#that's not really relevant in the conversation of people being sad that ghost isn't metal bc they don't like actual metal BUT it's relevant

[sebille]

and like let it be know that my annoyance about this is that people who use goth/metalhead/alternative as some kinda label for things it should not be added to is that it's been heavily sexualized and people are such fucking freaks and i can't even try to count how many times i've been treated like some sexed up object by people for being alternative. Like men have come up to me and asked me if i'm kinky bc i'm "one of those" etc