#realistically I'm straight but for fiction I'm the most bisexual guy in the entire world
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Guys don't tell him but I have the biggest crush on Shawn Hunter....
#realistically I'm straight but for fiction I'm the most bisexual guy in the entire world#for Shawn Hunter I'm twirling my hair and giggling#ESPECIALLY s4 ep15 OMFGS. VERONICA.#gods bro this show......#one of my friends' friends is also a BMW fan and my friend told my acquaintance that I like BMW and she apparently said#'yeah but I bet he likes it in a gay way'#AND LIKE SHE'S RIGHT. BUT.#HELLO???#(she's queer but also Extremely allistic so simply she does not watch shows like I do. ADHD w/o ASD and ASD w/o ADHD FIGHT)#(also she's queer but she likes BMW in a 'straight' way ig?? whatever it was silly to hear about)#and like no she's right I have a self-insert because I'm in gay love with Shawn Hunter. I have a self-insert bc Cory Matthews is my bestie.#like that is a gay way to like something#we also haven't talked in a Good While I was taken aback by her clocking me like that lmao
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Can you explain why LGBT representation is so important and why Voltron's negative portrayal of LGBT characters/rep should be scorned as harshly as it has been? I'm trying to prove a point to a friend and they don't get why representation has to be as important as we're making it.
Oh, this is a huge topic, and one Iâm not sure I could do justice to, all by myself. Given that, this time Iâll let people speak for themselves. Anyone else reading (and I know a whole lot of you are out there) whoâve valued representation â regardless as to whether you relate to the character as a lived experience â feel free to add your thoughts, or links to any other articles, podcasts, or videos youâre recommend.
Fabricio Leal Cogo, Why Queer Representation Matters
I remember growing up here in Brazil and not seeing anyone like me portrayed on TVâor at least, not anyone with a similarly complex inner life. The few times I saw gays on TV, they were always a punchline in a comedyâa source of laughter. Many people, Iâm sure, are probably thinking: Itâs just a joke, right?
But representation matters.
Itâs impossible to overstate the power of being able to identify with a public figure, particularly when that figure is actually seen in the fullest sense. As Michael Morgan, a former professor emeritus at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst and a researcher on media effects, told the Huffington Post earlier this year, âWhen you donât see people like yourself, the message is: Youâre invisible. The message is: You donât count. And the message is: âThereâs something wrong with me.ââ He continued: âOver and over and over, week after week, month after month, year after year, it sends a very clear message, not only to members of those groups, but to members of other groups, as well.â
Uma Dodd, Queerbaiting And The Issue Of LGBT Representation In The Media:
Of the 125 movies released by major US studios in 2016, the media monitoring organisation GLAAD found that only 23 (18.4%) contained characters who identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer â an increase of less than 1% from the previous year. ⌠Itâs insulting, and often quite disheartening, to be told that youâre only worth the three lines of dialogue and five minutes of screen time that the one LGBT character in a film might have, just because of your sexuality or gender.
Queerbaiting relies solely on subtext and the subsequent interpretation of it by fans, and as a result, creates the perfect paradox: writers are able to attract an LGBT audience with vague promises of representation, implied by the text and often encouraged by the writer, but will then never actually confirm or explicitly show said representation, reducing the amount of effort that has to be put in on their part.
You may say that Iâm blowing this issue out of proportion, but that too, is a part of the problem. Because queerbaiting is based on purely subtextual hints, any evidence of it, no matter how blatant it might seem to the viewer/reader, is often insubstantial and difficult to quantify. This allows writers and cast members to dismiss the anger of LGBT fans as simple overreaction and, as a result, makes any legitimate pleas for better representation easier to ignore.
Another by-product that has resulted out of increasing calls for better LGBT representation is implied representation. This is where writers will claim that a character is LGBT but never explicitly show this within the TV show, film, or novel.  This is a method which has been employed by many creators of famous franchises, and it allows them to insert that token bit of representation which makes them look good, without ever actually providing said representation explicitly ⌠Not only does this result in LGBT characters, once again, being shoved into the background â and often killed off for shock value â it raises the question: is this kind of representation good enough?
âŚWhilst any representation of non-heteronormative characters is a good start, this way of representing us canât be allowed to become the norm â we deserve to be explicitly shown in the media as much as anyone else does. We need better representation and we need to be shown that not all LGBT characters have to remain in the closet, because what kind of a message is that sending to those young people out there who are currently questioning their sexuality?
B. Whiteside, 6 Reasons Itâs Important to Have LGBT Characters on Childrenâs TV Shows:
A recent study by the Williams Institute at UCLA revealed that nearly 6 million adults and children have an LGBT parent. There are more than 125,000 same-sex couple households with nearly 220,000 children under the age 18. These children go to school and are active members of their communities. Their identities and home life deserve to be portrayed and represented just as much as anyone elseâs.
Being a child can be tough, especially when one canât identify with anyone around them. There are children and young adults alike who identify as LGBT or have parents who do so. Having content that mirrors their lives can, in fact, save their own. It isnât always easy for children to articulate whatâs wrong or what they need. So it can be a tremendous help to see their favorite character in their same predicament live out their life and truth.
Aristeaus Sizer, We Need To Talk About LGBT Representation, Apparently:
âŚsince Cinderella, there have been 11 Disney princesses. All of which have been heterosexual, and the majority of them married by the end of their film. There is no shortage of straight princesses in this world, so why would it be such a crime for one of them to be LGBTQ? If anyone is forcing any agenda down anybodyâs throats, Mary, it is you and your heteronormative agenda.
As a heterosexual, and I donât mean to patronise here itâs simply the truth, you cannot understand in full capacity how important representation is. Seeing yourself on screen in a genuine, non-caricature form is hugely validating. When I was a kid I thought being gay was like doing drugs, it was a fun choice you made when you wanted to spice things up, and that all came from the films I had seen and how sordid LGBTQ people were portrayed as being. Then, later on into my teenage years, I thought Iâd never be able to show public displays of affection without violent repercussion. Again, this was because of the media I had consumed telling me this. Films and media may not dictate our personalities, but they tell us how much of it we should hide, and the implicit message when you have an entire franchise of heterosexuals is that anything other should be kept underground, out of sight.
âŚweâve been everywhere for so long youâve just never noticed. Primarily because every movie and every advert and every t.v show and every animated cartoon is packed to the brim with straight people. LGBTQ people deserve representation because thereâs far more of us than you think. ⌠To you, itâs just a gay Disney princess where there could have been another straight one, but to someone that princess is the validation they needed that they arenât some abomination or sinful mistake. Theyâre valid, theyâre wonderful, and they have every right to love and be loved.
Danielle Cox, The Importance of LGBT Representation in Media:
[In 2016, GLAADâs annual] shows the highest percentage of LGBT characters on our televisions ⌠[but] when more than twenty-five of those characters are killed off in the same year, we know there is still a lot of work to be done. In fact, GLAAD President and CEO Sarah Kate Ellis released a statement saying, âWhen the most repeated ending for a queer woman is violent death, producers must do better to question the reason for a characterâs demise and what they are really communicating to the audience.â When this ending is repeated in show after show and character after character, we canât help but think the message they are sending is about the worth of our LGBT characters or rather lack thereof.Â
James Dawson, The importance of LGBT visibility in childrenâs books:
I was unaware gay people even existed and, when puberty hit, found myself more than a little lost. I so dearly wish there had been just one book with a character who was a bit like me â just a normal teenage guy who happened to be gay. I would have especially loved one whose sexuality did not define him.
I just know that had there been a diverse range of people like me in books when I was growing up, I wouldnât have felt abnormal for all those years, which I see now, overwhelmingly, I am not. In 2014, itâs my hope that all young LGBT people can see themselves in fiction and recognise there is a place for them in the world.
Palmer Haasch, âYuri!!! On Iceâ and the importance of positive LGBTQ representation:
Despite my resigned certainty that I was about to be drawn in by the potential of a queer relationship only to be disappointed for the umpteenth time, Yuri!!! On Ice managed to exceed all of my expectations. In the end, the show delivered a thoughtful portrayal of two men developing a deep and trusting romantic relationship that provides LGBTQ viewers with representation of queer individuals being happy together above all else, which is something that we desperately need.
For me, it was the first piece of entertainment media I had seen that didnât present queer individuals as âother,â but allowed them to simply freely love and exist. While watching, I didnât have to worry about whether Yuuri or Victor would be outed in an unsafe environment or if Yuuri was going to be unfairly judged on the ice because of his sexuality like so many real life figure skaters have feared in the past. Rather, I fretted over when they were finally going to kiss (because really, it was a long time coming) and if I was ever going to get to see the wedding that was hinted at by their matching gold rings.
Although it is true that the discrimination-free world of Yuri!!! On Ice isnât realistic (yet), it can help reassure queer individuals like me that they can experience love in the same way as anyone else. At the same time, it provides a glimpse of a future where being queer doesnât mean being âotherâ. And that notion is something that I will always work towards and protect.
Additional reading:
Why Visibility Matters
Make Them Gay: Why Queer Representation Matters
Why LGBT Representation Is Important In Media
We Need More Than Visibility
Why Itâs Important To Make More Diverse LGBT Films
Queer Representation in the Media
Why Television Needs More LGBT Characters
Importance of LGBT Representation
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