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immortalsins · 6 months ago

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ough the way my friend in my house was insisting that it's best to go to a beach in another city along the coast (to celebrate another friend's birthday) but five of us could go in her car and one would have to take the (expensive, long) train alone (with beach stuff), instead of just going to the smaller but closer beach that we can all get to on the bus together. she stood there and said 'we'll get to the beach quicker in my car than all on the bus' ok five of us will. and the other will not. but that doesn't matter to her

#so they're at this beach now because i said i'll stay home and let everyone else take the spaces in the car #i didn't want to go anyway and i think i might look like a bit of an asshole #the way she looked at me last night and said. we still need to decide who's taking the train there.#right first off you did not tell me someone was going to have to take the train #and maybe i'm being paranoid but yeah in what world wouldn't you want that to be me #she doesn't give a shit fr #the way i get ignored until i'm talking to her about something she wants to listen to.......#i know she's not as close to me as she is with the other two friends going to the beach #and her and one friend have partners who would be in the car with them #leaving one spare seat between me and my other friend #who didn't even know of the train problem until i told her #its not a big deal but u look directly in my eyes and say we need to decide who's not travelling with us. who will have to take the bus to #the city centre then pay for a train ticket then get from the station to the beach then all the way back again.#we need to decide this because *i* don't want to take the bus to the alternative beach even if it means we all get to travel together.#she's my friend but to be blunt she's inconsiderate and self-centred #and too neurotypical to communicate clearly #so much of what she wants to say is implied #like unplugging the tumblr dryer and tightly folding up the cord behind it when she wants us to stop using it to save money #LMAO just talk to us. please #and if you want me to tag behind you on a train #just say that and i'll know

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