#the colleagues i am upset about are also younger than me and cishet men they're not emotionally aware enough to care
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#rsd is a bitch but i do not need the validation of my colleagues i do not need them to be my friends i do not need them to give me attention#even if we were previously more friendly than we are now it is not a sign of me doing anything wrong it is simply how things are#they are going to be better friends because they are on teams that spend higher quantities of time together#i am an admin who is frankly by myself constantly i do not have a team i have no one thats why it feels lonely#not because i am awful and unlikeable#the colleagues i am upset about are also younger than me and cishet men they're not emotionally aware enough to care#and frankly even if i have done something to upset them i have apologized for any poor behavior so its on them. remember that#i am working hard at building a community and finding new friends just because it isnt them doesn't mean im failing#building a family and making change will be uncomfortable moreso because of the tism its ok to be uncomfortable#we will survive it but please remember that its normal and you didn't do anything wrong#and these ppl really aren't worth a panic attack/meltdown on an otherwise great monday because they dont acknowledge you#theyre immature boys and those that do value you are the ones inviting you to a team lunch you dont really need to be invited to
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