’re still together / still something not heterosexual? Do you think they’re bi/pan rather than gay? I know we can’t KNOW but (1) I do wonder and (2) it’s refreshing to hear from other people that don’t think they’ve been happily and strictly monogamously married since 16/18. 👀

I don't think those bigger louder more obnoxious blogs are flexing THAT hard, but it's refreshing to see some of them looking at Harry kissing Lewis on the mouth (among others), Harry allllll over the Tooch, and Harry bringing ~controversial sidepiece Brad to a specific rando industry event and FINALLY saying, hey, maybe this Harry Styles HAS fucked more than one person in his entire life! Baby steps!

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"#the frantic 'i've been with the same person for xx years and it's perfectly normal to kiss people and be all over them!!!!!!'" I'm screaming !!!!!!!!!!!! I'm seeing this everywhere. People saying that Harry kissing and flirting with men just proves how monogamous Larry are and how much they trust each other. That kissing others while being monogamous is completely normal. I don't know any monogamous couples who are fine with that, hence why they're monogamous in the first place. I'm even seeing Larries say that the more men Harry kisses the more straight he is because he's just comfortable being affectionate with friends (meanwhile we've never seen him like this with women). Big yikes. Imagine dismissing someone's sexuality that he's been expressing for 12+ years because he isn't doing what you want him to. That just makes me so angry. I don't know how long you've been around as I haven't been following you for long but something really silly that has given me doubt to whether Harry and Louis are strictly monogamous is that I get the impression that Harry has a preference for older men, like a decade or so older, and Louis doesn't fit that. During 1D Harry was around older men all the time and the majority of men he has shown interest in have been much older. Not much has changed since then, he still seems drawn to them. Anyway, it just interests me.

One of my very fave things is seeing the whiplash of it all, like, omg, [insert name] is so JEALOUS, he'd never ALLOW this, etc etc., fast-forward to one month later, after alllllll kinds of public shit, let's create this whole wormhole of they're poly but monogamous. Whut. It's literally okay to say they fuck other people or that they broke up! It's messy as hell! And more importantly, it's not your mess to navigate, so let them be!