#the anon literally put my face on fatter bodies and somehow I’m still suspected when my messages went off right after 😳

[romanoffsbish]

I think it’s off that there’s an entire group of people on this app who think I am hung up on someone when I have been moved on with another for almost 2 years. I can assure you, that the only person who is still clinging to y’all is the weirdo anon you fuel by responding. When I stopped giving the anon a voice by having my inbox on / replying, they disappeared because the woman I believe it to be doesn’t want a harassment / stalker charge so she doesn’t spew her vitriol publicly. The bully literally used my friend’s (mutual) face on a ghost account, and took it down when she threatened similar actions against the woman I have referenced here.

I should honestly go after anyone on here for defamation for every harsh anon answered with my name in it, but also, there’s no reason to re-engage that deeply. All I know is, it’s weird that not one person ever reached out, even to confront me—it’s like it’s easier pretending I’m some obsessed ex and you’re victims of my inability to move on. Please do know, that’s weird.

I truly am sorry that choosing not to date someone whose patterns scared me caused others pain, but I will not be held responsible for another’s emotional abuse, and I will not apologize for leaving what was not safe.