#queerio nonsense

[mmothmanners]

@bowl-o-queerios Why it’s as easy as insane dexterity and items! Behold his nonsense:

[yuri-for-businesswomen]

tumblr(.)com(/)gerardpilled(/)741624939337138176(/)soooo-much-of-the-modern-conception-of-gender-is OP's tags and also a bunch of people/queerios/libfems in the notes talking as if this is what radfems believe/radfems fault. insanityyyy how do they not realize this is them

its funny because the imaginary part is gender/identity not sex lmao. what „terfs“ insist on

umm the holy mother of queer theory and „gender is performance“ nonsense is judith butler. who is explicitly anti „terf“

this one is just funny because this is what „terfs“ criticise all the time, gender (femininity/masculinity) and sexual orientation as purchasable products. again, lmao

i thought these tags were wonderful! thats exactly it. for example, i feel a lot of taylor swift haters hate her for misogynistic reasons, (like remember when the main thing people hated her for was „dates too much“ and then writes songs about it?) and people hating her predominantly female fans for either being too crazy about taylor or white feminists or basic bitches or whatever, when there are valid criticisms to be had with taylor (her private jet use, some of her lyrics and behaviour, and so on) and some of her fans (like the gaylor conspiracists). i also want to mention that sometimes women get valid criticism for something, but their male counterparts dont criticised for doing the same thing (like the jet use), which is more subtle but also misogynistic. nuance is really difficult for most people

[mizufae]

If you are feeling grumpy and left out of heteronormative life stage activities for whatever reason I suggest engaging with your substance of choice (mine is doritos) and watching the horrible “reality” tv show Married At First Sight. Holy shit, I have to watch it with the detached air of a nature documentarian. Every second of it overflows with hetero nonsense. It makes me feel vastly superior in a way that Hoarders does not, because with Hoarders I feel genuine sympathy and hope that the families in the show have brighter futures. But everyone on this show is just absurd or atrocious in some way that means when they make stupid choices I feel nothing but fascination and relief that I am over here in my queerio zone, free of societal obligations and allowed to examine life choices and expectations on an individual basis. Also, every white person seems interchangeable?? Amazing. Who are these people? Why are they doing this? Are they trapped in this false bower bird ritual of their own volition? Who told them they should do this??

[mithliya]

I am bi, and I do fully accept that lesbians prob have it harder. But I get what anon is saying about bisexual being associated with “alphabet soup nonsense”, it’s really fucking annoying. All the queerios (straights) pushing demisexual and pansexual and genderqueer etc etc have made it so that quite a lot of the time when I say I’m bi I get an eye roll or somebody telling me I’m an idiot and this identity crap has gone too far. I’m just attracted to both sexes ffs. We’ve always been here.

yeah i can imagine that :/ tbh as a lesbian i think we’re often either associated with it or othered by our own “alphabet soup” community bc of assumptions that we’re hateful for being homosexual… so it just feels like we aren’t accepted anywhere to me. and im sure bis who speak against that stuff feel similarly.. luckily no one says “this identity crap has gone too far” over me saying im a lesbian tho. i guess that’s a consequence specifically of bisexuality having only become more known around the 80s

[your-dads-top]

TAG LIST & THEIR MEANINGS

gay straight relations | The tag I use to talk about interpersonal relationships between gay men and straight people, most often heterosexual women.  Topics range from homophobic/heterosexist microaggressions, straight women ‘grooming’ gay men, and straight women as sexual predators.

brocub and the bathhouse | The tag I use to discuss work and the assorted bullshit that comes along with working in that space.

intracommunity nonsense | The tag I (will) use to discuss issues between gay men, lesbians, and bisexuals... also troons of the homosexual transsexual variety.  HIV, substance abuse, and general queerio nonsense will go here.

dangerACE | The tag I (will) use to discuss the issues I have with including asexuals in LGB spaces.  Mostly will have to do with normalizing loveless relationships.

team monogamy | The tag I (will) use to merrily shit on anyone in open or polyamorous relationships and their negative impact on gay men.

het wars | The tag I (will) use to rag on straight people and their bullshit with each other.  Typically where I screenshot straight people being hypocrites to one another.

kink police | The tag I (will) use to rag on stupid ass kinks like pup play, DDLG, crossdressing, furries, and whatever other bullshit you need to avoid confronting how much you can’t consent to your partner.  Dick piercings will be confiscated and melted down for scrap metal.

[auxfem]

so my mom and sisters and I had a conversation about gender and sexuality and honestly it was so uncomfortable. i barely said anything because my older sister was dominating the conversation because she's on the gender train and I was terrified of saying anything she'd think was "terfy". so picture the scene: my mom: a middle aged normie Christian straight woman, my oldest sister: also a Christian straight woman, my older (as opposed to oldest) sister: a bi woman very clearly involved in gender nonsense, and me: a rad-leaning lesbian (and the youngest, so you can imagine the dynamic). idk if anyone is bothering to read this because idk how to really break it down but I just need to get this off my chest. so my sister believes there are "infinite genders" and that sexual orientation is based on gender identity. blegh. we were discussing whether or not a woman dating a trans woman can be a lesbian. obviously not, right ladies? but I can't say that because like I said, I'm fucking terrified of my sister labeling me a "terf". so I have to play along and keep my mouth shut. what a wonderful scene, a lesbian being silenced. to make matters worse, my sister started spewing nonsense about how "it would be so weird if a lesbian was only attracted to vaginas like is she gonna go up to a woman and be like "hey can I see your coochie"" and that made me SO UNCOMFORTABLE. that was SO homophobic! like, how the fuck does attraction work for you? how do you think it works for straight people? you think straight women are flirting with men going "hey can I see your dick?"?? how did you getting together with your boyfriend go? she just doesn't fucking understand because she's bi and therefore thinks everyone else is bi too. so there I was, not saying anything because what was I supposed to say to that?? I don't want to talk about the specifics of lesbian attraction with my family because sexual attraction is a very uncomfortable family topic! I'm not gonna tell my Christian mother what makes me horny! I'm not gonna explicitly tell half my family "yeah I like vaginas. yeah I experience sexual attraction to female bodies" like it was fucking hard enough to come out the first time!!! and I DONT want to talk about it with them! I don't regret coming out to my family but I still don't say a fraction of all the things I think about my life as a lesbian. I'm so frustrated! I'm so frustrated that my oldest sister is hearing these things about the LGBT community from my queerio older sister and thinking that's how every LGBT person thinks when I'm not like that! "I'm not part of this!" is what I wish I could say, but its like I'm in the damn closet all over again!! coming out once was hard enough, now I gotta share my opinions??? I wish I could but it's like it's even more taboo than being gay!!!! I shudder to think what my mom was thinking when my sister said that vile shit about how it'd be SO WEIRD for a lesbian to ONLY be attracted to vaginas. its like, what did you think that would accomplish, you motherfucker?!?! do you want our mother to picture us as hypersexual deviants for only liking the same sex????? did you think about how I'd feel when you said that??? thanks a lot for further alienating me you fucking idiot!!! God, I am SO fucking mad.

later the conversation delved into things like pregnancy and birth control and with that it made it really clear that my older sister (the bi one) definitely still knows what biological sex is and that only females aka WOMEN can get pregnant and it was so fucking weird because where's your gender shit now? it was like whiplash because she was JUST saying how ridiculous it was that sexual orientation could. y'know. be related to biological sex, and now she's acknowledging that pregnancy and birth control is a female issue so like, what the fuck???? and like she was talking about a trans man she follows online getting a hysterectomy so like, she knows trans men are female. when we were taking about trans women she acknowledged that yes, a trans woman is born male, but somehow being pre-op or post-op doesn't matter in sexual orientation?? and if you say that theres an infinite amount of genders and that gender is at the root of sexual orientation then what the fuck is sexual orientation? how the fuck is anybody supposed to define their attraction like that? if there's an infinite amount of genders because everyone has their own gender because everyone has different life experiences then WHAT. THE. FUCK. IS. GENDER?!?!?!?!?!?!? AND HOW DOES THAT WORK INTO SEXUAL ORIENTATION??????? if there's infinite genders and gender is the basis of sexual orientation then there's infinite sexual orientations and it's impossible to define!!!!!!!!!!! so thanks, now in your eyes homosexuality doesn't exist and doesn't even matter. thanks a fucking lot. look, I love my sister, but I had no idea she was so deep in kweer gender-loving shit. and I am SO ANGRY about what she said last night (which was when this discussion occurred). idk what this means about my overall opinion of her yet.

[sleepytisi]

Dude.... @smol-angry-bowl-of-queerios you gotta calm your fuckin nonsense. The WHO website has a recipe that is really easy to follow to make sanitizer that works just as well as Purel. Did you know that humans used to make things before corporations did?

Coronavirus: exists

Quarantined cottagecore people: time to bake bread

(My loafs are currently in the oven)