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leatherbookmark · 11 months ago

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no but for real this is both incredibly cringe and sad how much people seem to care about looks. san apparently looks scary. apparently lots of people agreed online that he "wouldn't be a good person to introduce to your parents because of how scary he looks". even if it's a joke, it's a very stupid one, considering he still remembers and talks about it.

or when people apparently said atz are "scary" when they perform because they... wait for it... have intense expressions... like this is so pathetic and embarrassing i have no words. you're scared of performers? on stage? performing? you're being a fucking baby, having nonsensical reactions and making it other people's problem? how fucking coddled do you have to be to do shit like that

#shrimp thoughts #or shit like. 'oh you're quiet so i was scared/intimidated by you but having talked to you i see you're very approachable and kind!'#congratulations but i hope you will one day realize how fucked up it is to write off an entire person because they're quiet #san himself said something that i kinda went ???? about. that it's good wy was so affectionate right off the bat because #if he was quiet or awkward they (already a group of 7 guys guaranteed to debut) wouldn't have wanted his friendship #like babes what the hell is this supposed to mean. you all keep on casually revealing information that Not Gonna Lie makes you sound #like a bit of a shitty person! and you don't even seem to be aware of it!#societies in asia seem terribly difficult to navigate if you don't have a perfect grasp on your image and an iron will to appear perfectly #approachable all the time. they seem to be REALLY into their neat little boxes and even if it's all a joke it sounds SO incredibly tiring #oh you're blood type AB so you're two faced. oh you're istp which is nothing bad in itself but everyone else in this group is an F and you #are the only T! let's point and laugh! oh you were quiet and serious that one day but now you're friendly and relaxed! how surprising!#your personality did a total 180! i'd die. i'd fucking die. i already suffer the Horrors™ of being misinterpreted no matter what i do #i would Fuckening Die if i was misinterpreted Even More based on the stuff i don't even do actively. hell on earth

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