#the expectations for them to get tgt wouldnt be as high

[caizen]

tagged by @citrussweetie !! this looks so fun omg and ur question's really interesting too AH my answers are so long too ah i talk too much (and somewhat personal) LOL under the cut again<3

jin's part contains jjk spoilers so beware!! (he's a spoiler himself but whatever JDJS)

her question: Which specific romantic tropes do you imagine for your selfship/s, and why? Have you experienced this / do you think you would you be able to handle it IRL?

choso ~

enemies to friends to knowing we like e/o but never getting tgt bc of circumstances LMAO my parents are extremely strict and they won't like him at all 😭 they're gonna disown me if they find out i'm in love with him BUT unless they find out how they choso's family-oriented and how nicely he treats his brothers, they might give him a chance. but knowing my family they judge by looks so it's alr a pass for them if they don't get to know his personality first 🙄 also, lots of yearning and pining!! i've never experienced it bc ive never been in a rs before and i think i'd be able to handle it kind of? like i would cry about it and it'd scar me if it doesn't work out but i'll be partly very slightly fine (it hurts me thinking bt it rn)

geto suguru ~

for the soft part of us two, married high school sweethearts, best friends to lovers with a LOT of pining and yearning <3 no explanation needed its all in my geto fics. another trope is probably the forbidden love type 😬 my relatives would think he's troublesome with how his looks and would think that he's going to be the reason i get in trouble and do illegal/dangerous stuff with when irl we would never do that stuff. if he does, i wouldnt be interested in the first place but if i still like him that way then honestly we would just runaway. that's the trope. runaway lovers that seem intimidating and scary but are actually really nice and warm. never experienced it. for the hs sweethearts yeah i'd def be able to handle it but for the runaway lovers? it's going to mess me up so bad and i'm going to need therapy (i'm willing to try for him though. and i also wanna try running away too anyway♡)

itadori jin ~ (spoilers-ish but then jin is a spoiler himself lmao)

sigh....honestly at this point @sukirichi 's fic is getting to me and i'm just gonna say my trope with jin would be that fic. i can't imagine anything else. we r both softies, so instead of florist and tattoo artist i'm going to say florist and baker because why not. also the don't be fooled with how they look type. he would look all soft and nice but there are stuff u wouldn't expect him to do or be i won't elaborate (go read/listen to juju sanpo audio. i cant believe its a surprise to me but i just didnt expect it LMAO) meanwhile i'd look so intimidating and scary (do u see the woman/yuji's mom from 143? we're kind of similar, just more intimidating sigh) but i'm aclly extremely sensitive and fragile. never tried this, and i'm certain i can handle this. this would be so warm and sweet too. i want this.

kamo noritoshi ~

enemies to being each other's home. specifically as classmates,, we'd be fighting to be the top student of class or who's better and annoy e/o so much but indirectly. it'd be similar to shirogane and shinomiya. i could give up the top student title for him but i'm too competitive and i hate disappointing people even though their expectations for me are too high and impossible to reach and i'm too scared of abandonment and so is he. once we get to know each other though and understand e/o's situations, we'll be fine and we'll go from constant fighting to constant comforting and we'd be e/o's comfort person bc we're much more similar than we expected and we both know what we need. never tried it and i'd be able to handle it. i want it. so bad. but it's too late probably LMAO

okkotsu yuta ~

unrequited one-sided love with a lot of pining and yearning in my part. it's so cliche i HATE IT SO MUCH with my whole heart. love triangle but there's four people so it's a love square. i'm including inumaki and maki here. lots of pain and rejection. inumaki and i are generous people so he'd be pushing me to yuta while i'd be pushing yuta to maki and maki to yuta even though it's painful for toge and i. i don't think i'll say why bc it's too personal and embarrassing AHAHA. never been through it and i'm not even sure if i'd be able to handle it. yuta just brings me so much pain right now. idek why i included him here

miya osamu ~

one-sided crush childhood friends to lovers. not the 'we grew up tgt' type but the 'oh we meet again after so many years' type. as kids i'd have a one-sided crush on him but once we grow up , we're both crushing on e/o. we're both either oblivious abt how we feel for e/o or be aware of it but be in denial which means we're going to need some pushing and some help. i just can't imagine anything else. i just feel like we'd b nice friends to e/o as kids but not really be close w e/o until we grow up and actually interact more and realize that the other isn't as boring as we thought they were. never experienced it and i'd definitely be able to handle it. especially as someone who cherishes memories sm and i'd be so excited to meet someone i used to know.

tagging: @velvetfireworks @sukunaru @sukirichi @applepiekyuu and anyone else that wants to do this! no pressure though<3

my question for those i've tagged: not a question but, describe what your ideal life would be with your selfship/s and what your actual life would be with your selfship/s. optional: why is that your ideal/actual life with them? kind of like an expectation vs reality.

[moanbyul-yi]

k so @byulyi dared me to do all the flowers from this and my dumbass thought it was a great idea to accept the dare but my dumbass also fucked up and basically deleted the ask so here it is in a post lmao buckle up bitch!! (u really dont have to read it if u dont want its sm longer than i thought it would be) 

amaryllis - name an attribute of yourself that you are proud of. proud of my ability to find the shittiest and worst tv shows/movies and watch them religiously lmao

anemone - describe a time when you felt abandoned or betrayed by someone you loved. back in yr 8??9?? i had a super close friend (that i was also in love with but i didnt realise bc of compulsive heterosexuality) that randomly cut off ties with me and yike it sucked 

azalea - would you describe yourself as a patient person? in terms of simple things like waiting on a package no lmao but if its waiting for a person or smthn like ykno that deep shit then yeah 

begonia - describe anything you see as a “red flag” (something that makes you cautious about a new friend or love interest) straight up if theyre an asshole,, if they say something homophobic/racist/sexist etc just if theyre not accepting and nice to all people 

bird of paradise - do you like hosting parties, or do you prefer to just attend? i love hosting!!!!!!! i love making sure everyones havin a lit time and organising all the stuff 

bluebell - what keeps you humble? tbh idk how to answer this question just bc ig im not really in a position where i have stuff to flex so like i dont have a lot to be humble about ?? in terms of like achievements n shit 

chysanthemum - describe your idea of a perfect day.  this is kinda gay but honestly just a day i get to spend chilling with my girl whether we go out or just stay home and binge movies all day whatever it is,, just to have a chill day with her with no ‘you have to be doing this!!!!!!’ feeling 

spring crocus - describe your favourite childhood memory. the first one that comes to mind is me and my cousin when we were like 5yo running around the house with a cape on pretending we were superheroes

daffodil - how do you confess your feelings to someone you’re interested in? ive only done it twice, the first time was a complete Mess and the second time they initiated it so idk lol i wing it ig 

daisy - describe something that gives you hope when things seem bleak. honestly idk bc im the kinda person that just wallows in their sadboi but i guess something that helps is just talking to people esp my gf about whatever it is thats sucky

foxglove - when was the last time you told a lie? i told my parents i was going to the city for lunch with a friend today but i went to a dance class for love shot by exo lmao 

gardenia - have you ever had to keep a romance a secret? if so, why and for how long?  yeah bc we were both not out - had to keep it a secret from p much everyone other than a few friends the entire time we were tgt 

purple hyacinth - describe a time when you had to apologize to someone last year,, i had a fight(??) with my friend and yeah 

hydrangea - how much time do you spend on your appearance each day? not a lot i always look like a Mess 

white jasmine - what is something that never fails to make you laugh? !!!!!!!mamamoo !!!!!! 

lavender -  describe your oldest friendship, and why you think it has lasted so long. i have a primary sch friend and we’ve been friends sort of since kindy but properly for like 8 years???? its the kinda friendship where we dont have to talk often but we can hit each other up whenever and it isnt weird its just chill and gucci ( @akicchisano luv u binch no homo)

lilac - describe your first relationship or first love. yeet ok my first pROper rs?? lasted like a year and a half and it was a friend in high school,, uhh it was good while it lasted but im glad its over and i wouldnt go back lmao but it was definitely a learning experience 

calla lily - what traits do you find beautiful in others? in yourself? i guess imma be really typical and say kindness like the kindness in which u dont expect anything in return?? like the way people aim to make people happy and laugh and shit ykno (i just woke up soz this is terrible)

tiger lily - if you had to choose between doing what you love and making very little money, or doing a job you hate and making a lot of money, what would you choose and why? im assuming the very little money is still enough to get by?? but i would choose that just bc if i hated my job idk how long i would last in it but i dont think it would be very long at all. if i had people to provide for or something tho then definitely the second bc gotta get that dough for them 

lotus flower - would you say that you are a spiritual person? if so, what elements of spirituality are important to you? nah im not really  

magnolia - describe your favourite thing to do outdoors. probably just walking around ykno with nothing to do or maybe hiking?? sightseeing?? shit like that 

morning glory - are you an affectionate person? if so, how do you show affection? very lmao if i like you romantically or platonically ill be v touchy and cuddly if u reciprocate it,, i also will give random gifts like stuff ive made or stuff that reminds me of that person just random small things 

pansy - what is the most thoughtful thing that anyone has done for you? idk if this is the mOSt thoughtful bc i have bad memory but that one time the mvp @akicchisano bought me a smol christmas tree bc i kept talking about how i wanted one but couldnt find one that shit got me busting the phattest uwus

peony - describe the top three things necessary for a happy life.  a sugar daddy,, good food,, girls

petunia - what never fails to make you angry? when people borrow shit and dont put it back how they found it >:(

red poppy - what tips or tricks do you use to cheer yourself up when you’re down? i go for a drive (i cant drive so i make my brother lmao) or i watch smthn funny just get my mind off it somehow

red rose - describe your ideal date or romantic evening.  shit idk about ideal but itd be really nice to maybe get dinner and go star gazing like somewhere far where theres less light pollution and hella stars and then after that just coming home to binge movies and cuddle

yellow rose - do you get jealous easily? sO easily its terrible but most of the time i dont do anything about it

snowdrop - have you ever had a falling out with a friend or family member? not in such a way thats resulted in us not ever talking again 

sunflower - do you consider yourself a loyal person?  ye,, ya girl aint no hoe

sweet pea - describe a difficult goodbye you had to make to a friend or other loved one. probably saying bye to all my family bc they came to visit and having to send them off opened up some real emo hours :((((

violet - how important is loyalty in friendships and/or relationships? v important bc u gotta have someone to rely on but it should be loyalty and not blindly following 

wisteria - do you like poetry? if so, describe your favorite poem(s). yeah i kinda just like random poetry theres a lot from an insta acc called poeticpoison that i really like

zinnia - do you have any loved ones in your life that you miss and wish you could see?  yeahh my gorlfriend and all my family since they all live in different countries