#someone said to me 'if theres one thing about dunmeshi its that it would never pit two neurodivergent bad bitches against each other'

[die-mitri]

Brother I thought I started it :,( I guess we're all psychically connected and felt the need to talk abt it at the same time.

I just don't wanna make anyone mad/ruin their fandom experience but also I physically cannot keep my opinions to myself or my head will explode. Any near argument I've gotten into was resolved in my comments and I just really don't wanna start shit on someone else's post so I make my own. It's very sweet that most of us can move on while disagreeing. Very different from other fandom's I've seen.

It's so easy to forget we're all talking to another human and the things we say have an actual effect on the other's day. I know how frustrated I get. I think it's cute that we try to minimize collateral damage 😭

My favourite phenomenon in the dungeon meshi fandom I've seen is that no one reblogs their beef on the post that "started it". Most people just... Make their own new post that is definitely a direct response/vague at the original post. And the tags are so quiet that someone will definitely see it.

I think I started partaking before I even noticed but the labru top/bottom drama definitely made it super apparent