#plus im in my right he obviously didn't read my dni and still interacted w/ me anyway

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leans back and sips from my wine . swirls it around quietly. theres a lot but ill quickly go over what was my snapping point(s)

quick disclaimer ; this is all stuff that made me (and a few others) PERSONALLY uncomfortable, I'm not going to say that i have the last say or law of the land or whatever. i rlly dont give a shit, this is just to clarify why *I* don't want him near me.

[ TW ; talk of minors around n/$f/w , weird interactions between adults + minors revolving n/$f/w content , n/$f/w ]

1 ) weird dni on an nsfw post

while i can understand that this could entirely be a case of bad wording, i'm still uncomfortable with it. it -unintentionally or not- dismisses the whole 'minors dni' part of it, with a sort of 'you CAN read, just be sneaky about it, k?' sorta vibe. while, i do hope this was just a case of bad wording, given his other interactions with minors i still think its something worth glancing at.

2 ) accepting suggestive content from minors

ANOTHER quick disclaimer - i cannot, in good faith, blame the minor in the situation for this at all. salem, while not incredibly old, is still over 18 and should be aware of how that affects his interactions w/ minors in these sorts of lights. he should be aware that it is under no circumstances ok to accept / support nsfw (or nsfw aligned) content from a minor. again, i am NOT at all blaming the minor in this situation.

while it isn't SUPER blatant nsfw or anything, I still think the art is suggestive enough that it's worth acknowledging. and while i am aware that this could've been miscommunication / misinterpreting, i still find it questionable.

3 ) repeated untagged content

this one i really dont think i need to bring specific examples up for. it's happened time and time again that it's hard to not notice. they allow minors to follow them with this warning:

this is fine. whatever. i dont care yknow. however, the problem comes when this content isn't tagged, meaning there's nothing keeping said minors from viewing said nsfw content. this makes the point fall apart. i KNOW this untagged content is a problem because, again, i and several others have seen it again and again.

if you need a specific example, here's this (again, nsfw warning. this time explicit kink mention). while im aware this was a mistake, that doesn't mean the reblog of the deleted mistake post should have no 'minors dni' tag, as they're still going to see something that was originally meant for a no minors blog.

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again, im not law of the land. this isn't a 'callout,' if anyone calls this that ill go fucking deranged /srs . it's not a callout or anything, this is just an explanation for those who are curious. im not going to argue with anyone about this because quite frankly i really dont fucking care. salem has violated my dni in two different ways and followed me twice despite that until i hardblocked. im personally uncomfortable with him and i personally dont want him near me or my content.

this is only my personal few points, there's a lot more but i don't want to get into it for my own comfort / sanity. /hj