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thepoisonroom · 2 years ago

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when people decide you're upset with them and develop a whole conspiracy theory of your behavior and then try to get out in front of it by being like "hey i couldn't help but notice this tiny thing and ascertain that you hate me which is fine of course" like! no one likes that! take me at my word or perish!

#okay that's not correct #nothing makes me disproportionately upset like being told what i think and feel #and then there's literally no room for you to be like because they've already decided what the truth is #and won't change their minds #it's do frustrating and i understand the urge to do it on the other end but it's just so!!!!!!!!!#and it's like yeah if i am being passive aggressive that's a me problem and it's fine to be like #'hey your behavior makes me feel like you might be mad at me' or whatever #but it's just like. a weird level of self-involvement masquerading as self-abnegation #like my life got so much better and simpler when i just decided to take people at their word #and focus on my relationships with people who i could trust to tell me if there was a problem #anyway scream #personal nonsense #sorry i fucked up the tags by using quotes but i'm not retyping all of that

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