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trymyownsauce · 2 months ago

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how many more people just do it cause they think its hot, how many more people are NOT aligned with our politics/understanding of the patriarchy, what changes with it being more normal, what do we gain. Like we challenge things within ourselves that arent being acted on because even one less person whos totally fine [thinking x person is y way -- believing domestic violence is fine in small amounts -- leaping to anger and violence] is a net positive...what the fuck is it all for!!!!

#that specific violence is alot different than a little slap and tickle #the boy who raped my sister the man who raped my uncle the girl who forced herself on my friend the boyfriends/girlfriends who raped others #they were also coping with their shitty lives I know that as a fact...they could have just pretended?#the list is going to keep growing #even your specific tragedy doesnt make it fine completely and totally hell no sex is not a good coping strategy #Shit I drink alot but thats not tenable that shouldnt be normal that cant be recommended #and to come to me telling me Ive got to make it normal because it helps YOU cope is insanely disrespectful #tell it to any other victim tell to many more victims you will not find consensus and probably make more ppl cry #whats criminal is how normal it already is and how sex is objectified and presented so violently and somehow makes rape ok-to-do #but it should be more normal...right... its just a fantasy its pro kink #dont gimmie notes dont come into my inbox I dont want to hang out with you guys anymore lmao

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