#shaking the whole thing to its core and it sucks and I haven't felt like this in a while and it sucks
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work people are generally good about my pronouns, like any misgendering is usually infrequent and from people I don't work with often
but in the past one single week alone, THREE people I've worked with closely for yeaaars have all misgendered me and I'm like wtf
two of those people I specifically work with on lgbtq stuff which like. wtf
#and it feels very shitty!!!!!#and it's making me think ARE people at work actually good about my pronouns or do I just not hear myself referred to in third-person often?#like have these people I work with closely been doing it wrong all along just not to my face?#and it sucks too bc I've been more able lately to brush it off emotionally when someone misgenders me#bc I feel more confident in myself so it feels more like THEIR problem than mine#and bc it usually comes from people who aren't that big a presence in my life and the people who are get it right#but now!!!!#shaking the whole thing to its core and it sucks and I haven't felt like this in a while and it sucks
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