#something inbetween unabashedly hating the whumper and mindlessly adoring them

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Whumpee who genuinely views their encounters with Whumper as consensual. They're not under any illusion that Whumper is a good person, the contrary. But they "agreed" to having sex – for more comfortable living conditions, less restrictive access to Whumper's home, anything to make the horrific ordeal they went through more bearable. It wasn't Whumper's idea to have sex, it was theirs. And they're insulted by anyone who tries to say they were a victim.