#so to already STRUGGLE with that while shopping... and then to be told 'use poshmark instead... go to good will'
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im going to be so fr.... i hate it when im shopping for something, perusing online or in person for stuff in my size and approximate measurements... and a skinny woman says to me “you should try poshmark instead” 🥺. u should look on there for stuff because it’s second hand 🥺 u should go to good will and thrift stores bc it’s more ethical 🥺 like i really wish u would be quiet bc u know damn well poshmark doesn’t do returns and that goodwill rarely carries good shit in my size. like ma’am, i’m fat and that transforms the ENTIRE way i shop for clothes compared to you. clothes are made for bodies like yours.... i’m expected to make do.
#i hope im making sense i just..#sorry it is simply my BIGGEST pet peeve#like... it's already hard to shop in regular stores for things my size bc of my measurements#and to have a skinny person come up to me and say 'use poshmark to buy pants ' like they have just...#opened the doors of fashion for me... like no you have not.#i will still have the same exact problems as i do with every other store... except on poshmark i can't return the clothes#idk i just.... sometimes i think that a lot of thin people think that shopping for clothes as a fat person is the same as shopping-#when you're thin#when that is.... simply not the case#literally.... everything is different#and the fundamental difference is that clothes are made for skinny shapes whereas fat bodies have to compromise#idk i just... i have a lot of thoughts about this#but i genuinely hate being told that bc miss do you think i haven't already looked??#like i use poshmark for t-shirts and like... big jackets#everything else i need to be able to return#and i also think that they don't consider... what it's like to try and consume ethically under capitalism..#when you don't fit the general group that clothes or those sustainable options were made for#like any fat person can tell you how FRUSTRATING it is to try and thift for pants or shop for clothes#because all of those sustainable brands RARELY carry things in inclusive sizes#so to already STRUGGLE with that while shopping... and then to be told 'use poshmark instead... go to good will'#when those options... do not function the same for fat bodies... will never not be irritating#vent#tw: body image#tw: fatphobia
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Black Market Blonde Hair
After yesterday’s post I received some very nice messages about my before hair, none about the after. Where were you guys when I needed someone to stop me?? Just kidding, I needed a trim, I just didn’t need the shearing that I got. Several of you said that you like my current hair color. Thankyouverymuch. As you know, it’s a struggle and always a work in progress. Let me fill you in on how I arrived at this particular shade. I spent most of my life as a brunette, then Mother Nature decided to take me in a different direction. Much like my maternal grandmother, our beloved Ethel, I went mostly white before I was 50. I can’t even remember how many years before 50, but an unfair number. So I colored. I did DIY color, I also paid big bucks at salons, and honestly - never saw a huge difference in anything but the price. But boxed color isn’t always great quality, and you’re fairly limited in color range - so the logical next step is a beauty supply store, right? That’s when Sally’s entered my life and we had a loving, long term relationship. I usually used their Ion brand with decent results. I could blend colors, tone, touch up and earn coupons at the same time. I was forever getting $5 off my purchase. I’ll bet the Sally’s in Mt. Juliet is worried sick about me right now, I should have let them know that I was relocating. When we moved to Denton I was saddened to learn that the closest Sally’s (by the way, I know it’s actually Sally Beauty Supply, not Sally’s) is a good 30 minutes away. Inconvenient, but not the end of the world. I’d just have to stock up, right? I was planning to do just that, went to the website and figured I’d fill a cart with my staples and go pick it up...only to find that they didn’t have any of my color in stock at that location. Rut roh. So I forgot about it for a while and then a while longer, and the white was growing in a half inch at a time (my hair grows like kudzu). I told my sister that maybe I’d just let it go white again. I’d done it during early lockdown and didn’t really care for it, but maybe this time I could live with it. I tried, I really tried - it just started to feel a little too much like this.
Remember her? I also had to be honest with myself and admit that my always color-resistant gray/white was really not taking color well even before we’d moved up here and away from my favorite Sally’s. What to do? I could submit to the constant, expensive cycle of salon color...orrrrr I could get my hands on the products professionals use and do it myself. I did loads of research and found out that what I probably needed was a Redken hair color dubbed CoverFusion. It’s made just for stubborn gray and gets rave reviews from stylists. At Sally’s you have to have an operator’s license or a stylist’s license or whatever it’s called to get the good stuff. I don’t have that, just a lifetime of experience dealing with this hair. That really should qualify me, though I suppose there are laws for a reason. BUT, salons go out of business, product packaging changes and must be replaced on shelves, items are discontinued and must be sold before expiring, right? Where does that stuff go? Why, to the seedy underbelly of the beauty industry, of course - otherwise known as Ebay. So I became a criminal. I shopped on Ebay and Poshmark for my color (9N) in Redken CoverFusion. Found it! I ordered one tube as a test - checked the batch number when it arrived to make sure it wasn’t an expired product, made sure that it was factory sealed, then used the 20 developer I already had under the sink and turned my bathroom into a salon. Previously, when using Ion products from Sally’s, my white would get coverage, but there was always a difference in the freshly colored white and the rest of my hair, no matter what method I used. But lo and behold, the professional grade color worked like a charm! The coverage was complete and even! On the left, my hair just taken out of a clip and getting ready to color. On the right, after coloring, rinsing, and spending a few minutes wrapped in a microfiber towel. That was about a week ago, before the ugly cut.
I was so happy with the results that I immediately contacted my dealer (that’s right, I said dealer) and ordered a few more tubes. I may have enough to get me through the rest of 2022. Of course, I checked the batch number of every tube to make sure they weren’t expired. A tube of hair dye has a shelf life of about 3 years, so I’m good!
I’m paying about $12 a tube to cover my white at home versus a minimum of $60 per visit at a salon. Yes, I’m that cheap. I never thought I’d be a blonde, but I’m apparently willing to break some laws to stay that way. I wonder what the punishment is, surely not jail time? Maybe community service - I’m okay with that. If you see me picking up litter along the highway, honk and tell me my hair looks great. Stay safe, stay well, stay outta’ jail. XOXO, Nancy
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Everything you need to know about Stitch Fix, the beloved billion-dollar fashion business
Stitch Fix can help you get dressed. (Photo: Getty Images)
The online personal styling service Stitch Fix marked 2017 a mega-successful year.
The company, which chooses clothing for its subscribers and doles it out in scheduled deliveries, launched its own exclusive in-house brands, developed partnerships with household names in fashion, and launched an initial public offering on the Nasdaq stock exchange, though new reports indicate the company’s early success could be facing growing pains (an earnings call on March 12 might shed more light on the matter.)
While the last few years have brought trouble for traditional mall anchor stores and brick-and-mortar retailers struggling for relevance, direct-to-consumer is flourishing. It’s in that environment that Stitch Fix has grown — though its ultimate success is still TBD. So what is it that makes the tech company notable?
How it works
Katrina Lake launched Stitch Fix six years ago, meticulously mining data from shoppers about their purchasing behavior and style preferences from the beginning.
The service works like this: Sign up on the website with an email or Facebook account, and complete a profile and questionnaire that aim to identify your sartorial tastes. Once you’re finished, you choose how frequently you’d like shipments (or “Fixes,” as they’re called) and enter your payment information. Then you wait for a box of five items to be delivered to your door.
Stitch Fix is built upon a few assumptions: Its users either don’t like to shop, don’t know how to shop, or don’t have access to good shopping. They can’t be bothered to spend the time searching online, and might appreciate a little guidance.
“I have found the majority of people who want styling services don’t like to go shopping or don’t care to think about clothing,” says Charcy Evers, a retail analyst with her own personal styling service. “Getting dressed is a big hurdle; it hinders them in the morning. So services like this take that stressful element out of people’s lives.”
Stitch Fix shoppers are also enticed by a deal (who isn’t?): If you keep every item in your Fix, you save 25 percent on your order. It’s as much a perk for shoppers as it is for the company, which has a goal to reduce the amount of inventory the company is left with.
The more feedback you provide to Stitch Fix, the better suited your Fix will be for you.
Ok peeps, help me out! Got some more pieces from the online styling service again, which piece should I keep for wearing to the office? I'm wearing each top with black skinnies. . A. Spotted blouse. B. Black & white cardigan. . They also sent me the silver knotted necklace I'm wearing. What do you think? . TIA!
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Terri Smith-Wright, a 56-year-old interior designer, first tried Stitch Fix in May after a friend referred her to the service. The Lafayette, Ind., resident says she used to enjoy shopping regularly, but as she grew older, she found that her local mall, only two miles from her home, disappointed her.
“It’s like there’s nothing for a woman my age at the mall anchor stores like Macy’s near me,” Smith-Wright tells Yahoo Lifestyle. “Our Macy’s is geared toward the farmer’s wife or college or high school kids. It’s the same thing everyone else has, or there are old-lady clothes. I’m not ready to go there yet!”
Smith-Wright completed the style survey: Business-casual transition pieces were a must, no shoes, and nothing that required dry cleaning. She received her first Fix about three weeks later, and she says she was initially impressed with the selections. She budgeted up to $250 per Fix, and planned to receive new shipments monthly.
“I found that they were able to provide things I couldn’t find in my community,” she says of her first Fix. “I’m mostly a business-casual jeans-wearer, but I also wanted stylish things.”
What about plus-size?
Even though the company is six years old, it only just introduced plus-size in 2017, meaning shoppers like Marcy Bates Harris had to wait years before they could subscribe.
The 52-year-old Air Force employee says shopping in Shreveport, La., isn’t great for straight-size people, let alone plus-size people.
“I get overwhelmed going into a store, and I usually leave a store a little depressed,” Bates Harris says. “In your house, at least you’re comfortable trying things on.”
Once Stitch Fix offered plus-sizes, beginning in Feb. 2017, Bates Harris signed on. Happy with most of her shipments, she didn’t want to forgo the company’s 25 percent discount on all items in her Fix if there were just one or two things she didn’t like.
Marcy Bates Harris, a satisfied Stitch Fix user, thinks the service provides a better alternative to the shopping in her hometown without the hassle. Here, a head-to-toe Stitch Fix look on Bates Harris. (Photo: Marcy Bates Harris)
So, like thousands of others, she takes advantage of secondary marketplaces like Facebook and resale websites like Poshmark to sell unwanted Stitch Fix items without sacrificing the savings. But if users keep their items — even if they’re unwanted — without providing feedback to the company, its assessment for what they actually like and what’s popular may be skewed.
Overall, Bates Harris says she was satisfied with the Stitch Fix experience, which helped the relatively reserved shopper expand her tastes. “It’s a fun day when I receive my Fix,” she says. (Indeed, there’s an entire community built around sharing unboxing Fix videos on sites like YouTube.) “I’d never tried on skinny jeans before, so when I first tried them on they were really tight, but I really like them a lot now.”
What if you actually like shopping?
In addition to the new plus-size offerings, Stitch Fix is beginning to add premium and “accessible luxury” retailers to its inventory, like Helmut Lang and Grey Jason Wu, which created five exclusive pieces for Stitch Fix clients based on the company’s consumer preferences data (items range in price from $225 to $395 and are available in sizes zero to 14).
“With its combination of human touch, algorithms, and personalization, Stitch Fix has allowed me to access its rich data, which helped me design the five new Stitch Fix-exclusive pieces from the Grey Jason Wu collection,” Wu says in a statement to Yahoo Lifestyle.
A look at Stitch Fix’s style survey, which tries to account for shopper’s tastes and preferences. In one part of the survey, featured above, you indicate whether you “like” a grouping of items. (Photo: Stitch Fix)
In theory, premium offerings might appeal to shoppers with higher budgets or trendier tastes. Though that wasn’t the case for this writer, a 24-year-old, Midwest-raised New York City transplant working in fashion. I have access to some of the world’s best shopping outside my door, and typically don’t have to worry whether designers offer clothing in my size (that is, I’m straight-size, falling under a size 8.)
While my own Fix was neatly arranged and personalized with a friendly letter from my stylist, I was nonplussed by the items I received: a $44 pair of tassel earrings I could have made myself, a $158 silk blue-and-black cheetah print blouse, a $188 pair of high rise skinny jeans, and a $50 polyester cardigan were not anything I’d have purchased on my own.
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Perhaps the only item in my Fix I’d have considered keeping was a $168 off-the-shoulder ribbed dress, but I wasn’t sold on the idea that the quality and the price tag were in sync.
If Stitch Fix didn’t appeal to me, a fashion lover, then to whom could it appeal? Lake, Stitch Fix’s founder, says the company’s customer isn’t the coastal millennial going to Coachella that she’d first imagined. Instead, it’s more often a mom looking for hemlines long enough to wear to her child’s preschool, according to what she told the L.A. Times in June. (Stich Fix was not able to provide Yahoo Lifestyle with an interview, either with its founder or a company stylist, in time for this story.)
Does online shopping mean worse quality?
Zarah Matsuda Fritz, a 34-year-old high school culinary teacher, says she and three other coworkers each signed up to try Stitch Fix around the same time.
A few months later, all four of the high school employees ditched the service for much the same reason: quality. Matsuda Fritz had spent $2,000 over about six Fixes, but says that the quality of the clothing she received worsened considerably since she’d begun receiving shipments.
She was also frustrated when one of her students pointed out she had the same top as the culinary teacher — but spent $8 on it instead of the $60 that Matsuda Fritz spent.
“I’ll shop at Target and drop $300 easily, but when I do that, I’m walking away with a cart full of clothes. I’m not going to spend $300 on five items that don’t last,” she says.
Looking for a wardrobe update this holiday season? Stitch Fix is waiving the $20 styling fee until the end of November, read my new post (link in bio) to try it out!
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Stitch Fix isn’t just for women, of course. Its men’s offerings became available in Sept. 2016. Casey Tanksley, already a Stitch Fix customer herself, encouraged her husband, Leonard, to try the service too.
The 28-year-old, studying to become a pastor in Fort Wayne, Ind., is exactly the kind of shopper Stitch Fix is trying to court.
“I hate going to the store. I don’t hate shopping — I can shop on Amazon all day long,” Leonard says. “But I’m not a fan of going to try on clothes and trying to match things.”
As with many Stitch Fix user stories, the first shipments weren’t perfect, far from it. (“I’m not a slim guy by any stretch of the imagination, and each of my first few Fixes had slim-fit shirts. I was really upset.”)
But the soon-to-be pastor offered a shot at redemption. His next few Fixes were better, he says, and helped him think about clothes in new ways, thanks to the styling guide that Stitch Fix includes in every one of its shipments.
The best part of using Stitch Fix for Leonard Tanksley is putting on at-home “fashion shows” with his wife. The fashion procession is different than it is in a church, and the higher power is Stitch Fix data. But its power, like any religion, can be transformative.
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