#rape by coercion

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

If there are implicit or explicit consequences for saying no to sex, such as losing your job, or housing, then yes simply isn't a real yes.

This means that if a landlord "has sex with" his tenant, it's rape.

It means if an employer "has sex with" his employee, that's rape.

And it means that if a man "has sex with" his employee who is also his tenant, as Neil Gaiman has admitted to doing with two separate women, that is most certainly rape. Add onto that the emotional upset and extreme financial vulnerability both of them were dealing with, the youth of the one, and the fact the other had three children, and there's just no way that this was consensual at all.

This is literally if you don't believe a word they say and only take his side of the story at face value.

If you do listen to them, then you add on the fact that Gaiman undressed himself and got into a bathtub with the nanny he'd met only hours prior and assaulted her there. You add on the fact that he coerced a mother of three into blowing him or being evicted (and when she stopped responding to his sexually explicit messages, he did indeed evict her and her children). You add on the very young female fan who alleges he raped her. You add on the extreme age difference between him and that young woman, and between him and the nanny. You add on that he made them sign NDAs. You add on his enjoyment of violence against them. You add on the other young woman who alleges he forcibly kissed her. You add on that these women have no relation to one another and that these allegations span decades.

The only reasonable conclusion that can be drawn if you don't completely hate women is that at best, Neil Gaiman is an opportunistic and careless rapist. He is blind to power dynamics, refuses to take responsibility, and is therefore unsafe to be around any women or girls. Especially those who are particularly vulnerable or under his direct power. At worst, he is a calculating and manipulative rapist who directly engineers situations so that women will be uniquely vulnerable to him and then he takes full advantage.

Which kind of rapist he is depends on whose side you believe: theirs or his. But he's a rapist regardless and deserves jail at the very least, and I wouldn't be sad to learn he died (I'd rejoice). Personally, for every woman who comes forward, I'm suspecting there are several more, and while victims in general do often get some details confused or panic and add/remove certain parts of the story for fear of not being believed, I'm going to hold their word as far more credible than his.

[konigsblog]

jealous, stepbrother-simon riley...

warnings: stepcest, non-con/dub-con, rape, guilt tripping, coercion, manipulation, dark content. dead dove: do not eat. MDNI 18+

PHOTO CREDIT: @AVE661

your stepbrother finds a sickening form of enjoyment by manipulating and guilt tripping you into getting whatever he wants. it's no surprise—or at least it shouldn't be—that your stepbrother can't help himself when it comes to you. he claims it's just him being overprotective with his beloved stepsister, but deep down, simon's gut churns with rage and jealousy when he sees that man, claiming his spot as your boyfriend.

you deserve better—deserve someone that knows you so well, that being simon. he doesn't enjoy seeing your boyfriend, and will snarl at the hickeys on your neck. it makes him sick, and he'll force tears to run down his cheeks, ranting about how lonely he is, how desperate he is to feel something, how being in the military leaves him pathetically lonely, with no time for relationships...

his pitiful sobs leave you feeling guilty, ashamed of yourself—as if you belong to simon. he'll convince you to ride him, or to jerk him off, or even suck his lengthy cock for hours to make it up to him. if you don't comply, he'll take it for himself, telling you through forced weeps how desperate he is—how cruel and horrible you are to refuse and reject him, as if you truly have a choice.

his large and calloused hands forcefully pry your supple thighs open, insatiable and hungry off the scent of your drooling, sweet pussy. the sight of your warm heat leaves simon beyond desperate, as he rubs his bulbous cock back and forth, taunting your clit before easing inside, his breathing quick as he holds you down and thrusts gently, shaming you for being ungrateful. he ‘protects’ you all the time, and yet, you refuse to simply repay him by spreading your folds and allowing him to sink inside that cunny of yours?

he layers your skin in bruises and hickeys, his voice guttural as he shames you for being with that man, for denying him of the right to fuck your pretty pussy. each harsh and deep thrust leaves your body shaking and trembling, tight cunt weeping and slick, morphed to fit simon's cock as you sob out at the ache.

you take him so well—you're all he wants and desires, lovie. what don't you understand? you're made for each other, give in to simon. :(

[imagineredwood]

Would it be possible to get an HC or would include of Yandere Juice who's readers best friend and he (somehow) convinces reader to have sex with him and he pokes holes into the condom without her knowing? Thank you for giving us all the dark boys lately ☺️

**As you can tell from the request, this is not gonna be everyone’s cup of tea ***

This is obviously triggering content to some people so please please please don't read it if the subject is off-limits or triggering to you. It's yandere Juice who like anyone in that realm is crazy, obsessed, and unhinged and is not by any means a healthy depiction of a relationship. If anyone were to display these behaviors, RUN. That being said, the sex in the HC is consensual, it's the pregnancy that the reader hasn't agreed to obviously because the reader doesn't know. And one could say she was slightly coerced by being horny. (I did tag it for a TW for the R word since she didn't consent to unprotected sex but PLEASE tell me if there are any other tags for triggers I need to put in this post.) If you're on the dark fiction taglist and there are specific topics you don't want to be tagged for please also let me know. I also tagged it for categorization purposes on my page, but if anyone thinks I should remove them so they don't show up in the shows/characters tags please let me know. I'm still new to this type of content and want to make sure I don't do anything wrong.

He’s wanted you for so long

Wanted to marry you and spoil you and show you off as his

He loves you so much and has for so long

But you're just friends

Something you always made sure to remind him of whenever the joke flirting got to be a little too serious

You loved him, no doubt

But you were always hesitant, not knowing if he could be faithful when surrounded by so many other beautiful women so often

You didn't want to risk a broken heart

And he would rather have you only as a friend over not at all

So he never pushed

Only making half asses offers, hoping that one day you'd bite

It was one night when the conversation turned to sex again that he saw a golden opportunity

You admitted that you had never tried one of his favorite positions

Never saw the appeal

And he knows this is his chance

"You'd love it. I know you would. Once you try it, you'll understand. "

He'd go into detail more and more, slowly

Explaining exactly how he does it

How he'd touch you

How he'd position you

How good you would sound

How he would make you see stars

And he can see the way your eyes glaze over ever so slightly

It's the narrative as he explains and the way your mind plays it out that has your thighs squeezing

You think it's subtle enough that he'd never notice

But he notices everything

And he needs you to see how good he could be for you

"Come on. Just trust me. We'll go right back like nothing ever happened right after if you want. Think of it as a learning experience."

And before long, he's got you agreeing

"Just so I can try it out."

He nods and agrees, going into the nightstand and grabbing the one single loose condom that's out of the box

The one he kept for just this very moment

A baby is like an eternal link

Even if you decide eventually that you wanted to leave him, he'd always have access to a part of you

A bond that would be unbreakable

The mother of his child

He'd be a wonderful protector and provider

You'll see that soon enough

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[hoonvrs]

ain’t lucas a sex offender🥸 why are his stans suddenly on my twt tl

[vinesinmyheart]

Coercion

Expectation.

The weight of being wanted,

Without wanting.

Knowing you’ll give,

Either way.

All day the weight builds,

It’s your body,

Or a fight.

Picking up kids,

Getting groceries,

Making dinner,

Knowing every minute,

It’s your body,

Or a fight.

Now the weight is crushing,

Your choices,

Have become his property.

The chores are done,

You’re masking,

A relaxed demeanor,

In your own home.

Deep inside,

There’s a storm,

Your back against the wall,

Will it be,

Your body

Or

A fight?

You quickly wipe away a few rogue tears,

They always spring up when it’s over.

He never asks why.

I’m sure you both know.

- E.M

[cozycabineer]

Not sleeping with men does not make lesbians, aka female homosexuals, misogynists. Not sleeping with men is not misogyny. Lesbians do not have to sleep with men. It is great to be relieved and overjoyed that misogynistic, homophobic, society that views females as nothing more than reproductive resources hasn't successfully coerced you into "letting" a man rape you. It is great to not be coerced or forced to "let" a man rape you. No one is "twisting your words;" you used them clearly, precisely, concisely, and directly.

Every lesbian who has "slept with" (aka: "'consented' to sex with") a man was coerced. Coercion cannot be consent. Force is not consent, either. Successful coercion is rape; failed coercion is sexual harassment and often sexual assault.

We do not have to be raped to not be misogynists. We do not owe you being raped to be not deemed all misogynists.

A lesbian who has been raped, by method of coercion or force, is a gold star, just as a lesbian who has not been. A woman who sleeps with men because she's attracted to them is not a lesbian.

[campgender]

got excited bc a fic was tagged pillow princess & the blurb was about someone not liking giving fingering, but then the actual content was their partner shaming them for never fingering any of their prev partners / themself before & “teaching” them to be comfortable with it. so that wasn’t triggering at all 🙃💔

[konigsblog]

hihi, just wondering if you’ve ever done kinktober/plan on doing it? i love your writing and would love to see your take on it

I did do kinktober back in 2023 !!! 🎃🏚️

I'm not sure whether I'll do it again this year (since i have the tendency to forget and then panic after missing a day), but we'll see how I feel about it when the time comes :3 💗

[exhelluvafan]

Thoughts about the Helluva Boss Full Moon episode (cw: classism, sexual coercion and SA topics)

Rant under the cut.

The only thing that Stolas caught feelings for was Blitzø's cock, nothing else.

If he truly cared, then he would've apologized to Blitz and tried to comprehend his POV.

But guess what? He didn't, because he got denied imp dick and proceeded to throw a tantrum over it.

Nothing in this situation screams about "true love", this is exactly what Ozzie said and called out back in EP8, this is just a display of pure lust and no love.

It's just that Gary Stu Stolas just so happened to be attracted to Blitz because... idk, it never got elaborated further than "good sex".

How are we supposed to root for them both if they barely know each other outside of the bed?

Like, the only PROPER interaction they ever had was back when they were children, but outside of that, everything else has been some form of sexual interaction, either direct or indirect.

They don't even share hobbies nor likings, how tf are these going to be endgame when they're as incompatible as two puzzle pieces that just don't match at all?

And even that, Blitz has more chemistry with Fizz, Striker, Verosika (despite being exes, their interactions are still meaningful) and even fucking Chaz despite being in only one episode.

With this in mind, the Gary Stu owl is nothing but forcing himself onto Blitz's life, no wonder why Blitz decided to explode on him.

And even with all of this, we're supposed to side with the sexual predator a.k.a Stolas?

Haha, no, fuck you.

Stolas can go and fuck himself, despite Blitz being a douchebag, he's still a victim at the end of the day, and Stolas is a sexual predator at the end of the day, taking advantage of a lower class imp.

Of course, this show will bend over and start giving Blitz Stockholm Syndrome to force the Stolitz ship to happen, which of course because this is Viv who we are talking about, she doesn't know jackshit about relationships outside of dramatizations made by Broadway shows.

In the end, this whole thing boils down to this:

Blitz and Stolas were never meant to be together.

And this is clear from the very first episode of S1 and throughout all of S1 that Blitz and Stolas were never meant to be together at all, yes, the potential was there, but was squandered by the full moon deal.

Like, even a threesome consisting of Ozzie, Fizz and Blitz is far more probable to happen than fucking Stolitz.

Reminder that also Viv loves to rush and get to the "good part", scrapping any prior buildup it may need, it's now crystal clear that Blitz and Stolas were never meant to be a couple, maybe a crackship, but not canon.

And Viv's attempts to make it happen no matter what are severely harming the show, making Stolas slowly but surely start to:

Hogging more and more undeserving screen time.

Derailing the original premise of the show to the ground in favor of a stupid, nonsensical melodrama worthy of being in "La Rosa de Guadalupe".

And the worst of all, making people side with the predator (Stolas), while victim blaming the victim (Blitz)

This whole situation reeks of wasted potential in favor of making two blorbos make out, just for Viv's stupid self-absorbed pleasure, and it has been seen over and over again that Viv only makes the shows thinking about herself first, and later the wider audience.

(if the Hazbin EP4 fiasco wasn't enough to notice that.)

There's no feasible way that this melodramatic piece of garbage manages to finish S2, let alone have S3, because things are already starting to catch up against Viv and it shows, through the delays, the incessant need of Viv to keep herself locked in an echo chamber where they kiss her ass unconditionally and the fact that competence is already catching up to her, if not beating her to it (TADC, specifically).

But yeah, to start packing up this rant:

Fuck Stolas, he should've died all the way back in Harvest Moon if Viv wanted to get cheap angst, but Stolas became Viv's self-insert and creator's pet, so instead now the show will force the narrative to be in Stolas' favor and people will and ARE getting sick of it.

And it doesn't help the fact that Stolas is going to steal Verosika's spotlight in the next episode (Apology Tour), proving my argument about "Stolas hogging up more screentime than needed" is true and truer as time goes on.

tldr; go watch "La Rosa de Guadalupe" instead of whatever this piece of shit is, at least you can get a laugh or two out of it.

[c0rpseductor]

fucking hate fandom sometimes dude

i saw an emetwol fic with a loose premise i thought sounded interesting that was labeled as containing consensual sex. i said to myself great, i do not really want to read about assault right now, i think i'd get too upset!

it um. the actual situation (which was not really like, warned for, the summary was super vague) was that the main character became an ascian and like, did not like emet. but emet kept harassing her and antagonizing her over the years or however long she'd been evil now. finally she asks him "what is it gonna take for you to leave me the fuck alone" and he's like "ummmm sex duh" so the main character agrees to sleep with him if he'll stop antagonizing her for five years. my phone died after this which is likely for the best.

i just, like...i almost feel like i shouldn't have to explain how this is not actually consent? like if this happened in real life it would still be rape because she was coerced into saying yes. consent has to be given freely. rape isn't something that happens solely after a violent struggle. it's so frustrating to me because i've BEEN in the position of being coerced into agreeing to do sexual stuff i didn't want to and like, i blamed myself for ages even though it really isn't my fault that i just wanted to be left alone and chose to endure something bad to get that.

this kind of thing btw is what i mean when i say that fanfic does have an influence on like, how safe survivors are in a space. writing a story that is 100% rape and then labeling it as consensual is fucking cruel and on top of that makes me feel like this person would probably blame me for sexual abuse i "agreed to" under coercion or view it as consensual rather than abuse. and also now i get to sit with a bunch of awful memories because OP doesn't fucking understand how consent works and chose to make that everyone else's problem.

i don't even think the fic is inherently evil or something it was just very very improperly labeled and i think this is something that's easier to get away with in a space where rape is viewed and discussed largely through a sensationalist lens detached from any sense of reality bc it's been reduced to a trope. like yeah i get that erotica is not real life but i do think it has some implications when we've got a stupid fucking echo chamber on our hands where everyone is so fixated on a sexualized caricature of abuse that they're unable to identify or communicate when they write the real thing. makes me worry about whether they can identify it in reality too. like if the product of this subculture is someone writing a story about a character being coerced into performing sexual favors for a consistent harasser and labeling it consensual i just. i don't know about that!

[fireheartedpup]

I keep having to walk away from Bridgerton because Daphne isn't acknowledging just how badly she broke Simon's trust.

She knew he was against having kids, she knew what he was going to do, she knew what he wanted to do, and she did what she wanted anyway because she didn't think his reason was good enough.

I think his reasoning is bullshit and I don't blame her for the rest of it. I just wish she would mention the fact that she forced him into a position she knew he didn't want to be in.

[froody]

men on r/relationships will be like “I’m struggling to remain faithful to my wife because I’m not attracted to her postpartum body and the rude attitude she suddenly developed after she suffered a traumatic stillbirth at 8 months. I don’t know why she’s so mad at me, she didn’t even want the baby, I’m the one who begged her to get pregnant and also tricked her into not taking her birth control. Anyway, she’s a bitch, right? It was my kid too. I’m a nice guy, no normal person could resist sticking their dick in a hot 20 year old co-ed in this situation. Also I’m 46 and my wife is 25 so she’s kind of getting older anyway.” I have the solution to this situation, dude! Kill yourself.

[campgender]

huge cw for coercion & specifically the rape culture “melt the stone” shit

was reassuring myself like oh ig she’s just an asshole or whatever when this one butch said she stopped IDing as stone bc she realized it was “unfair” for her to not get touched….. and then she elaborated and it turns out what actually happened is her fem convinced her it was unfair to the fem that she wouldn’t let her fem top her. and now i’m like well fuck i wish you’d just been an asshole