#seriously ya'll......this happens time and again and i'm getting fucking sick of it
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
kidnap-the-series · 1 month ago
Text
EP 4 - Trademark Owner (Part 2)
Tumblr media
Liar!!
Tumblr media
Awww, he’s sad that his crush finds his brother cooler than him.
Tumblr media Tumblr media
They are so cute.🥺Best buddies fr.
Tumblr media
Fuck! We are in trouble. 😬
Tumblr media
I get where Min is coming from tho. He came back to an empty house. He’s got a sick brother and a hostage/kidnap situation going on. He was probably thinking about all the worst possible scenarios. I get why he’d be worried sick.
Tumblr media
But then again Mhen’s perspective is very very valid too. He is afterall a teenager who just wants to live a normal life. He’s been deprived of so many things that are normal for people of his age like going to school, going out with friends and all of that because of his heart condition and pacemaker. For once, he had someone (Q) that understands how he feels and was able to support what he actually wanted to do.
Tumblr media
I like that we are actually going into what Mhen’s feels and thinks instead of just brushing through it and using it for the leads to have a moment. He feels restricted and almost locked up. He understands why Min is overprotective but he is a human too.
Tumblr media
Jeen probably feels so guilty rn for letting this happen especially when Min has shown time and time again how much he trusts Mhen with her.
Tumblr media
Oh! He looks pissed. 😬
Tumblr media
There really is no right or wrong in this situation. It is a matter of perspectives. Honestly I love that. There are so many situations in real life where you just can't pinpoint one side to be wrong and the other to be right. It doesn't always work that way.
Tumblr media
It's unfortunate that the day Mhen was geniunely happy had to turn out this way but there’s no one to blame here.
Tumblr media
Again, this is not a pick sides situation. The worry and thoughts that must be going through Min’s head rn.... I can’t even imagine. He must be feeling scared but also guilty for almost losing his brother. He probably feels like he didn't do enough to keep his brother safe. 
Tumblr media
Now Q feels guilty for causing all of this situation.
Tumblr media
True. Nothing would have happened if only it wouldn't have rained. The motorcycle didn't cause any problems. So technically it wasn't Q’s fault. It was just that the circumstances turned out that way.
Tumblr media
Cuteee. 😭
Tumblr media
We’ll see about that. 😏
Tumblr media
They really said enough of the drama bring back the unseriousness. The door just beside him is hilarious honestly. 
Seriously tho, Min’s only lingering here coz he doesn’t know how to address things with Q.
Tumblr media
He’s knocking on his own bedroom door. 😂
Tumblr media
Now you’ve got 2 sick people in the house to take care of.
Min, the ultimate caretaker.
Tumblr media
Fuck I love this so much. Love love love the fact that both of them apologised. Like I’ve already said there is no definitive right or wrong in this situation but they still argued and said some harsh words to each other. Communication is the fucking key ya'll. 
Tumblr media
These two are like a married couple who have different opinions on what's best for their child and are arguing over it. Q clearly is the chill parent lol. But ig, Q understood what Mhen was feeling which Min wasn't able to because he is so caught up in keeping him safe and healthy that he's hasn't been able to notice that Mhen is not happy.
Tumblr media
The amount of people I've seen complain about the towel bath. But meh I neither hate nor love it. I'm ok with tropes as along they don't feel so forced to the point where it looks like they just put it for the sake of putting it.
Tumblr media
Ooo he a 100% felt something. 🤭
Tumblr media
He really gave him his most treasured sweatshirt. I mean Q's position has upgraded from kidnapee to potential boyfriend so that's that.
Tumblr media
Why are you so damn sweetttt
Tumblr media
A cuddle will help reduce the fever too?? 🤨
Tumblr media
So good that they are behaving like actual adults and actually having a conversation. Conversations like this are not always easy but they pushed through it and are making efforts to clear things up.
Tumblr media
Again they are BOTH apologising. I love it 🤗. Idk why I thought Min would be the only one to apologise but I love that it's both of them.
Tumblr media
See I think Min has a lot of thoughts like this. He thinks he is not enough for his brother. Like he's sees himself less than worthy for his brother despite trying his best. 
4 notes · View notes
Text
i need some of you to realize that call out culture, by design, rewards people who make the most outrageous & aggressive accusations, without regards to truth or context. it encourages people to misconstrue, to erase context, to outright lie. it feeds the instinct to attack, with or without cause. 
and that naturally enables certain types of people (terfs, exclusionists, bigots) who already have a vitriolic bandwagon behind them, to target & harass minority bloggers whose inclusive platforms they do not like to see becoming popular.
this has happened time and again, it has driven good people off this site, it is traumatic and unhealthy to everyone involved. purity culture creates an atmosphere of fear & paranoia, i am begging you to reexamine this attitude of mob violence in online spaces
#not a shitpost#serious post#harassment tw#seriously ya'll......this happens time and again and i'm getting fucking sick of it#do you remember i-am-a-fish? do you remember when you let ace & trans exclusionists target & harass i-am-a-fish off this site?#i see the same tactics being used time and again on different ace & trans & nb & gnc bloggers#and it WORKS! it works every time! people on this site fall for it every time and i am SICK of it#would you just. look at people's blogs and judge them on their recent and overall actions.#if people have been personally hurt by them then yes listen to victims#but don't take screenshots of posts from 2 years ago as the sacred truth#i see bloggers apologizing again and again for the same things and then realize 'oh shit they don't *want* an apology'#'these people just want more shit to throw at me. an apology is never going to be enough'#and also....let people grow? i'm proud of how quickly the standards of what is appropriate and respectful are changing & progressing#we are all constantly learning new things about what is and is not appropriate to say. and that's good!!#but the result is that what we considered appropriate a year or 2 ago we now know probably shouldn't be#so like. look at people's recent posts if you want to know their recent attitudes.#don't go attacking people for stuff they said years ago unless you have reason to believe they still believe & are perpetuating it#especially when so many people on this site are goddam teenagers holy shit#i honestly wonder if that is the reason so many people in online spaces are unwilling to admit they were wrong or change their opinions#bc we've erased the concept that you're allowed to be wrong and grow and update your opinion#so if you admit you are wrong NOW you're opening yourself up to be attacked years down the line#i've had to learn as a popular blog when to clapback and when to just...let it slide#often it's better to tell people off in private or block them. but callout culture is encouraging us to just.#automatically hit back fullthrottle in a way that puts our target at risk for public harassment#so i see a lot of crappy but lowkey comments getting people dunked into shitstorms and it's just....#a lot of time and energy spent harassing people who...aren't really the people you should be concerned about?#and who could probably learn & grow if given the right incentive?#idk i'm seeing a lot of stick and very little carrot.#and a lot of black-and-white thinking that leads to more violence than i'm comfortable having in an online community
23K notes · View notes
Text
I've had an uptick in harassment/suicide-baiting recently so have a reblog
i need some of you to realize that call out culture, by design, rewards people who make the most outrageous & aggressive accusations, without regards to truth or context. it encourages people to misconstrue, to erase context, to outright lie. it feeds the instinct to attack, with or without cause. 
and that naturally enables certain types of people (terfs, exclusionists, bigots) who already have a vitriolic bandwagon behind them, to target & harass minority bloggers whose inclusive platforms they do not like to see becoming popular.
this has happened time and again, it has driven good people off this site, it is traumatic and unhealthy to everyone involved. purity culture creates an atmosphere of fear & paranoia, i am begging you to reexamine this attitude of mob violence in online spaces
#not a shitpost#serious post#harassment tw#seriously ya'll......this happens time and again and i'm getting fucking sick of it#do you remember i-am-a-fish? do you remember when you let ace & trans exclusionists target & harass i-am-a-fish off this site?#i see the same tactics being used time and again on different ace & trans & nb & gnc bloggers#and it WORKS! it works every time! people on this site fall for it every time and i am SICK of it#would you just. look at people's blogs and judge them on their recent and overall actions.#if people have been personally hurt by them then yes listen to victims#but don't take screenshots of posts from 2 years ago as the sacred truth#i see bloggers apologizing again and again for the same things and then realize 'oh shit they don't *want* an apology'#'these people just want more shit to throw at me. an apology is never going to be enough'#and also....let people grow? i'm proud of how quickly the standards of what is appropriate and respectful are changing & progressing#we are all constantly learning new things about what is and is not appropriate to say. and that's good!!#but the result is that what we considered appropriate a year or 2 ago we now know probably shouldn't be#so like. look at people's recent posts if you want to know their recent attitudes.#don't go attacking people for stuff they said years ago unless you have reason to believe they still believe & are perpetuating it#especially when so many people on this site are goddam teenagers holy shit#i honestly wonder if that is the reason so many people in online spaces are unwilling to admit they were wrong or change their opinions#bc we've erased the concept that you're allowed to be wrong and grow and update your opinion#so if you admit you are wrong NOW you're opening yourself up to be attacked years down the line#i've had to learn as a popular blog when to clapback and when to just...let it slide#often it's better to tell people off in private or block them. but callout culture is encouraging us to just.#automatically hit back fullthrottle in a way that puts our target at risk for public harassment#so i see a lot of crappy but lowkey comments getting people dunked into shitstorms and it's just....#a lot of time and energy spent harassing people who...aren't really the people you should be concerned about?#and who could probably learn & grow if given the right incentive?#idk i'm seeing a lot of stick and very little carrot.#and a lot of black-and-white thinking that leads to more violence than i'm comfortable having in an online community
23K notes · View notes