#rather than if u say 'you are ontologically evil for being a man' like . 💀WHO IS THAT HELPING | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

aropride · 1 year ago

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hello i sent the ask like an hour ago about being the guy bullied for having tiddies and i feel like i should say a couple things to clarify.

It should absolutely be feminism 101 that the patriarchy hurts everyone, thats the point i was trying to make in sharing

At the time the bullying happened I identified as cis. This is to say that being a cis guy doesnt shield you from this bullshit, people will still cup your chest and announce a cup size to humiliate you

no yeah ur good!! it's so insane how like. the patriarchy + beauty standards + Everything like Inherently affect cis men and men in general negatively and yet ppl will still say it only affects women like ..idk the lack of like. nuance & understanding is so wild 2 me !!

#ask #idksilver #like i saw a post ages ago along the lines of 'well i dont care how the patriarchy affects men bc women are the ones being oppressed'#and idk i just feel like . we should care abt men and everyone of any gender . and how the patriarchy affects Everyone #bc how can we solve these like. societal problems without addressing Everything #and on a more like. practical level. its sooo much easier to connect with a guy ur talking abt feminism w if ur like #'ok u know how in middle school if u wore a certain type of jeans u were called gay. thats toxic masculinity which is bc of the patriarchy'#rather than if u say 'you are ontologically evil for being a man' like . 💀WHO IS THAT HELPING #<- sry that was only like half related FJDKGFS #but yeah no i forget people like . dont think the patriarchy hurts men as well cuz it seems so obvious 2 me ???idk

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