#still. why don't I see this same energy for bi/pan gays? it is odd. | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

ama-kitkat123 · 1 year

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Y'know, I always see "lesbians can like men," but rarely, if ever, "gay men can like women." I basically never see the latter. Why is that? Is my Internet circle too small to see that side of the discourse?

I don't care about mspec lesbians btw. Identify however you want. I'm not you, I don't know what your situation is, nor is it any of my business. But it's always lesbians. Never gay men. Always lesbians. Where are the mspec gay guys? I don't see any. They've got to be around here somewhere... (checks under the rug)

#I could go the easy route and say 'ohhh it's patriarchal society trying to shove men into everything'#and while there is some truth to that. I believe it's more nuanced.#plus that argument is a very slippery slope that can get quite. terfy.#the human expression is an inconsistent nonsensical thingamajig. it's impossible to have every single human fit neatly into one label #plus infighting does no one any good #still. why don't I see this same energy for bi/pan gays? it is odd.#bracing myself for the discourse—

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