#so often I see on mobile someone reblog a meme and I'm like 'need to send that' get distracted and forget bc what's object permanence

[tadbitfooled]

so we had our holiday today, that leaves me with just a small thing to do tomorrow but I should be able to reply to things and that. I was too wiped out to do that tonight.

if you'd like for me to send you memes over the holiday weekend, like my meme call so my ADHD brain is like 'ah yes! memes for them!'

[bludhavenbirder]

Information

Hello! I'm Ev. My pronouns are they/them. I'm 24. I used to be an avid roleplayer, but fell out of the habit for several years. I'm interested in getting back into it, so feel free to shoot me a message if you're interested in writing with me. Below are the rules and some other important info.

This is a sideblog, so you won't be followed by this handle. If you've got any questions about how that may impact roleplaying, you can shoot me a message or an ask.

I don't roleplay with minors.

I am open to roleplaying with any fandoms as well as OCs! If you send me a meme or a starter out of the blue, I might message you to work some things out before responding, but I am excited to get to know your characters!

I am interested in writing Dick Grayson during his time as Nightwing and his time as Robin. I'm also open to AUs.

Tagging— if I haven't tagged something that is triggering, let me know and I'll fix it ASAP. The blog will contain canon-typical violence. Tags are formatted like "tw: material" such as "tw: overdose" or "tw: discussion of suicide" but will also be under a cut.

I'm fairly open to writing characters discussing most topics and dealing with the aftermath of things, but there are certain things I will not write happening "on screen." Those are rape, sexual harassment, suicide attempts, self harm, eye gore, animal death or abuse. I'm alright to write characters discussing those things, but I've a hard line against deleting them.

I don't write smut. If things get steamy, I'll fade to black.

I'm open to shipping with chemistry. If you play a character who Dick is canonically in a romantic relationship with at some point in the comics, let's chat about it before writing specific romantic plot. If you write a character who doesn't, we also need to chat before writing anything romantic/one character coming on to the other.

No romantic relationships with Batman or the other Robins.

I'm usually on mobile, so formatting will be limited.

You can reblog memes and art and the like from me, if you want. Do not reblog threads unless you are the person I'm writing with please and thanks.

Don't spam like.

On inspiration— I mostly draw from the comics. I've seen a few animated films here and there, but most of my inspiration comes from the comics. In terms of content I see referenced often, I feel that I should mention that I haven't watched any Teen Titans shows and I haven't read WFA. I'm also not super up to date on current runs because I prefer to read trade paperbacks. If you have any questions about whether or not I've consumed a particular piece of media, feel free to shoot me a message! I don't have any particularly strong opinions on fanon beyond the fact that I don't enjoy the idea that Dick is either a goofy, happy guy or someone full of rage— my philosophy with the character is that someone who feels sorrow and rage as deeply as he does is someone who can also feel joy and love with the same level of intensity.

On response time— I work full time and my job has varying and weird hours. If I haven't responded in a week, please shoot me a message. Based on how busy my life is, I may queue some responses.

Tags— you can find memes under #prompts, wishlist under #wishlist, open starters under #starters, headcanons under #headcanon, out of character content under #ooc, threads that take place while Dick is Robin under #Robin-era. Most art of characters are tagged with their first name, but art of Batman/Bruce Wayne is tagged under #the-bat and Dick is tagged under #the-guy-himself.

[barksback]

MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, THE DOG WHO BITES IS THE DOG WHO FEELS HE HAS NO OTHER OPTION; I FEEL AS THOUGH MY BODY LANGUAGE MUST CONSTANTLY BE SCREAMING "IF YOU DO NOT KEEP YOUR FINGERS OFF THE BARS, YOU WILL GET THEM TORN OFF."

#BARKSBACK. ind. pri. sel. JAKE PARK of bhvr's DEAD BY DAYLIGHT. extremely canon divergent and very low activity. hooked by LEGION ( 23 | they/them | mst ). CARRD. basic guidelines etc under the cut!

THE BASICS! i'll be keeping this blog mostly private and decently low activity. if i don't follow you back, it's not personal, i promise! i just wanna focus on keeping this space comfy and writing with my friends. i obviously don't take ownership of dead by daylight or anything, i'm not affiliated with bhvr, etc etc etc. all headcanons and graphics are mine unless otherwise stated, though!

BASIC RP ETIQUETTE APPLIES! don't godmod, don't pester for replies, don't steal my shit, all of that. basically, don't be a dick, and we're all good!

BASIC DNI CRITERIA ALSO APPLIES! i don't fuck with any flavor of bigotry, i don't fuck with genderbends. just don't be a freak and we're chilling.

COMMON TRIGGERS WILL BE PRESENT ON THIS BLOG! given the nature of dead by daylight, i do not suggest following me if you're squeamish! i do my best to tag most things ( eg., 'blood //' ), but if you're easily bothered by the themes of dbd, this may not be the blog for you! i don't have anything i specifically need tagged, but if i missed something that YOU need tagged, please let me know!! nsfw/suggestive content will probably be present, as well, and will be tagged as 'nsfw //'.

SHIPPING! not a huge priority here tbh! jake can be hard to ship with in general, as he's usually not the nicest person. i love exploring all sorts of dynamics, though!! i love pre-established shit so please never hesitate to throw things my way <3 SIDE NOTE: my ship with west’s dwight ( frfld ) is my main ship for this blog! given that we’re affiliates, his portrayal of dwight is canon to my main verses, as is my ship with him. i’m open to having other ships, but they will end up being in separate verses/aus; if they do occur in my main verses, they will likely be messy/unhealthy and/or incredibly one-sided ( which i am absolutely down for, this is just a head’s up ).

REGARDING AFFILIATES . . . it’s safe to assume that my affiliates’ muses are canon to my main verses, and that may affect other dynamics. affiliates are also exclusives, meaning i am not looking to write with other portrayals of their muses. if i have you listed as exclusive/main ( after discussing with you, of course ), i would like for you do to the same, but you absolutely do not have to. if there comes a point where you no longer want to be affiliates/mains/exclusives but still want to write with me, that’s totally fine! just give me a head’s up.

DO NOT ASSUME THINGS ABOUT MY PORTRAYAL! i am incredibly canon divergent because a lot of the character building i did was before BHVR released jake’s tome lore. i do a lot of headcanon posting/brainblasting in general, but until i get my carrd up, feel free to ask questions! additionally, i will not water down my portrayal. jake can come off as cold and uncaring at times, and he does not play nice. obviously his attitude changes depending on the dynamic, but please keep this in mind!

ACTIVITY WILL ERR ON THE LOWER SIDE. i have adhd and i work full time ( sun - thurs ). there will be long periods where i don't write much. however, i'm usually lurking on mobile, so feel free to IM me, and moots can always hmu on discord! speaking of activity, i don't usually do starter calls or anything, so the best way to interact with me outside of general plotting is by sending me memes! i reblog loads of them, so feel free to spam my inbox if you feel like it.

DON'T INVOLVE ME IN DRAMA! if you see me writing with someone who is legitimately problematic, or who just makes you uncomfortable, please just message me about it. if i've done something to upset you, tell me - i cannot read minds!

AFFILIATES! frfld ( dwight fairfield ) / athlyte ( meg thomas ) / nosp1n ( hak ji-woon )

WHERE'S LEGION? @doomedflare ( multi ) / @boonvocation ( mikaela/sable duo blog ) / @punkrott ( personal )

[thebridgehqs]

Question from someone who has had bad experiences in large groups/gets overwhelmed easily- how do you suggest going about keeping up with everything going on? In a group this big it seems like it might be a little impossible or overwhelming to form connections. Thank you!

I'm sorry to hear you've had issues in large groups. To be honest, while we do have a lot of characters taken, we still feel like a small group because there's only ten of us players, and we really do our best to ensure there aren't any cliques.

Now, for practical advice on our group! We have an starter blog where we reblog all open starters, which is always one of the best places to get started, and we also have a thing we call Free Post Fridays where you can participate in meme day. These both often help create random connections as they allow creativity and most of our players don't mind if you assume friendships for those.

As for plotting, I can guarantee that you'll have plenty of people interested in that. If you decide to join our discord (which is not fast paced, if you're worried about that, we mostly use it for offering plotting options in a casual way), we have both a starter call channel and a plotting call channel.

In the starter call channel, you ask if anyone wants you to write starters for them (capping is allowed if you get overwhelmed), and if they want the starter for a particular muse of theirs, they'll let you know.

In the plotting channel, you let people know what kind of plots you want, ranging from offering a vague thing of "anyone want to be friends with my muse" to specific. For example, I recently offered plots where my character could be their tattoo artist. Once they react to your post, you then message them to work out the details.

People love different kinds of connections here, with people developing families, friends, work relationships, and of course, the usual of shipping. Given the fake lives, that means you can create headcanons that form connections a lot faster, so you can feel included straight away.

Generally, we are a fairly character driven rp where you're just expected to keep track of your muses, so trying to follow everything that's going on isn't a big deal. When there are plot drops or events, that's usually the catalyst for some more plotting, but unless you choose to participate, your muses don't have to be affected, as we know some people get overwhelmed by such things.

I'm sorry the answer was so long, I just wanted to list all the different options you've got. I'd also like to say, all of us admins are also happy to help if you're not sure where to start, there's almost always one of us available on mobile for you to talk to if you need help. In fact, I'm mobile right now and got so excited seeing your question, I couldn't even wait for whole admin team to approve my message, so this may get edited once they're online.

I really hope you join, we're a tight knit group but not so tight knit that we won't be unspeakably excited for a new friend.

[lunabeck]

Hey there; I've noticed you reblog a bunch of my stuff, but you never add anything or tag it, so I'm really not sure what kinds of things you're interested in. Can you tell me a bit about yourself then? I mean, blog-wise; if I'm talking to someone online, I honestly don't care about their IRL stuff.

Oh!! Wow hi! I don’t tag often on mobile, and since I’m on it often, I end up not tagging a lot lol. Im pretty much interested in a lot of stuff. A good chunk of which is anime, but also just funny stuff in general. I like writing stuff and art a lot, im an artist myself. No art up though heh. I also am not too often on my dash board. I have mobile notifications for multiple blogs, so i usually end up reblogging from the same 10-15 or so, you’re one of them :)

But over all, my blog ends up being a jumble of feminism, anime, memes, writing and art, and the ocational post made by me (i dont make these often). I have a few side blogs as well, one for strictly art and writing.

I try to remember to tag, but i always end up forgetting, and mobile quick reblog is just so convenient. But hey, thanks for asking!! I feels cool to see you noticed heh. If you dont mind me asking, what about you? I mean, i see most of your posts, but its always nice to hear from the person themselves :D

(btw its really really cool of you to do image descriptions, its one of the reasons i followed you, even if i personally dont need them. And also tumblr isnt allowing me to answer this privately? So im sorry about putting this public and if you dont want it to be, let me know. I’ll delete and sent you the response in a new ask or message or something)

[schmendriiick-a]

how exactly do you get into the RP community btw? I followed a bunch of TLU RP blogs a while ago after seeing a post looking for new people to participate, but my main blog doesn't relate, and I'm not sure how to go about a side blog for this sort of thing. Do I need to devote the blog to a single character? I'd be comfortable with any character, but I would feel bad about choosing someone who is way overdone already. (Thank you for any info or advice!

      I suppose the best way to start would be to follow a bunch of roleplaying blogs !! 

   to start actually making your blog though, your blog doesn’t necessarily have to be dedicated to just one character. blogs with more than one are called Multi-muse blogs, which are slowly becoming more accepted in the roleplaying community. if you’re just starting out though, i’d recommend just starting with one. I would also recommend having a separate blog if possible, instead of a sideblog. it may just be me personally but i get confused easily with sideblogs so i prefer not to use them- plus people can’t tell when you’ve followed them back and you can’t send asks from it which is a lil important for stuff like rp memes or sentence starters.

    so, for one character, yes. the whole blog is centered around that character. the icon, mobile banner, & theme all revolve around the character as well as a majority of the posts. personal posts talking aloud or about your day as the mun or whatever are fine, but it’s generally frowned upon to reblog a bunch of posts outside of the character. like, say i was a fan of steven universe. unless the gifset has a quote that relates to schmendrick or is like something he’d say, I probably shouldn’t reblog it on this blog and instead reserve it for my personal. 

    another good way to be recognized in the roleplaying community is graphic design. you don’t have to be particularly good at it, but if you approach me off-anon i’m happy to help you ! icons have also become very important. which are the 100x100 images used in most posts. if you don’t want to make them yourself or you don’t know how, http://www.hollow-art.com/ is a great icon resource. you can also use formatted text if you’d like ! some people format more, and some less. the easiest way to do it is to highlight all your text and hit ctrl + the comma button. it automatically makes your text small ! which has gotten very popular lmao. but, that’s going into more complex stuff. i wouldn’t wanna drop you off in the deep end. as for choosing a character, I would recommend any within the TLU fandom. you can pick schmendrick if you’d like to, i don’t mind having a duplicate around, but as of this moment there’s only two amaltheas- neither of which are online very often anymore. so i’d say if you want to pick her to go for it. as for Molly, Lir, Haggard, or any other character that catches your fancy- i don’t really know of any active blogs for them at this moment. Hope all of this helps ! and again, if you want more help just message me off anon and we can talk more in the IMs !