#sometimes I feel like I'm indirectly being told that occasionally struggling with anger undermines being kind and thoughtful | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

myfairkatiecat · 1 month

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hey as someone who struggles with lashing out at people when I'm upset, I'd like to remind everyone that saying that it's out of character for someone to lash out/get really upset/struggle with anger sometimes when the rest of the time they're a super kind and thoughtful person is just as bad as only remembering that one specific characteristic about them and completely forgetting that they're super kind and thoughtful person!

#it actually hurts my feelings sometimes #as someone who strives to be nice to everyone but when things don't work out I get really strong anger flashes #even if I handle some things super well! there's a lot of things I DON'T handle well #fandom used to make me worry that that was all people would remember me by because it was all they acknowledged about Fitz #and NOW this fandom makes me worry that people just don't think both things can coexist #being nice and sometimes lashing out that is #kotlc #fitz vacker #sometimes I feel like I'm indirectly being told that occasionally struggling with anger undermines being kind and thoughtful #or that someone who is really nice would never do that #and guess how that makes ME feel #I'm sure I'm not the only one either

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